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June 18, 2004

Update from Camp Fallujah

The following excerpts are from the last newsletter from the 9th Communication Battalion at Camp Fallujah, Iraq.

I hope this e-mail finds all of you well and enjoying spring, wherever you may be. I would like to say that we are enjoying spring in Iraq, but it was only here for two days and has since been replaced with whatever season is marked by heat and sudden nasty sandstorms. I am glad that we don't have this season in the United States. The Iraqis can keep this country. We have one that is much better than this.

The heat of an Iraqi summer was described by my son last year as like sitting in front of a sandblaster that happens to be located in a blast furnace. Add full Kevlar to that and it's no wonder there were rumours among the Iraqi people that the Marines were issued air-conditioned underwear. My Marine said he would have spent two month's pay on something like that.

Since I last wrote, a great deal has happened on the news. Unfortunately, it has mostly been very disturbing news. The photos of the prison, the murder of Mr. Berg...it's all just disturbing. We have taken the opportunity to talk to the Marines about the importance in this environment and in this mission of the actions of the individual. Just one unit...one very bad unit, has put the President of the United States on report and caused people around the world to question this mission and, more importantly, the values of our country. Folks, here's the thing; we ask a lot of Marines. We push them harder and ask more from them. This situation out here right now is why we have to do that. This cause here is just. The murder of Nick Berg demonstrated once again that the mission here is real and just. I believe that if we don't deal with murderers on their own turf, they will bring the fight to us. Things like discipline and duty and leadership and just doing the right thing can never be taught and talked about too much. This is why we push Marines...so that when no one is watching or in the absence of good leadership, good family upbringing, Marine training and core values will all kick in. When I look at what happened at that prison, I am just glad all over again that I am a Marine.

Aside from what has been on the news, it has been quiet here on Camp Fallujah for a few weeks now. There have been signs of enemy hostility at camps all around us, but things have been quiet here on this camp. We are watching with interest the developments out in Fallujah, but that has really quieted down...well, maybe it's even been a bit too quiet. We'll see. It would be good if those infantry battalions could shift their focus to other areas of this province, but for now, they are still here...in Fallujah working with the Fallujah Brigade. We just pray that this all ends well.

In the past couple of weeks, they have opened a third chow hall for the Marines. This third chow hall is in a hardened building, so that Marines can safely enjoy a meal even if it does get exciting around here again. The food really did take a dip in quality for a while, mainly because the food trucks couldn't get through to us. Now, it seems like it is getting much better again. For the past two days, in fact, we have even had fresh salad again. There has also been fruit available for the past week or so. It's all good. The Marines are getting plenty to eat.

Here's a request that I'm sure a lot of folks on the home front will be happy to comply with.

Please keep praying families. Our completely successful convoy this week proved to me again that we have been given a hedge of protection that only be explained by fervent prayer. I don't believe in luck. Please stay in touch with each other. Thanks for all that you are doing at home to allow your Marines to work so hard here. We all appreciate your sacrifice.

And we appreciate your sacrifice, more than words can say.

Posted by Deb at June 18, 2004 01:25 PM

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Comments

My son is there with RCT-1. We pray for him everyday and hope for a safe return soon. Please let all our Marines know that we are here supporting their service, praising their accomplishemnts and crying for those injured or killed whether we know them personally or not. They are all our sons and in this time all need all our support.

Semper Fi!

Gary E. USMC/ret

Posted by: Gary at June 27, 2004 10:16 AM

My son is with the 1st Battallion 8th Marines...I want ALL our boys to know they are in our prayers and thoughts daily, we are very proud of them and love them ALL.

A Marine's Mom

Posted by: Carrie Poole at July 20, 2004 05:20 AM

We have a son stationed at Camp Fallujah and he has been in several fire fights. Please know our church prays not only for him, but for all Marines stationed in Iraq. Forget what the liberal press says, as we know our Marines are doing a great job in the war against terror. We pray an army of angels will watch over each and every Marine. We are so very proud of all of you.
When times get hard, remember the thousands who pray each day for you. You are not alone!

A Marine Mom and Dad who loves our country and our fighting men and women.

Posted by: Bill and Becky Smith at July 28, 2004 09:53 AM

I stumbled upon this website, looking for any Marine Corps info I could find. I don't know how it works but I am a Marine Mom, and I am scared to death. I am hoping that this site will lead me to somebody who will help me. My son is with a Radar Detachment at Camp Pendleton and will be leaving for Camp Fallujah in 2 weeks. Can families keep in touch with their Marines via email or through this website? Also, is there a Mom I could talk with who has a Marine in Fallujah? Thank you for anything you can help me with.
Karen Graeff, Cleveland. (I don't know what URL means. I hope it's not essential to get this message through)

Posted by: karen graeff at August 10, 2004 03:58 PM

I am a Marine Mom, who's son was sent to Camp Fallujah on August 21st. I read your comments Karen and like you I am scared also. He did get to call several days after arriving to let us know that he was there. I would love to talk to other Marine mom's too. We can keep wach other going through this.
Gail Overton, Memphis TN.

Posted by: Gail Overton at August 27, 2004 09:39 AM

Stay Stong Marine Moms!!!!

Posted by: J at August 30, 2004 04:37 AM

My Husband is a Marine .. We only have 3 months of Marriage and he was sent to Camp Fallujah August 15th 2004 from Camp Pendleton.. He said he was gonna try to call me as much as possible but I've only gotten 2 phone calls.. he was calling from a satellite phone the line kept cutting off. by the way he's the General's driver.. I'm scared too..

My co worker's son just got back from Iraq and she said that her son thanked her for all the letters she had sent him.. The letters and little things she had sent him made him feel loved and strong... to all the Moms I think we should do that.. keep our Marines strong! go to marinesparents.com and theres a list of things that they need...to anyone that has a Marine in Camp Fallujah I would appreciate some information..

Janeth

Posted by: Janeth at September 1, 2004 06:19 PM

Our only daughter who will be a Marine 3 years in January was sent to Camp Fallujah on August 23,2004. We to fear for her life as well as all the other military personal.We pray God will protect them all and bring them back home to their families alive and well. Her main request was to send them some rice krispies, can you believe that?!

Posted by: Ed & Lisa Ullman at September 2, 2004 03:42 AM

HELP... my son is being sent to Camp Fallujah. He is a JAG, and while I know he will not be directly involved in combat, I am scared to death for his safety. I wold love to chat with other moms that know anything about this camp..

Posted by: denise jaffe at September 2, 2004 02:00 PM

Dear Janeth,

My son was recently sent to Camp Fallujah. I've only had one phone call since he arrived nearly 2 weeks ago, and that was a very short call. There are numbers on the Marine moms website that we can call to get a mailing address. I would love to talk with you and keep in touch with any marine moms and dads who need to talk. Keep praying!!! MMgail

Posted by: Gail at September 3, 2004 05:35 AM

Our daughter left Camp Pendleton Sept.6th and now resides at Camp Fallujah. She is a combat engineer but is there in the capacity of watch officer. Like the rest of you, we are concerned for her safety and safe return. We are glad to find this site. We think and pray daily for her and all of our troops in Iraq. The phone cards over there are very expensive. Does anyone know if we get international cards here if she can use them over there?

Posted by: Dianne & Bill at September 12, 2004 05:05 PM

Maybe this can be of some help; go to www.google.com and type in: "Camp Fallujah" in the search box. This is how we found this site.

Posted by: Dianne & Bill Barnes Canton, Oh. at September 12, 2004 05:22 PM

For those family members and loved ones you should know that Key Volunteers are available to help families with any issues that might arise whilst your marine is deployed in Iraq.

You should contact the Family Readiness Officer of your marines batallion. These Key Volunteers will help you with your questions or provide solutions if you are experiencing problems of any nature.

Posted by: Amanda Fritz at September 13, 2004 09:14 AM

My son leaves Pendleton this Friday and is headed for Camp Fallujah. This is his first deployment. He just graduated from MCRD in April. He will join the RCT1. I am so proud of him and all our son's and daughter's serving in the Marine Corps. My prayers are with them as well as us - the parents. We must stay strong for them because that is our mission. God Bless.

Posted by: Lari Miles at September 15, 2004 07:01 AM

My son just went to Camp Fallujah. His words to me were "Mom don't watch CNN" The news people have to look pretty hard to find all the bad stuff they show us. Our loved ones do so much more over there than any knows. It isn't consist fighting. Sure they are in danger. But driving down the freeway is just as bad in some places. We need to remember that are loved ones are the best trained in the world. And even though we are scared and just want them to come home, we need to remember that they want to get their job's done and come home too. So all the postive stuff we can do and say, is the best thing we can do for each other and them.
I have put my son in Gods hands and pray that it is over soon. Anyone is welcome to email me any time they want to talk.

Posted by: Patty at September 15, 2004 08:31 PM

Our son left for Fallujah on 9/11, thank god we have so far received a few phone calls from him (nothing like when he was last there). JR is with the 2nd Tank Btl/Charlie Co. Any Mom's or Dads who have someone with him, would like to hear from you.
Kathy & Pete Nicholsen

Posted by: Kathy at September 17, 2004 06:22 AM

My husband is currently at Camp Fallujah. I long for pictures of the camp so I picture everyday what it looks like. If any one has any to share let me know.

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 17, 2004 10:35 PM

My husband is currently at Camp Fallujah. I long for pictures of the camp so I picture everyday what it looks like. If any one has any to share let me know.

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 17, 2004 10:36 PM

God bless the 9th COMM....they're starting to head home. Round 2 is almost over!

Posted by: Nelda at September 19, 2004 07:35 AM

My son, Donald Fachko, is an United States Marine. He left from Camp Pendelton August 31st and has been in Fallujah for about 2 1/2 weeks.

No one can prepare you for the sense of uncertainty and sadness. I pray for his safety everyday and well as the other guys he is with.
I am very proud of my son and what he is having to face at the age of 20.

Ma

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at September 19, 2004 04:54 PM

Patricia,
My husband is also at Camp Fallujah he is with 1MEF comand element . What does your son do? I am packing anoher car package. My husband has asked for Gatorade,trail mix,coffee and lots of beef jerky. I got a letter form him today and it takes exactly 2 weeks. That is how long my packages are taking. I mail them priority. I look foward to hearing from you and other families with loved ones over the you.There are no other Marine families here in Spokane,Wa that I know of who have loved ones at Camp Fallujah.Our son Adam is a Navy Explosive Ordinace Diver andhe is 20 so I know how hard it is.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 21, 2004 07:26 PM

I meant care package sorry about that
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 21, 2004 07:43 PM

Dear Moms, Dads and spouses.
Above is a good suggestion to contact your Family Readiness Officer of your Marines' Batallion or unit. I recently became a Key Volunteer for our Marine's out of the Rock Island IL Arsenal. Our second batch of 61 Marine Reservists left for IRAQ from Pendleton Aug 31 2004 also. After my son called to say goodbye, I didn't sleep the whole night. I was driving myself and everyone else in the house crazy so I decided to do other things, whatever I could to help. The longer you do nothing but think about it, the harder it is. I challenged my son's elementary school to donate Gaterade and Crystal Light packages. Hopefully I will soon have over 200 to send to area servicemen and women of all branches. I also challenged the teachers to use one of their Language classes to write letter to the Marines. Several grades will do different writings for Halloween cards, Thanksgiving cards, Christmas cards and just plain notes and letters. Our unit sends out one care package a month to the Marines so I will be throwing the cards, letter and juices in the boxes as we pack the care packages. I also will be sending my son a bunch of the letters, etc in his care packages I send to him to hand out to all the guys he works with over there. I did this when he was in bootcamp and all the guys loved it. A few even wrote back to the kids and if you didn't think that was exciting hearing from a Marine. WOW!!!! They wanted to do it again. However, only at Christmas were they able to actually get a package....Christmas treats for everyone. My son is 21 and I think of him all day every day. I don't watch the news like one son said above.....I joined the Marine Key Volunteer program and I hear all I want from them. I have several families that I will be communicating with. I'm just beginning and so far I find it exciting. I know I'm doing something that might be helpful for others and I bug my son's Staff Sgt all the time. We even have a WEB page for this unit, we get a few pictures from them and we throw our own on so they can see us and vice versa. Check out a Family Readiness Officer and see what you can do or how you can help. Call the nearest Marine Reservist group in your area, they can direct you to someone who can help you if they have been statined at Camp Pendleton or elsewhere as active Marines. If you were active in their school activities, you can still be active now by helping them. Some things I send: cereal like Oreo cereal, Reeses cereal to munch on instead of candy, sun flower seeds, cracker packs like Cheeze its, dorito crackers, gum, Lil Deb's oatmeal cookies, beef jerky, chips in cans like Pringles, peanuts, magazines if they get one in the mail. And in every package I send something silly, like a little kids basketball hoop with suction cups, wind up cars for racing (what male ego is not going to want to challenge his buddy to a race), decks of cards, travel games, for Halloween he's getting a big western hat that is black and white like a cow (we're from Iowa). All this stuff was on clearance racks and when he opens it up, he'll be smiling and looking forward to what's next. Cards go out every three days at the least. Go to a discount card place like Card Factory for 59 cent cards. No matter where you go, something will be silly enough to attract your eye. Buy it and send it off, don't think twice about it. I get excited at just sending the packages because I have fun doing it. They are stuffed full. I get all the boxes from the post office, including labels and packing slips. They may cost $20 to $25 to send but he's worth it and I know he'll get a kick out of it. Better stop or I'll be using the whole website. You all have a great day and put the guys and gals in your prayers and leave the rest to God because they are not in a place you can do anything anyway so rest peacefully. Our Marines have their misson and God has his. "Semper Fi"

Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 21, 2004 08:49 PM

Sandy,
I enjoyed your email.I too am a KVN with the Battery here in Spkane,Wa . My usband use to be the Co so I volunteerd to keep myself busy. Sounds like you are doing a lot of great things. I found a lady called the cookie lady who forwarded her recipes for cookies that hold up in shipping. So I have been busy baking.I am making pillowcases for the Marines I write to and my husband's buddies.I lok forwad to more sugesstions.I have been doing this for 24 years and it never gets easier. you and your Marines and all our service men and wome are in my daily prayers.Where is your son?
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 21, 2004 08:57 PM

Hi Mary Helen,
My son seems to be were everyone else's son is. I bet you've done a lot of traveling all over the world with your husband a CO. Probably a lot of lonely nights also. So who are what service people are you writing to. Pillow cases sound great. I sent a plastic pillow like thing for my son. I figured anything is better than nothing. You'll have to share the cookie receipe. I just made some where you make the cookies in little muffin pans and then before taking them out you put a little Reese's Peanut Butter cup in them. I'll then put them in a round 2 qt juice container. They definitely won't move and the guys can use it for whatever they want to. Nice talking to you. Have a good evening.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 22, 2004 05:51 PM

Sandy,
This is what the Cookie Lady forwarded to me. Also put in the words Cookie Lady or cookiesfor the troops and there is alot of sites with Ideas. Good Luck
Mary Helen

I just use the recipe on the Nestle's bag for original Toll House cookies. Now that it is so very hot over there, I substitute the choc. chips with m&m's. I also add a little baking powder because I live in a very humid climate. Don't forget to underbake by at least a minute to allow for travel time. I use the recipe on the Quaker oats for the oatmeal-raisin cookies.
You may want to try the recipes on the web-site for using cake mix to make cookies.
May they return to you soon and safely.

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 22, 2004 08:28 PM

Sandy,
Your idea sounds great. Also oatmeal cans and pringle cans. I am making pillwcases for the Marines that I am a KVN to their families and also my husbands group that work with him. Sorry about my spelling my fingers go to fast. I emailed this site to my husband and he told me to start using spellcheck or proof read my post. I guess he has to think he is still in charge at home too.HAHA Even though he is sooo far away.
The nights do get lonely,but I try and stay busy and spend alot of time doing for others and praying. Talk to you soon.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 22, 2004 08:35 PM

Hi Mary Helen,
Someone recently told me about the pringle cans. I never could get my kids to eat oatmeal so forget the oatmeal cans. I love M&M cookies and crunchy cookies. My son likes them soft and I suppose they would travel much better a little undercooked. I'll have to remember that.

Remember the picture I told you about, it didn't turn out because the person taking the picture was back to far, so you couldn't read the words. I'll have to try something else.

I'm hoping to hear from son that he at least received the first package I sent to him. I mailed it 9/7/04, he's got three more after that. I talked to my sister today, in AZ and she found an International card she is sending to my son. I think he pays about $2.33 a minute to call home now and supposedly she talked to AT & T and this card he can call to the states for 33 cents a minute. I hope she's right. Once in a great while I get an email, otherwise he calls about once a week. I don't know how many computers that are available there, do you?

I'm starting to look for small Christmas gifts to send over. One is a video game with 50 games on it. He was going to buy a TV/DVD from someone over there. I suppose on of the guys on their way home soon. The second is a watch with a picture in it with him and his girlfried. It's really pretty cool. He told me that just because he is over there he doesn't want to be jipped of his Christmas gifts. I'm one who goes broke on presents for by kids, I love Christmas and they really are spoiled. I get scolded every year. I think this year it will definitely be cut back time though. Actually at $25.00 to mail a package every week, he is getting his presents now.

How are you making your pillow cases, are you embroidering them or putting anything on them. I'll have to check with my son if he even has any pillows. It seems when he calls I never ask many questions, other than how are you doing and telling him a few things going on at home.

Well you take care. I guess we may be turning this more into a chat room. I hope your son and husband are doing well. Peace and prayers for all our military personnel each night. I look at the moon each night and hope my son is looking at it also, with the good Lord looking down on us.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 23, 2004 07:50 PM

Dianne and Bill,
Regarding phone cards, I believe my sister bought my son a card for 800 minutes for $26.00 at Sam's Club. I pretty sure she said it was an AT & T card. Be sure the back of it says the country "IRAQ". There are different card for different countries. Otherwise call AT&T and ask them about it. I know she called aT&T and they figured out that it would cost 33cents a minute to call home. My son is buying phone cards also over there..500 minutes for $32.00 and he can only talk about 137 minutes out of the 500 because it eats up the minutes so fast. It's worth a call maybe to see if they can help you or a Sam's Club if you have one in the area.
I salute your loved one.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 23, 2004 08:05 PM

I have some free at&t cards i can donate.If there is some way I can get them to you're loved ones let me know. Are we allowed to post our email address on this website? I will also emai to site for free cards for our troops.I am just making the pillowcses and embrodery(sp) their initials on the top.My husband told me 2 of his CPL's aren't getting mail so I am going to adopt them.Makes me sad.
Talk to you all later. I am off to the fair we are selling car magnets for 5.00 and money goes to help mail packages and goodies to the troops.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 24, 2004 09:21 AM

I love this site...
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 24, 2004 09:22 AM

Hello Mary Helen
I don't know but we seem to be doing all the talking. I just heard our first group of Marines that left in Jan are coming home VERY SOON. They are in Kuwait. We are planning a very big homecoming for them. I am going to take Monday off as a vacation and help with the preparations. I'm so exciting for our families waiting for them to return. I called one family to introduce myself as a Key Volunteer and the told me they received an email from their son, he was in Kuwait ready to come home. I was very surprised since the information I have, said he just left in August. Guess I had the wrong information. I told them I would call them back the minute I heard the Marines were in the air. I always want to say "guys" but there are so many courageous and wonderful women in there also. I'm just so use to saying guys all the time. I certainly do not mean to slight the women by any means. They have more guts than I would have. Semper Fi Ladies.

I ordered some magnets myself from our Marine base. I just found them also on a web page on "www.marineparents.com" That is a very resourceful web page for anyone interested.
We sell them for our troop care packages also.
Hope you made lots of money.

Also on google put in search "campfallujah".
Do you want the weather in Baghdad or elsewhere...just call www.wunderground.com. Weather is in the 100's every day but evenings are a cooler 75 -77.

Take care, have a good night.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 24, 2004 07:55 PM

This time zone posting must be the west coast time zone, because it's way past my bedtime.

Posted by: Sandy A at September 24, 2004 07:58 PM

I've enjoyed the chatter in this thread and wanted you to know that you are the inspiration for launching our discussion board a bit early. We had planned on waiting until January but I don't think you can wait! So, we won't either. :-)

Deb

p.s. yes, the time zone is west coast - we're in Oregon.

Posted by: Deb at September 24, 2004 08:07 PM

Deb
Awesome!!!!! At least I inspired someone! I'm not known for that to much, usually I end up in trouble somewhere along the line. I really enjoyed the chats with Mary Helen and I was thinking we were wearing out our welcome on this site. Gosh I was so use to the two of us talking or me rambling (if you haven't noticed) that it's a little freaky having someone pop out of nowhere and telling us were an inspiration. I was actually hoping someone would join in. Then I thought maybe this site was only for one or two liners, not a book like I've been writing.
The internet is new for me and I'm addicted to it now, especially since I met Mary Helen. In fact I just explored more tonight and found there are all kinds of informational pages to this site . I just read all the other pages and even emailed the ladies who started this. Point me in the right direction, your right, I can't wait until January. I feel like your giving me a new toy....Christmas came early.
I've never been to the Northwest, but always wanted to....now I have a reason, so many nice people I'm meeting.
Thanks and have a great evening.
Sandy A

Posted by: Sandy A at September 24, 2004 09:17 PM

Oh my gosh, are you the Deb (founder) I just red about (I had to put the pun in, sorry). The redhead with an attitude I believe is how it was written. I like you attitude. Mine use to be brown, but my kids always say they enjoy making it gray. Well thank you for the Web page, I love it. If so, I feel like I just met one of the Queens of the Web. If not, your still great. I HAVE to say good bye or I'll be here til the sun comes up....about 6 more hours in IA.
Sandy A

Posted by: Sandy A at September 24, 2004 09:28 PM

One more thing, I love the bumper sticker, how do I get one???????

Posted by: Sandy A at September 24, 2004 09:36 PM

Sandy where do you live in Pacifc Northwest?
I am posting the sites I go to to find fun stuff
Bannersgrams.com
Betadesigns.com (free shipping)
www.serviceflags.com
www.MagnetsAmerica.com (free shipping)
www.cafepress.com They even have t-shirts for dogs that say have my heart is in Iraq or Afganistan.Yes, bought one for our border collie Daisey. i also found a dogs camo baseball hat at the fair. Now if the dog would only sit stil so I can take a picture for Daddy.
You can really make good money on the magnets if you buy them in large quanity and sell them for 5.00.
My husband's cousin will be home this weekend he was over therewith my hubby. My hubby doesn't get home til next September.
Deb where are you going to met yor son? Have fun and give him a hug fom his old Marine wife. God Bless
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 24, 2004 10:38 PM

Sandy I meant Deb and Deb I meant Sandy. My brain is tired Don't worry ladies, I am not tipping the bottle. I don't drink.Thank God i would be in trouble HAHA I need to go to bed. I meant ths old marine wife sorry. I can hear my hubby saying "Mary Helen use you spell check".sorry about that...Good Night
mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 24, 2004 11:22 PM

you sound pretty beat. Hope you made lots of money for your group. Did you read above Deb where Deb said they are starting a discussion board? Aren't we lucky we are so inspiring. Well just got home from a Boy Scout camp out dinner, with my youngest. He camped overnight last night and they had a picnic supper for the parents tonight. I had to take a dessert. They all looked like the will go to be early tonight. I believe they finally fell asleep about 2 AM this morning and then the coyotes started howling....it was full moon last night.
Went shopping for stuff to fill another care package up for my son, he finally got my first one. I'll need to send the Halloween box out soon. The kids at school were making up Halloween card and letters so I will need them first. Bless our babes fast asleep now I hope.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 25, 2004 04:11 PM

If you can let me know you're marines names so I can have my hubby look them up. Joanns Fabric store and Michaels has carvable pumpkins. I sent one to Rick they look real. Rick has always enjoyed carving pumpkins. I am going back to bed. I have spent alot of my weekend there. This past week wore me out.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 26, 2004 09:47 PM

Hi Mary Helen,
Please email me at sarensdorf@mchsi.com. We have both those stores here, I'll check it out. I just talked to a girl here who has a husband over there so we are going to start working together to get the community more aware. She is working through our church and I was doing the school so we are combining out efforts and hope to get lots of stuff to send over. Going to see if we can make grocery stores and some department stores as drop off points to gather the goods. Hopefully some cash donations to send packages also. The Marines that left in Jan are scheduled to be home next Monday or Tuesday. Not my son though, he just left in August. Thanksgiving and Christmas will be pretty lonely. He's already asking for Gramma's mashed potatoes and gravy.
I'm stilling doing homework with my youngest, so gotta go.
Take care and hope your feeling better.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at September 27, 2004 06:26 PM

Found your pumpkins. I'll wait another week when they go on sale and they want to get rid of them. I'll be sending my Halloween package out next week. I picked up 30 Halloween cards the kids at my son's school made. they are really cute. Next I'll be starting Thanksgiving items. I go a little note I found and am making little candy bags to to with the Thanksgiving cards that I'll be getting next from the school.
It says: WITH LOVE, FROM HOME!
A mint - You are worth a mint to us.
Gum - To remind you to stick with it.
Tootsie Roll - To remind you not to bite off more than you can chew.
Smartie Sweet Tart - To help you on the days you don't feel so smart.
Lifesaver - to help you stay afloat.
THANKS FOR ALL YOUR DOING.

Take care

Posted by: Sandy A at September 28, 2004 08:39 PM

Hi Ladies,
Now that I feel rested. I might be able to write a decent email. Rick has got all his packages in 10 to 14 days. The last one I sent is taking its time. I am getting worried. I sent smoked salmon in a vucum sealed bag. Hopefully it will get there today or tomorrow.Fall is in the air here. Sure wish my Marine was here to rake leaves. I guess I will have to pay a neighbor boy to do it. Well I am going to email my Marine and get some sleep.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 28, 2004 09:39 PM

Sandy,
We alwy put a litle blurb in the newspaper and contact the local media when war doig things for the troops (they love a good story) and usually hve a day when we meet and have peopl drop things off. That helps with theft of donated items. The magents are a great fundraiser. Get them from www.magnetsameica.com freeshipping. Good luck
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 28, 2004 09:51 PM

This note is on behalf of a coworker,Melanie. Her fianceeis is in Fallujah. She has not heard from him in 16 days-I know they can be extremely busy there, but she is worried sick. His name is Wit Sisulak -Marine reservist. If anyone can get any information it would be appreciated.
Thanks

Posted by: Trish hilliard at September 29, 2004 11:49 AM

From talking to my husband they are having trouble getting autovan lines out to make calls. They also are very,very busy. i am sure he is fine.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 29, 2004 06:17 PM

Dear Friends, Please assist us in support our sons and daughters that are risking their lives in Iraq /
The North Shore Youth Council kids
&
Our Key Volunteer a Member of the Marine Parents
Bill Shilling (Rob's Father)
&
along
with
Senator Ken LaValle & VFW RP. FEW Women & MP schools & RP Rotary & lots more friends!
Will be collecting items
for our adopted Unit of 80
Men and women Marines
serving in Iraq.
I St. Marine Expeditionary Unit
Combat Support Services
(Marine Corps Moms: Update from Camp Fallujah)
LCPL Robert Shilling's serving in the Marine Corp. in Camp Fallujah for
about 10 months. We as parents are so very filled with pride and faith that he will return safe. Rob is not just our son any more but he is a part of us all.
Together we would like to share our feelings of pride and faith.
He receives mail within 3 weeks from leaving the USA!
Keep Praying for Peace
((((((Hugs Marine Mom Janene)))))))
... either donating $5.00 for a yellow ribbon..or a small
gift ... call me at 744-0207 or write me nsyc2001@aol.com for more updates...Rob called Monday and is feeling fine...tried and he has a cold...He is working 12 hour shifts...says he is safe.
Praying for Peace
I St. Marine Expeditionary Unit
Combat Support Services

Contact us if you are interested in getting involved!
Thanks so very much
sun block
DVD's
Magazines (Sports, Music, ext)
socks white
hard candy
tooth brushes
tooth paste
lotion
OFF spray
soap
cards
small board games
The Marine Corps Prayer
Almighty Father, whose command is over all and whose love never fails, make me aware of They presence and obedient to Thy will. Keep me true to my best self, guarding me against dishonesty in purpose and deed and helping me to live so that I can face my fellow Marines, my loved ones and Thee without shame or fear. Protect my family. Give me the will to do the work of a Marine and to accept my share of responsibilities with vigor and enthusiasm. Grant me the courage to be proficient in my daily performance. Keep me loyal and faithful to my superiors and to the duties my country and the Marine Corps have entrusted to me. Make me considerate of those committed to my leadership. Help me to wear my uniform with dignity, and let it remind me daily of the traditions which I must uphold. If I am inclined to doubt, steady my faith; if I am tempted, make me strong to resist; if I should miss the mark, give me courage to try again. Guide me with the light of truth and grant me the wisdom by which I may understand the answer to my prayer.

Posted by: Ja at September 30, 2004 06:28 AM

Janene,
Where are you located?
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at September 30, 2004 08:26 AM

Hi

I have just found this site and I am learning a lot of useful tips. My son is at Camp Fallujah. He left in Aug. 04. I am interested in the groups that some of you are involved in. I know that people around me just don't realize how much a loved one who is overseas is always on your mind. I can't decide whether to watch the news or not. I do have faith that there are big angles guarding my son and yours. I stand on my faith. I do miss him and am concered that he has everything he needs. Thank you for all the tips that are in this site.

God bless and keep all of your Marines safe.

Joanne

Posted by: Joanne at October 2, 2004 07:44 PM

Joanne,
Hang in there. You are in my prayers so God will give you give you strength in this most difficult time. I know its hard I have been doing this for 24+ years and it never seems to get easier. My son now is also in the military he is a Navy Explosive ordinace diver. he disarms bombs and mines on land and underwater.My husband as you now is over there.too
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 3, 2004 08:23 AM

Hi All
Sending some prayers & hugs from MM NY.....
Ja

Posted by: Ja at October 3, 2004 02:25 PM

Hello everyone,
It seems like ages since I have been here. Another lady and I are organizing our community to send care packages to those in the local area. I have been busy making posters and cash jars to put in businesses to try and get people to donate. Today we had our church fall festival and I sold about 30+ ribbons so its a start. I think this is more work than I had wanted but we'll see how far we can make it. I have relatives selling the ribbons also. My youngest son sold almost all of the ribbons today. He just went up and said "My brother is in the Marines in Fallujah, would you buy a ribbon for $5.00". Some said he's a pretty good salesman, I think he's more a politician. He never stops talking and tries to go around every subject to get out of things. Someday, I hope to visit the White House as his mother. Look out world here he comes and he's only 12. Remember the name Sandy A.

Well, Mary Helen, how have you been doing? I see we have more mothers joining us. (Sorry, Deb, I know this is your site! Thanks again for the address.!!) How is your husband and son doing? Using spell check aren't you? Ha Ha! Hope all is well where they are.

Joanne and JA, welcome aboard. Before my son left I just kept thinking it will never happen. The time was always down the road. Yes! It is absolutely awful to have to say goodbye to your loved one and not know when you will see him/her again. The people at our church kept coming up to me all day, saying "How are YOU doing?" I just said I'm getting through each day. It's awful to say, but because they are not around and in your sight, it's like a death. There is a piece missing and you don't know what the next day brings. There is no way to get ahold of them, they aren't just away at school they are in a war zone, and out of our relm of your protection. There were days I thought I could beat him to a pulp when he was younger, but now I want him back just to put my arms around him and say, those were such stupid arguments and were not important. Just come back the same as you left. We have no idea what they will be like when they come back, it's extremely scary.

A cousin of mine told me she knows a Marine who was in the first Gulf War. Now he continuously says I really should be over there with my commrades. He paid his dues the first time but thinks he should be over now too. I guess this is why they say the Marines are a family, they continue to think they should be helping out.

As far as making it through, I don't listen to the news much anymore. Yes there is still killing, bombing, etc going on, however, I have talked to several soldiers that were over there and they all tell me the same thing. The media dwells on the bad. Ordinary citizens, like you and me, are extremely grateful we are there. they thank them all the time. We don't hear that from the media, they don't report that stuff. The ones that do not want us over there are the ones that are calling themselves the military in Iraq, Afganistan, etc. They don't want the people to have the power, they want the power to control the people as usual. They do not know any other way. It is those who gained things from having power that are fighting us. Look how Hussin lived in such luxury and all those around him the same. They benefited from the power, not the regular citizens. They never lived without fear their entire life. They have a small taste of it now and want if forever. Ok, I've said enough, Sorry, I got carried away.

Anyway, maybe you can get some other ladies to try what I am doing. Contact a school and see if you can get the kids to all donate one jar of Gatorade or Crystal Light, I did. Schools are looking for projects to help the kids understand these times also. The 8th grade students made 30 Halloween card for me to send over. The 7th grade will make Thanksgiving cards and the 6th grade Christmas cards. Some of the Halloween cards I picked up are hilarious. Everyone of them ended by thanking them for being there and keeping us safe and our freedom secure. They may not understand the whole problem, but they do know we sleep, breathe and eat with our freedom here. Your churches will help donate items, even your community. In five days, we picked up 6 boxes of donated items for our project just from our church. Stores are tight on giving donations because they are hit up by everyone, we decided to tell them immediate, we don't want a donation from you, we want to put a box or a cash jar in your establishment for customers to donate. They are jumping at that idea. It lets them off the hook and people are glad to throw an item in or some coins in. They just don't want someone to say "I'm doing this, can you give me something". On their own they are doing great. And I have to say, it's work but it keeps me busy and I makes me feel good. It also gives you a chance to talk about your feelings and concerns which is very important for you. So what if I don't clean my house or cut my grass. I'm to busy doing other things that have more meaning for me at this moment. You'll be surprised how much you'll get back from talking to total strangers and the great concern they have for YOUR son, not everybody else's but at this moment they will be praying for your son. Nobody wants to go to war, but you know what,it happened and there isn't anything you can do about it. Should we have gone, well if we didn't would we have had another devestating attack, probably - maybe? I was never able to predict the future, the past is over and today is today. Let's move on and make each day count, life is to short. DAMN....I'm sorry, I just keep rambling don't I. Please do not take any offense........and no, I have no idea who I'm voting for.

Once again, check with your sons' Marine unit or a nearby Reserve Unit for things you may be able to help with. A key volunteer helps other Marine families keep going. They can help you find out what is happening to your sons unit or send you information to help you understand what is available for you to read about or help out in different things. I know its hard to get started but just take one step and see what might interest you.

Further up the "thread" as Deb calls it, is a little saying for little bags of goodies I am making for our Marine unit to put in the care packages they send over. Make some copies and do it. I put the Lifesaver, Tootsie Roll, Smartie Roll, Gum, Mint and a copy of the saying into a little baggie, tie it up and away I will send it. It's a little nothing, but hopefully they will get a kick out of it. And it says, "WITH LOVE, FROM HOME" so they know someone is thinking about them from HOME. Do it, and let us know what your son/daughter think of it. Or just send them with cards from the kids maybe at Christmas, sending a Santa Hat over and have your son/daughter hand them out to whoever. One little gift that someone who may need it.. gets. It's going to be a very difficult Christmas for them and us. Believe it or not, there will be soldiers who will be on guard (working) on Christmas, will not receive much for gifts or cards and will not be able to join in the festivities. Have someone deliver them to those guys. Buy some little stockings and throw candy, etc in them. You'll feel on top of the world and so will they. You'll be thinking you've made a difference in someones' Christmas while your crying opening your present. It would be a great present that you bought for yourself.... making someone else smile. Oh my God, I'm crying, I guess I just talked myself in to doing this. Remember try to mail your gifts by November 13th to get there for Christmas.

Oh, good news, my son called me Friday morning and said he was promoted to Corporal.. now I have to call everyone up I gave his address to and tell them to erase the "L" in LCPL. I made labels with his address on, so when someone says, let me know what his address is sometime, I whip them out of my purse, tear them off and hand them over. SURPRISE, here you go, just buy the card and put a stamp on. I think I ripped off about 15 today at the fall festival. One lady said, "Wow, you are prepared". Yup, no excuse now. Even one of his old teachers got some from me. "How's he doing"? Well, here send him card and find out yourself.

Have I taken up enough of the web page yet Deb?
Ok, I'm off to doing more posters, cash jars, etc. Want another secret I did? DON'T CARE, I'M GOING TO TELL YOU ANYWAY. On the posters, the pictures I have of the guys, I put them in the middle of the ribbon and copied them on picture paper........absolutely perfect. Looks like the real ribbon tied around them. They are GREAT. Your printer can't make copies like that? Take them to one of those Kodak picture copiers and do it there. (Hmm, nice bows for Christmas with your face on it?) (Hmmmmmmmm, I like that idea too.) I guess if I have to have a mug shot taken, this might be for the right reason.

Ok, Ok, I'm leaving. Everyone have a great day, one day at a time.

Dear God, keep our loved ones so far away safe for us and keep a smile on their cherub little faces, they are and always will be our babies, our strength and our life for living.

Oh one more thing. In our care packages we are taping an IOWA quarter to the inside. It's to show they are always thought of back home or by people in IOWA who care about them. Don't know ya but we love ya anyway!!!!! I also LOVE THE "DOLLAR TREE" STORES.....so much to buy for $1.00....you have to find one.

I'd love to go to an OPRAH show....anybody got an extra ticket?????? Especially her "FAVORITE THINGS SHOW!!! I am so jealous!!

Ok,I'm done now. Signing off. Man, I came home at 8PM and was going to do so much, now it's 10PM. Gotta do loads of wash, dishes, take the garbage out, kick Ryan off to bed, clean up......awwww forget it (except Ryan) I'm going to make more candy bags.

You can get the "discussion site" up anytime now Deb......I know, I know, your working on it.

A peaceful night to all of you....bye.

Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 3, 2004 06:53 PM

Trish, did Melanie every get word from her Marine yet?

Posted by: Sandy A at October 3, 2004 06:56 PM

This time zone kills me, you cannot be 3 hours behind me, your only two. It's 10pm in Iowa, so you should be 8pm. It's not nice to play with a person's mind, I can go crazy without anyone helping me.
PS: Ryan is in bed.

Posted by: Sandy A at October 3, 2004 07:02 PM

Hi Ladies,
Well I know I should be doing my wash. But the boss is away so I can play. HAHA.I just got off the phone with Joanne it was great talking to another MOM. I get lonely in this big house.I can't believe how I get it cluttered up so fast. I told my husband that and he laughed. He said you should be able to keep it clean there is only one of you there. Anoter idea for care packages is prunes...I guess the young guys have been enjoying my husbands. I am going to help making stockings. I have lots of Christams material left from my mom.he group I belong to M.A.S.H. Mothers against Sadamn Hussein were are doing the pillowcases with family pictures on them. You hve to use a tan colored but we iron on the family picture and send it to the Marine. My husband recently went to the capital and saw a pool at one of the palaces that all he guys were sunbathing themselves at. They had rigged Christmas tree lights on Rakes.He said it was so funny.He said he wondered if they knew there was war going on. I just wanted to share that with all of you. I thought it was funny.Anyway, enough of my rambling on. Take Care you and allyour families arein my daily prayers.Have a good week.
Mry Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 3, 2004 09:49 PM

I think Santa needs to bring me a instant spell check Haha Sorry Ladies. I really have a college education. I am just so happy to share with all of you. But my poor fingers can't keep up with my mind.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 3, 2004 09:58 PM

Hi All You Marine Mommas...
Loving the chatter all the way from NEW york to you I send Marine Mom Hugs... Rob call at 4am this morning ...and is doing fine..it was lunch time for him..He & his rommies are getting our cards...
We are collecting for the holidays & paying lots of attention to the Marine Women in the Unit
I St. Marine Expeditionary Unit Combat Support Services 6th Comm. ...
Moms tears drops won't dry unit they all come home
Praying for their safety & Praying for Peace
MM JA
Semper Fi

Posted by: Ja at October 4, 2004 06:16 AM

I would like to know where the 9th communication Battalion are station at.

Posted by: Earl at October 4, 2004 08:58 AM

Earl,
Sorry we can't give out that information.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 4, 2004 08:40 PM

Before I rest my eyes for the evening and say my prayers. I want to thank the beautiful women that started this site. I no longer feel alone. I have talked to and emailed some great women in the past 2 weeks. It has made that void in my heart not so large. Thank you all.I am so blessed not only to be married to a Marine but to be part of this large great family.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 5, 2004 09:25 PM

I have a Grandson/Son (I raied this child/man} who is a United States Marine, I am extremly proud of him. He was deployed to Iraq {Camp Fallujah}last month. I am just so afraid for him and all our boys. My thoughs and prayers go out to each one of them every day. God bless them all and GOD BLESS AMERICA.

Posted by: Mary Helen N. at October 6, 2004 11:09 AM

Another Mary Helen that's special. I am Mary Helen B.

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 6, 2004 06:41 PM

My son John deployed to Iraq Aug 30th. We had phone calls from him on 3 and 10 Sep. We have not heard from him since the 10 Sep call.

He has always been extremely good about writing or calling us so it worries me (more than usual) that we have not heard from him for nearly 4 weeks. When he was at MCRD in training he wrote at least twice a week.

When he got to his duty assignment he got a Cingular phone, which we also have, and we talked nearly every night.

So it is very unusual for us to have no word at all from him.

His name is LCpl John P. assigned to CSSB-1 H&S Co Comm Plt, UIC 42201, Camp Fallujah

Anyone here have someone in that Platoon? I would appreciate any news on how they are doing. He is a field radio operator. I read somewhere some of the troops leave the base for 3 or 4 weeks to do their jobs. Maybe he is out in the field? I just don't know.

Any info would be appreciated.

THANKS,
Sue P.
Mom of LCpl John in Iraq
Mom of Patrick, soon to be a Marine, leaves for boot 15 Nov

Posted by: Sue P. at October 6, 2004 08:30 PM

Dearest Susan,
This is a old Marine wife and Navy mom talking. Please know in your heart that he is fine and probably keeping so busy. My hubby is there at that Camp they are keeping so busy. It is hard sometimes to get lines out to talk. The mail is taking 2-3 weeks to get here. I hope this helps a liitle bit. I wish I could tell you more. Hopefully someone who has someone in that PLT. Can help you out more. You are in my prayers.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 6, 2004 09:46 PM

Thanks Mary Helen for the kind words.

John called this morning, Praise the Lord, and sounded great. He said they have been really busy. He called "COLLECT" but that is OK, we'll pay anything just to hear from him.

I am on my way to the base near my home, with my Dad who is retired from the Air Force. We are going to buy John a calling card, he asked for a pencil sharpener and lipton ice tea with lemon mix also.

I would still appreciate any stories any one has about their Marines.

THANKS,
Sue P.
Mom of LCpl John in Iraq
Mom of Patrick, soon to be a Marine, leaves for boot 15 Nov

Posted by: Sue P. at October 7, 2004 07:43 AM

Dearest Sue P.
What great timing i am so happy for you. Also there is a VFW site where you can get free phone cards..
Mary helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 7, 2004 01:01 PM

Hello everyone. Patricia Hilliard had mentioned this site to me. This is my first visit. I saw the message she posted about my fiance, it meant a lot to me. It is a bitter sweet comfort to know of all of you in the same situation. Sometimes it is easy to feel that no one could understand. You have bad days, then, not really good days, but just days. I know I am not a mother and do not know what it is like to fear for a child. I just know that I get scared, then serenity comes from somewhere, then I cry again. And there is that lump in my throat that just doesn't go away. I am proud of Whit, and proud of every soldier over there fighting for my freedom to sit here tonight in front of my computer and post something on this website. Whit called a week ago today. I don't know when I will hear that voice again, but I cherish every word I hear him speak. I pray every night for him and for all of them over there.

Sometimes it just doesn't seem real. I have dreams that he is home, I hate waking up from those dreams. I am glad I have found this site.

Praying for all of you------------------and your loved one, your hero---------------------MEL

Posted by: Melanie Hof at October 7, 2004 06:29 PM

Melanie, it's great you finally heard from him. Yes this is all very scary and frightening to us but with God's help he and all the rest of our loved ones will be ok. Hang in there girlfriend, each day they are one step closer to being back home. What state is your Marine from? I have a son from Iowa in Camp Fallujah. Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 7, 2004 07:49 PM

Mary Helen,
What would the VFW site be for the free phone cards?
The article on our project "WITH LOVE, FROM HOME" was in our local paper today. Lots of reaction already.......phone calls, emails, donations, people wanting to help....it's great and we are so excited. (Except for the mug shots). Just need to wait for my stocking directions from Operation Santa and we're rocking and rolling.
Say hello to your Marine.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 7, 2004 07:55 PM

Sue P
November, right before Thanksgiving 3 years ago, my son went off to bootcamp. I had no idea what to expect. You should start now having school kids write up letter or start cards for them. When my son was in bootcamp I sent about 80 Christmas cards to school with my son, and the kids wrote notes in them. They put the school's address on the envelope so if the Marines wanted to write them back it went to the school and not the kids and there was no problem. Some of the Marines wrote the kids and they were so excited.
I stuck candy canes and other stuff in the envelope with the card then packed them all in a box and shipped it to my son. I enclosed a Santa hat, come bags of candy, and he handed them out to all the boys. He will let you know how many are in his platoon and then make sure there is enough for all the guys. They loved it and thought it was pretty neat these kids cared about them. The notes were cute also. And the Santa hat went over really good. Good luck to him and be brave. I had awful time with bootcamp. I just had no idea what was going on and they are so secluded....no communications hardly at all. Letters you could tell how tired he was and sometimes depressed. It was hard for me but Graduation totally made up for it. He looked so handsome and really turned into a man.
Take care.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 7, 2004 08:06 PM

For phone cards put in VFW phone cards and it should come up with the site. Hope this helps. If you email me I will send it to you. Hope every one is doing good.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 8, 2004 09:51 PM

Got it thanks.

Posted by: Sandy A at October 8, 2004 10:39 PM

Hi LCPL John Momma
My son is in that 7th unit...& he is radio operator also....hummm...... LCPL
Rob just emailed us today...
It rained & he loved the lighting storm...
He is real busy ...and sometime he doesn't get to call........sending you hugs Marine Momma (((((((((hugs and prayers...))))))))))))((((((((((((((Janene)))))))))

Posted by: Ja at October 10, 2004 02:13 PM

Hi Janene
My son loved the rain also. He took a chair and sat out in the rain. An officer from Texas walked by and told him he should get out of the rain before he catches a cold. David said, I haven't seen or felt rain in so long, I'm going to sit here for long time.The officer asked where he was from and David said Iowa. Then shook his head and laughed.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 10, 2004 05:19 PM

I have not posted anything yet, but I enjoy reading them. My son is also at Camp Fallujah they have a few photos posted on their web-site 2 Recon BN. If you go to the usmc.mil and then go to units at top of page click on the 2 Mar. Div. then go to 2 Recon on left of page it will say deployment photos. Hope you get to see your love ones. I haven't seen my son yet but I look everyday. Hope you enjoy the photo of the camp.
Lera

Posted by: Lera at October 11, 2004 03:16 PM

My husband is at camp fallujah. He doesn't leave the base. So, i'm wondering if anyone knows how safe the actual base is? I've contacted deb and some others, but i'd thought i'd throw the question out for public consumption. He used to be at a base in the absolute middle of nowhere, i liked that he was bored. So, i am just trying to get a feel for the place, and to know how angst-ridden i should be. Do they get attacked, have the taken casualties on the base itself? stuff like that. I am a bit of a worrier and this whole deployment thing is not helping. In addition to helping me out with this problem, if anyone needs a pen pal or phone buddy or whatever, i'm available. I'm new too military life and the love of my life and i have only been married 8 months. and he left 2 months ago.

Thank for any help and support
keep praying
Maya

Posted by: maya at October 13, 2004 05:41 PM

Hi Maya, Where was your husband stationed out of? My son's friend over there was only married for a month and he was deployed. That's pretty hard. Just keep tuned to this site and I'm sure you'll find out quite a bit. I believe the camp is about 17 x 17 square miles and I haven't heard of anything that has gone wrong yet. My son left the end of August so I'm new to this also. What is his MO? Keep you chin up and we all are praying for the soldiers there.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 13, 2004 10:10 PM

HI,

I will answer sandy's question so you all can learn about my true love, Jon. Hw is stationed, typically, at MCAS Miramar. Right now, I'm in Phoenix with my parents trying to save money while he is away and I'll be back to San Deigo in February. Jon is ARFF, aircraft rescue fire fighting. I'm working and finishing my degree online, so i'm keeping busy. Jon's 26, I'm 23. And of course, I miss him terribly.

Maya

Posted by: maya at October 14, 2004 05:38 PM

Well it sounds like the two of you are very hard for a happy life together. My sister lives in Phx and is home for a few weeks. Actually she only has 4 days left. Wow, time goes fast. She has lived there for 35 years but always comes home in the fall for the fall foliage. I was in Phx in June 2001 and it was awful. No way could I stand that heat, almost as bad as what it sounds like it is in IRAQ. My son always wanted to do something with planes, but he's color blind so he couldn't. He was very unhappy when he found that out.
Take care and tell him we all say "Hi Jon".
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 14, 2004 07:30 PM

I'm a Marine wife and my husband left for Iraq 9/11/04 and we have a 2 1/2 month old daughter, Natalie. I am having trouble finding CHEAP phone cards....can anyone help please? My husband is from Camp Lejeune, NC. 2D amphibious assault battalion.....

Posted by: Michelle Billings at October 14, 2004 07:54 PM

Hi Michelle.
Look on the VFW site ..Operation uplink
& you'll get card for husband..throught the Vets.
They ave been really wonderful in Rocky Point NY....collecting for the Iraq Vets...
Also the VFW have a membership for our
marine as Vets when they arive home. Our Post has a membership for Moms & daughters . The Marine Vets are free...with usage of the hall & lounge . I joined up the WW11 Vets & Nam vets know so much about services that are local....
God Bless MM NY Ja

Posted by: Ja at October 15, 2004 04:09 PM

Hi Michelle.
Look on the VFW site .."Operation uplink"
& you'll get cards for husband..throught he VFW.
They ave been really wonderful in Rocky Point NY....collecting for the our soliders...
Also the VFW have a membership for our
marines as Vets when they arrive home. Our Post has a membership for Moms & daughters . The Marine Vets are free...with usage of the hall & lounge . I joined up the WW11 Vets & Nam vets know so much about services that are local....for all service people
God Bless MM NY Ja

Posted by: Ja at October 15, 2004 04:11 PM

Hello all. My marine called yesterday. He was in Tacatta for a class for about a week. He sounded great, which always makes it better for at least a day. Someone had asked, we are from Madison, AL. His unit is in Huntsville, AL. Hope all of you are okay, and all of your soldiers as well. Also, I don't know what kind of phone cards the VFW website offers, but Sams Club has 1200 minute cards for around $35. Of course that only allows around 2 hours.
Everyone take care,
Mel

Posted by: Melanie Hof at October 15, 2004 10:32 PM

Hey, thank you for the info about the phone cards...my marine called today and all is okay over there for him and his unit...god bless them all and may god be with them all of the way...they're all in my prayers

Posted by: Michelle Billings at October 16, 2004 01:43 PM

Hello Ladies,
I am Mary Helen. I would like to say thank you to all of you that have ben posting here. I truly enjoy reading al the posts from all family members and friends of our loved ones over there in the big sandbox.We should send them beach pails and a shovel, that would be funny.I know its hard I have been doing this for along time. But I know God is watching over them andthey are trained..My husband is a Col. staioned at Camp Fallujah he is the Asst. Chief of staff for the G-5. He left on my 48th birthday. August 6th. He emails me and tells
me all the troops are working very hard and doing a great job. He said Today a big load of care packages arrived. There were so many they had to all pitch and get them sorted.My prayers are with you all and our Marines. I have found some fun suggestons for care packages if you want them, go to http://www.geocities.com/militarycarepackage/
it is a great site. Please keep Gen.Comfort a friend of ours who passed away of cancer on Thursday in your prayers. I am headed to Kansas for the funeral. He was a great Marine and human being.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 18, 2004 01:40 AM

I too have a son in Fallujah, and I'm going to see him! I work for the MWR and will be hosting a "Christmas at Camelot" program for the marines there. Anyone wanting to donate small gifts for the program, please email me sayidainiraq@yahoo.com and I'll tell you what we need.

Linda Warren

Posted by: Linda Warren at October 21, 2004 08:47 PM

I'm also starting a "Love Letters Home" program where soldiers and marines can make beautiful cards to send home since the selection at AAfes is so limited. Anyone wishing to send beautiful papers, stamps, inks, software. . .please help. Also, if you wish, I can print these comments and put them on a bulletin board at the MWR. Would anyone like that? When your sons come in, they will see that Mom is thinking about them.
Most Sincerely,

Linda

Posted by: Linda warren at October 21, 2004 08:50 PM

I'm leaving for Fallujah today, so when I get there, I will do whatever I can to help you find your boys. I work over 16 hours a day myself, and I know how tired these boys are. I take thousands of photos and I'll be sending them to you if I happen to capture your son on film. I do whatever I can to relieve the pressure off these guys. Sometimes they come into the internet cafe after a tough mission and they are still shaking, but want desperately to let mom, wife, and kids, know they are alive. You all would be so proud of these young men. I love them all like my own boys. I have four sons. . .three of whom are serving in the military. . .one at Fallujah.

Farewell, until I hear from you.

Linda

Posted by: Linda Warren at October 21, 2004 08:55 PM

Guess I don't know what MWR is? Can you explain.
Good luck.

Tell my son CPL David, from Iowa, in the maintenance transportation that his mom loves him. I'll be sending cookies soon and Santa will be dropping off his Christmas presents but not to open them until Christmas.
Give him a hug and kiss. Love you David.
Mom.................DUCK!

Posted by: Sandy A at October 21, 2004 10:05 PM

MWR is Morale, Welfare, and Recreation. It is my job to see that your son can forget what he just had to do on his night mission. We set up tournaments, sports, entertainment, and try to have events that help them regain some normalcy. It is the most rewarding job I've ever had, but at times it is also the saddest. Just last week, some troops were going home and two soldiers were crying. They asked me to "please see us off". I missed it and it made me sick. If I see CPL David, from Iowa, believe me, I'll post your message and you can tell him yourself. When I get to the site I'll try to set up a webpage so you can see your sons, husbands, brothers. . .having a little well-deserved leisure time.

Posted by: Linda Warren at October 22, 2004 06:37 AM

I have a different perspective than most of you probably because I've been working over here almost a year. I've seen some pretty horrific things, but I've seen some wonderful things too. The news doesn't show the good. They don't show how your sons and husbands give up their MREs to hungry Iraqis. They don't show how your sons are caring for injured Iraqis and how they take up collections for orphanages. They don't show you the good that your boys are doing. When your son comes home, he will be changed forever. And,. . .he deserves a good homecoming. You will not believe how many young men and women don't have anyone from home who even writes to them. And. . .how many have spouses, girlfriends or boyfriends who break up with them while they are in country. The work you ladies are doing is so wonderful. You better believe that I will also show the marines what YOU are up to as well. Semper Fi and good day. Fallujah or bust.
Linda

Posted by: Linda Warren at October 22, 2004 06:44 AM

Hello! I just happened to find this website. My husband is also at Camp Fallujah. This is his second deployment to Iraq, however I met him 2 weeks after his return from his first deployment. Needless to say, this is my first time going through this. We had Psalm 91 read at our wedding, and one of my mother's best friends embroidered it onto a handkerchief for my husband to take with him. Please read this verse, and know that your son, husband, brother, daughter, wife, or sister will be protected. I pray everyday for a quick return, and I am trusting in God's plan. He brought us together, and even though we are miles apart, we are one. He will return back to me. God bless you, and please thank your Marines for everything they do.

PS When you send your Marine a package, put extra goodies in there for him to share. I sent a Halloween package with 25 goodie bags, and they were all so excited to get it...and it gave my husband bragging rights...he likes to brag to his friends about "what a great wife he has"...how special I feel that he thinks so! ;-)

Posted by: Amber May at October 22, 2004 11:33 AM

Linda,

I hope you get this e-mail and post it for my son. LCPL Donald -that his "ma" loves him very much and is very proud of him!! I am getting another package together to send soon. Be safe!

Love MA
Madison AL

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at October 22, 2004 05:08 PM

Linda,

I hope you get this e-mail and post it for my son. LCPL Donald -that his "ma" loves him very much and is very proud of him!! I am getting another package together to send soon. Be safe!

Love MA
Madison AL

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at October 22, 2004 05:09 PM

Linda
I have a "With Love, From Home" care package project going on here for our local service men and women. I wrote an article about to a newspaper in our area just last night. I told them the exact same things. We only see and hear about the bad news from there. Very seldom is it good news between the natives and our troops. Other soldiers who have returned continue to tell me that they have many good relationships with the ordinary people like us. They don't all hate us and they are good to each other. Please post articles and pictures so we can see the good between all people and not just the hate. Those who have the most to lose are the ones who do not want us there. Thanks for letting us know what you are going to do. God speed be with you. Take care and tell them how much we love and miss them all. If you have a wrestling ring...Dave will be there.
"Dave, mom's missing you alot."
Mom

Posted by: Sandy A at October 22, 2004 10:08 PM

Hi Amber,
My son has received 6 of about 14 care packages sent. There is plenty for him to share with everyone. I cram the box full. I sent a bunch of Halloween candy also, but I have a feeling he hasn't received it yet. A week to go and I hope it makes it.... nice you did that too. How long was he home before he was deployed a second time?
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 22, 2004 10:13 PM

Yohoo Mary Helen,
I miss you, were are youuuuu? Hope you got back ok. Busy with the packing aren't you. Vicky has been keeping me informed. You ladies are doing a great job. Good luck with your packing party. Don't forget to send a picture of the 3 of you gals. I have got to go to bed!
Bless our boys and may God keep them in the palm of his hand.

By the way, Deb, thanks for posting the article about the soldier from WI who was killed and his flight home. It was nicely done. He's across the river.

Posted by: Sandy A at October 22, 2004 10:20 PM

Hi everyone,
I am back from Kansas. Still pretty tired. It was emotonal exhausting. My husband is going to be interviewed live tomorrow night by Geraldo Rivera Fox news It should be on 7pm west coast time 10 east coast time. Hopefully I will be able to see it.I don't know if they will be showing it tomorrow night. If you all can keep a look out. I am so excited...If anyone has vcr recording capability let me know. I don't know how to record on ours. Thank you.
Talk to you all soon.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 23, 2004 09:47 PM

Hi everyone,
My boyfriend (who is also my best friend) was sent to Fallujah on September 9th. I am new to dealing with the stress and sadness of having a loved one at war. I have placed my boyfriend's and all of our troop's safey in God's hands. God reminds me each day that I should not worry because He is bigger than any war. I want to say thank-you to those who continuously pray for our troops' safety. God Bless all of the marine moms and wives out there!

Posted by: Hope at October 24, 2004 06:36 PM

I got to see my husband . It was only for a minute or so but he looked good.I can't wait to get a copy so I can see it over and over. It will be on again at 10:30 so i will atch it.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 24, 2004 08:06 PM

He was looking very fine, Mary Helen. Next time tell him to wink or something so he is saying "Hi" to you. Just kidding. I know he has to be professional. He looked so good because of all the packages he is getting from you. Like my son, he isn't missing much from home except Grandma's mashed potatoes and gravy.....and my hugs that he says "Later mom". David won't be around for Thanksgiving and he was my pumpkin pie maker because he love pumpkin pie. Soooooo, trying another experiment (because shipping a few carmel apples was not a successful experiment in shipment, but a good lesson learned....they melted and evidently was not a good sight), I found a dried pumpkin pie mix, sort of like a cheese cake/pudding mixture I guess, and sent that to him with little bitty pie crusts (a 4 or 6 pack), they might have been graham cracker pie crusts come to think of it, anyway he just has to add a cup of so of milk and then refrigerate. I sent a box of powdered milk for him to mix in it. Then it just needs to be refrigerated. I guess I'll find out how this one works. Just trying to have him enjoy a little Thanksgiving tradition and looking for something new.
Keep the faith moms, wives and gals. Prayers for all and to all a good night.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 25, 2004 09:13 PM

Goo evening Ladies,
Well I am almost packed for my trip to Seattle tomorrow to visit with Vicky and to help stuff stockings. I am so excited I finally get to meet her, even though I feel like already know her. Hope everyone has a great weekend. I heard from my hubby this morning he is doing ok. He never complains so I would never know other wise.Rite aid has battery Christmas lights.Talk to you all soon.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 27, 2004 10:30 PM

Could the mom from Arizona please email? I have misplaced her son's address and I have to Fallujah mom's email address that start with J.
I am getting old adn to much going on.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 27, 2004 10:33 PM

Any Moms or wives who would like me to make their loved ones a pillowcse for Christams. Please let me know. If they have a favorite team or hobby also let me let me now so I can find some fun material. otherwise I am making camo material ones. I need to know by the 10th of November I will send them out priority mail. my email address is pnwotter@aol.com.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at October 27, 2004 10:48 PM

Linda,
What is going on in Fallujah. What are you doing? Please keep us up on what your doing, seeing, etc.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at October 28, 2004 08:34 PM

Mary Helen, Deb and Vicki, have a fun time and be happy. Man, I hate that song!
Talk at you later.

Posted by: Sandy A at October 28, 2004 08:37 PM

Hoilday packages for for the 6th Com. Comm.unit have been sent
out .
Over 200 parckages were packed with
PRIDE & Blessing & Prays
for all our Marines....
"Long Island New York."
.....is proud of our
Marines.........Thank you ! ALL!!!
Marine Momma Janene
God Bless ((Hugs))))))))))))))
"Keep Your Heads down"!

Posted by: Janene at November 1, 2004 03:47 AM

Any Moms hear from our Marines ?
It's toooooo quite....

Posted by: Ja at November 4, 2004 11:10 AM

Hi
I have not heard from my son since Oct. 31. I had just finished the 60 Christmas stockings when he asked for 14 more.

I just shipped off 13 boxes of Christmas stockings, a box of fun for all including DVD's and a Christmas tree. Instead of sending ornaments I had everyone fill out large Christmas tags and bright paper ornaments with prayers and thanks to the Marines. They will have a full tree and know that they are loved and prayed for in AZ.

Let me know if anyone has heard of anything.

Bless and keep our Marines safe
Joanne

Posted by: joanne at November 4, 2004 04:47 PM

Yes. Got an email two days ago from our son....after an unusual week of silence. After news of the convoy attack on Saturday, and no release of names, it was a great relief to hear from him The sad truth is, eight other mom's won't be feeling the same.

Posted by: lani at November 4, 2004 09:16 PM

Ladies,
There is a need for DVD's for the troops that are in the hospital at Camp Fallujah. If you need a address to send them to please let me know. thank you again for all you are doing for the troops. I kknow form hearing form tmy hubby and notes I have gotten form various troops that it is greatly appreciated.
Mary helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 4, 2004 10:55 PM

Also a fun idea for Christmas. Ready made Gingerbread houses they can put together..
Excuse my spelling mistakes in the last post I need to get to bed.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 4, 2004 10:57 PM

Sending our prays to all our Marines...
Tears & sorrow is shared with our Families of our Marine heros who passed as they were fighting for freedom this passed week.......
Pride & Faith
Semper Fi
God bless our sons & Daughters....

Posted by: Ja at November 5, 2004 03:19 PM

Dear Families and friends of all of our Marines,
I know that the last few days and the next days ahead of us are going to be hard. Please remember our Marines are trained well and God is watching over all of them. You are all in my prayers as as are your Marines.My husband tells me that Morale is high an they are ready to do what ever job they are called to do and do it well. God Bless you all.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 7, 2004 06:10 PM

This was sent from a friend and I would like share it with all of you,
Mary Helen

Copyright © Sandra Lee James
A Proud Marine Mother

Far from their homes, in a treacherous land,
Where enemies lurk in vast fields of sand,
There's a Corps of men with a difficult task.
Despite all the hardships, very little do they ask.

For a nation of people, by a tyrant long oppressed,
These men fight to free them, this is their quest.
They offer a gift no treasure could buy,
For its cause there's no doubt, they are willing to die.

Their action shows courage to the natives on the street,
Young men of such valor they don't normally meet.
They're an obvious force, quite clearly in command,
No matter the peril, they will steadfastly stand.

These men took an oath, to protect and defend,
Something their enemies cannot comprehend.
But to the citizens for whom they fight to set free,
They are men you can count on, that's a guarantee.

Not for fortune or glory are they willing to crusade,
But for liberty and freedom, the course will be stayed.
Independence is won with blood, sweat and tears,
Shed by brave men who'll fight in spite of their fears.

United States Marines are such men, although few,
And a Marine's heart tells him what it is he must do.
It comes at great cost, he knows freedom's not free,
Never has it been and never will it be.

For his country a Marine will lay it all on the line,
Once God gives the call, he'll never decline.
He'll defend and protect all that is right,
My Marine is on duty, so rest easy tonight.

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 8, 2004 04:23 PM

To all the moms and wives of the our elite U.S. Marine corp- we all pray that our child or husband will be safe. Our Lord, our God will guide them. We all have to stay strong for our marines, that can be done for staying strong for each other. Mary Helen has been the leader for all of us, as well as great support-Thank You!

Semper Fi
Trish

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at November 8, 2004 06:26 PM

i just found this site today and it is what i have been needing for strength. thanks

Posted by: debbie at November 8, 2004 07:50 PM

Ladies,
I want you to know just having all of you on this site has been so much support for me.The circle of support. Thank you all for the kind words.God Bless everyone....
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 8, 2004 08:06 PM

What a great poem. Mary Helen, it's true you always have the words of inspiration to keep us moving. If someone is down, your always on top. If someone is worried, you tell us they're alright. If we are scared, you tell us not to fear. Last night your husband gave you a great complement....Your the best! It's true, from Iowa to Washington....I'm so glad I found you!!!
No matter how much experience you have as a Marine wife for over 20 years, each day is as hard as the one past. Have a peaceful night everyone, say an extra prayer tonight for our boys or girls, man or woman...they each have a family or friend waiting for their safe return.
Prayers to all.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at November 8, 2004 08:44 PM

Prays & more prays....for all our Marines..& soliders.......
Marine Mom Ja...
God Bless.......

Posted by: Ja at November 9, 2004 04:04 AM

I too send out prayers for our Marines.

Some people still have no idea about the war:
I had a parent today at the day care were I am a director notice my USMC mom mug that I was using to drink my morning coffee. She made a comment on it and I said yes I have a son who is a Marine and is if Falluja right now. She said and I quote, that sounds like a nice place like an island. I then said no it is in Iraq. She left and the other parents around said where does she live. It would be nice to not know so much about a place so far away. But we do and our Marines are doing what needs to be done. My prayers are with them and when this is all over I pray that they can all go to their Island called home.

Joanne

Posted by: Joanne at November 9, 2004 06:19 PM

You are so right Joanne, I just have to grit my teeth with people like that. The real problem though is everyone is so busy with their own lives that they don't really think about the rest of the world. I mean really think about what they see and hear on TV. It doesn't matter who sent them over seas, they are there and WE know they are making a huge difference in the live of those people, but anyone who has no one over there just isn't able to comprehend the fear we all have daily. I can't tell you how many times people have come up to me and said, "I just don't understand why we are there, they don't want us there". I don't want my son there either, but he is. I tell them to stop watching the news and go on all the Marine sites on the internet where they can actually read articles from a real person over there, how much the ordinary people want us there and are thankful we are.
The world is a mess and we are only trying to be helpful. Only sometimes being helpful, kills us.
Some do not know anyone who is over there and so just don't care, others tell me I'm doing a good job sending care packages and trying to recruit letters and donations etc. Well I feel good because I know there is at least one or two who will receive my notes and packages and will say "WOW a total stranger sent me a gift." I hope I can make someone's day and put a smile on it if just for a split second or that they know someone cares about them. Stupid people, and we all have met them, needs to be reminded there are lives being lost. You should have told her "Yeah that beautiful island is in the middle of 140 degree heat, dirt and grim to eat everyday, for entertainment they watch children being beaten, parents being killed by their own people and then our Marines also get to send their best friends back home to us in boxes.....read the paper, watch the news or just keep you mouth shut". Sorry, got carried away but when I think of my son over there, I get a little over protected. Well you all have a very peaceful and restful night.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at November 9, 2004 08:41 PM

Today is the United States Marines 229th Birthday.What a gret bunch of Men and Women we have doing gret things all over the world.
Mary helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 10, 2004 12:31 AM

Semper Fi! (((hugs)))))))))))) & strength
Marine Moms...MM NY ......
God Bless our Marines...
Yes, they love getting our letters & packages
( over 370 gifts have been sent to them .
..letters to each & Marine every week for the past 3 months)
...our Marines have been getting back to us
snail mail & email.
1 Exp.7th Combat Alfa
( 6th comm out of Long Island NY) Pray for our sons and daugther safe return
Always Faithful
Marine Momma NY Long Island......

Posted by: Ja at November 10, 2004 05:40 AM

Dear Marines "..
In Your Honor we send to you this note of thank you.
Unselfishly, you left your fathers and your mothers,
You left behind your sisters and your brother and friends
. Leaving your beloved children and wives, You put on hold, your dreams—your lives.
On foreign soil, you found yourself planted to fight for those whose freedom you granted. Without your sacrifice, their cause would be lost but you carried onward, no matter the cost.
Many horrors you had endured and seen. Many faces had haunted your dreams. You cheered as your enemies littered the ground; you cried as your brothers fell all around.
When it was over, you all came back home, Some were left with memories to face all alone; Some found themselves in the company of friends As their crosses cast shadows across the land.
Those who survived were forever scarred emotionally, physically, permanently marred. Those who did not now sleep eternally ‘Neath the ground they had given their lives to keep free.
With a hand upon my heart, I feel the pride and respect; my reverence is revealed
In the tears that now stream down my upturned face
As our flag waves above you, in her glory and grace. Freedom was the gift that you unselfishly gave Pain and death was the price that you ultimately paid. Every day, I give my utmost admiration to those who had fought to defend our nation.
Marine Mom hugs & kisses find strength & protection in our strong arms xxxJa

Posted by: Ja at November 10, 2004 05:46 AM

Camp fallujah received mail today...
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 10, 2004 10:58 AM

mary helen , you are inspiration to all moms and wives out there. i wish i had your strength.

Posted by: debbie at November 10, 2004 08:05 PM

Iv'e just have to say that I just found this web site,& I too have a son in Fallujah.I really enjoyed reading some of the stories. We to here in Hawaii r also very scared of whats been happining in Iraq.Our son is in the 9th comm & has been in Fallujah since Aug of this yr. We pray & also light a candle every day for our son & all the other troops there!!! He emails us about once every other wk or so. Also he calls when he gets the chance, its sooo good to hear his voice when he calls.Im sure all of u know what I mean!!! Anyways if u can email me back so I can talk more. Aloha from Maui Teri

Posted by: Teri Delapinia at November 10, 2004 11:47 PM

Iv'e just have to say that I just found this web site,& I too have a son in Fallujah.I really enjoyed reading some of the stories. We too here in Hawaii r also very scared of whats been happining in Iraq.Our son is in the 9th comm usmc & has been in Fallujah since Aug of this yr. We pray & also light a candle every day for our son & all the other troops there!!! He emails us about once every other wk or so. Also he calls when he gets the chance, its sooo good to hear his voice when he calls.Im sure all of u know what I mean!!! Anyways if u can email me back so I can talk more. Aloha from Maui Teri

Posted by: Teri Delapinia at November 10, 2004 11:53 PM

Iv'e just have to say that I just found this web site,& I too have a son in Fallujah.I really enjoyed reading some of the stories. We too here in Hawaii r also very scared of whats been happining in Iraq.Our son is in the 9th comm usmc & has been in Fallujah since Aug of this yr. We pray & also light a candle every day for our son & all the other troops there!!! He emails us about once every other wk or so. Also he calls when he gets the chance, its sooo good to hear his voice when he calls.Im sure all of u know what I mean!!! Anyways if u can email me back so I can talk more. Aloha from Maui Teri

Posted by: Teri Delapinia at November 10, 2004 11:54 PM

Hello Teri.
You'll meet some pretty terrific moms and wives on this web site. Welcome aboard! Semper Fi.
I'm in the Midwest deep freeze now, about 19degrees. I could use some warm weather, push to the west over the mountains please.
Well Mary Helen, thanks for the note on the mail. It must really be piling up now. How about the communcations, phones and email going to open up any time soon that you know of. I haven't been listening much to the news, I'm better off that way. Have they been having sand storms. I just got a couple sand carves off to my son. Well I'm anxiously waiting to hear from my son sometime soon. Take care everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with our loved ones for a safe night and speedy return home.
I really liked the poem or saying above, JA. Thanks for letting us read it. It's very nice and very truthful. Today we had a Veterans Gathering in one of the parks downtown. It was very moving and some very good speakers. They told their stories and had some very good music. It was a very nice ceremony with all the branches together. It was very comforting to hear them and to know that the same dedication and love for our country and its people is the same today as it was years and years ago. It just seems to stand out and shine more when people are forced to stand together side by side.
America is beautiful and we shall always stand strong together.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at November 11, 2004 09:34 PM

Dear Ladies,
I am getting ready to call it a night and I was thinking about al the great things in my life that I am thankful for. All of you on this site came to mind. I am so blessed.Sometimes in life we are put in situations beyond our control and think "Dear Lord how am I going to do this?" and I can tell you ladies if it wasn't for all great people from all over the US I have met on this site I wouldn't have been able to do it. Thank you to the wonderful Ladies who started this site. They had a dream and it came true. Someday we wil have to have a reunion when all this is over with. Until then we will stay strong, cry and laugh,with each other and send cyber hugs know that we can do it.
Thank you
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 11, 2004 11:56 PM

Hello everyone,

I was just wondering if anyone has heard from their lvoed ones at Cap Falljah, since the fighting started about five days ago. I've heard nothing, and i guess no news is good news. My husband is firefighter (wing support) there, and i know there's only a few guys who do what he does. So, i imagine he's busy, i know he doesn't leave the camp. But I was just wondering if anyone knows how it's going there, all I've heard is stuff about the actual fighting in Fallujah. Anyway, I hope everyone is getting ready for a happy holiday season. It will be difficult without the ones we love, but if they weren't making this sacrifice, we might not be able to enjoy such pleasures. May God bless the whole wide world and especially the men and women serivn in the US military and their families.

Posted by: maya at November 12, 2004 06:11 AM

Dearest Maya,
I have heard form my husband and everyone is dong fine. No one can pass along anymore information. From my undrstanding the fighting is in Fallujah. I wish I could give you more information but you know how they can't tell us anything thing and that is for a good reason. I am sure you understand. Take Care and Hang in there.
Sincerely,
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 12, 2004 01:40 PM

Can our Marines received Christmas decorations?

Posted by: Jeannie at November 12, 2004 06:54 PM

Can our Marines received Christmas decorations?

Posted by: Jeannie at November 12, 2004 06:56 PM

Jeannie,
I sent a 36 inch fiber optic Christmas tree over to my son. Nothing he has to bring home again. I just told him to leave it for the next person when he comes home. If they can store it someplace then it can be used again. If not, then give it to some young kid to take home for a decoration. My son's elementary class made tree decorations. If you can get it there by Christmas, why not throw a few things in a box and ship it out. Maybe they can decorate a hall for Christmas out of all the few things they receive. I just figure it's something to show we and they can celebrate a little Christmas together.

Posted by: Sandy A at November 12, 2004 08:57 PM

Hi everyone

I received a call from my son who is in Camp Fallujah. What a joy and relief. Of course he could not tell me much except that he was ok and that is all I needed to hear. Praise God.

He also said that he has already recieved some of the boxes for Christmas. I sent them out 9 days ago. I would have never thought that they would have gotten there so quick. I sent 10 boxes but he does not know where to store them since the arrived so early. I sent him a hickory farm gift box for Thanksgiving and he already recieved it and ate it. But that is ok with me he said that it was really good. So mail seems to be getting there very fast.

I will go to sleep better tonight after hearing that wonderful voice. My husband's face also looked a lot more relaxed. They try to not show how much they think about and worry about thier son's or daughters.

Have a good night and God bless our Marines and their families. I also pray for the ones in charge that they will make wise choices and led our Marines to victory.

Joanne

Posted by: Joanne at November 12, 2004 09:58 PM

Derest Joanne,
I am so happy for you.I am sending anything and everything over for Christams. They aren't expensive things, but things they will have fun decorating with.Have agreat weekend ladies. Ove you all.Joanne maybe he can ask the chaplin if he knows womewhere he can store them.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 12, 2004 11:14 PM

Ok that's it, I only sent over 3 boxes and a tree, now I have to go get another few boxes to send out. You two have inspired me to throw in the towel and send it all out. I have New Years crap I was saving which I still may for a few weeks, but everything else is going. I need to go shopping again.
See ya!

Posted by: Sandy A at November 13, 2004 06:30 PM

FINALLY, got an email from my son. He's ok and now I'm happy. Now I'm going to bed early for once with relief. Thanks for the prayers and everything. Hope all is well with you all.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at November 15, 2004 08:28 PM

i haven't heard from my son since the 3rd of nov. any tanker moms in the 2nd tank batt, c. co heard from theirs. i am worried.

Posted by: debbie at November 15, 2004 09:24 PM

Does anyone have a loved one in 2nd AABN Dco by chance. The last letter i have recieved from my husband was sent out the 1st of november...if anyone has any news please share...thanks

Posted by: Michelle Billings at November 17, 2004 09:52 PM

Debbie and Michelle,
I hope you hear something soon. Keep thinking positive we are praying for them all. Be sure to let us know when you do. We are so lucky the military does provide email and phones over there. Is it 100 times faster to hear just a word from them than it is to wait weeks for a letter. I am so grateful, I can't imagine what it was like for those in other wars never hearing for months at a time. I thank the Lord for the technology he has given us since then.
Prayers are with you tonight for a speedy note from them.

Also in case some have not heard, the post office now has flat rate priority mail boxes for $7.50. Any where, any weight. The boxes are about 1/3 smaller I figure, but it will definitely help some families with shipping costs.

Also I found a website that will make cling pictures of your Marine for your cars or windows and you can include your own saying and it will have their name on it too. See www.militaryfaces.com. You get one picture free even without an order and others for only $7.00. They would make a nice Christmas gift for family members. Check it out. It is a local Marine family doing this. I hope I can say this.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, pray hard for a speedy end and fast return of our soldiers. Thank the Lord for our healty Marines and the freedoms we have always had the privilege of using.

Posted by: Sandy A at November 19, 2004 08:18 PM

Debbie and Michelle,
I hope you hear something soon. Keep thinking positive we are praying for them all. Be sure to let us know when you do. We are so lucky the military does provide email and phones over there. Is it 100 times faster to hear just a word from them than it is to wait weeks for a letter. I am so grateful, I can't imagine what it was like for those in other wars never hearing for months at a time. I thank the Lord for the technology he has given us since then.
Prayers are with you tonight for a speedy note from them.

Also in case some have not heard, the post office now has flat rate priority mail boxes for $7.50. Any where, any weight. The boxes are about 1/3 smaller I figure, but it will definitely help some families with shipping costs.

Also I found a website that will make cling pictures of your Marine for your cars or windows and you can include your own saying and it will have their name on it too. See www.militaryfaces.com. You get one picture free even without an order and others for only $7.00. They would make a nice Christmas gift for family members. Check it out. It is a local Marine family doing this. I hope I can say this.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, pray hard for a speedy end and fast return of our soldiers. Thank the Lord for our healty Marines and the freedoms we have always had the privilege of using.

Posted by: Sandy A at November 19, 2004 08:23 PM

I can't believe I did that twice. Sorry

Posted by: Sandy A at November 19, 2004 08:24 PM

Dear Marine Mom here is something I must share with you all
we all must process and look at real hard at the enclosed .
This Marine Momma is active in our NY communities in
sharing the with others the need for their show of support. Yes, I have fundraiser with the yellow ribbons, yes over 370 packages and weekly letters have be sent out and I will continue to sent support to our Marines and soldiers. Lets all take a hard look at this letter and process with our "LOCAL & Federal elected officials What is their support for our Marines...lets educated our selfs and our Elected Officals on the needs of support our Marines & their familes need to live
There is no stronger love than a Mother & Fathers Love.
Semeper Fi
Marine Mom Ja

Caring for Those Left Behind

By Frank Schaeffer

Marine Staff Sgt. Aaron White was killed in a helicopter crash on May 19,

2003, in Iraq. Here is an excerpt from his last letter home to his wife,

Michele, and his baby daughter, Brianna.

"What keeps me up at night is thinking you may never know what you mean to

me. . . . If I don't come home, please tell Brianna that her daddy loves

her more than life. . . . Brianna, it breaks my heart to have to miss

your first birthday. I hope that you will forgive me. . . . I fall asleep

every night with visions of you and your mommy in my head, reminding me of

all I have been blessed with. I will be with you every day, if not in

body, then in spirit. I love you more than my words could ever say."

Aaron was killed two days after Brianna turned 1. When an American in a

military uniform is killed his or her family receives a one-time death

gratuity of $12,000. The surviving family may also qualify for the

Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP), which is paid up to age 62 or until the

spouse remarries. The SBP benefit amounts to 55 percent of the soldier's

retirement pay, pay that is already so low it qualifies many military

families for food stamps.

These "benefits" are contingent on fulfilling many petty regulations.

Michele did not qualify for the SBP because Aaron was in the Marine Corps

just under 10 years. Several further benefits, such as the income-based

Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC), may pay out about $800 per

month and $200 per child, depending on the case. Michele did not qualify

because of several arcane technicalities. Michele and Brianna's medical

benefits will end three years from the date of Aaron's death. But Michele

did receive some modest insurance compensation, because Aaron paid for

coverage out of his meager salary.

A just-released study by the Rand Corp. found that the families of

civilians killed in the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11, 2001, received on

average $3.1 million in government and charitable compensation. The

families of the firefighters and cops who died received even more; their

average compensation was $4.2 million.

Our soldiers are being killed on a daily basis, but most of us seem to

feel little personal connection with them. If we did, their widows and

families would be better compensated. Our idea of "supporting the troops"

is to stick magnetic yellow ribbons on our cars. Those Americans who do

not serve or do not have family serving are disconnected from our

all-volunteer forces and their families.

I know. I never served in the military, and before my son unexpectedly

enlisted in the Marines, and then went to war in the Middle East for 11

months, I looked at our military as made up of people who had little to do

with me.

Let's strip away our yellow-ribbon sentimentality for a moment and admit

the truth: We treat our military like second-class citizens. I'm glad the

Sept. 11 families were generously compensated, but it's time to ask why

the family of someone who has done no more for his country than show up at

a stock trading office on the wrong day should receive hundreds of times

as much compensation as the family of a soldier who volunteered to leave

his wife and child to defend the rest of us.

Most of the dead from our wars in Afghanistan and Iraq are being buried in

small towns and in the blue-collar or middle- and lower-middle-class

sections of our cities. Our politicians seem better able to identify with

the needs of stock traders' widows (not to mention the businesses and

airlines that were also generously compensated) than with the needs of the

families of our soldiers. This is a scandal.

In his second-to-last letter home Aaron wrote: "Believe me I am not having

a good time here. This is an ugly hasty land. I hope [our] people

appreciate the blood we are to spill." Judging by how we are taking care

of his widow and daughter, apparently the answer is that we do not.

The writer's latest book is "Voices From the Front: Letters Home From

America's Military Family," and he can be contacted at

www.frankschaeffer.com.

Posted by: Ja at November 20, 2004 02:41 PM

Ok Ladies,
There is a MOM out there that sent me her son and his friends address over there and I can't find it. Please resend it to me. Thank you
Mary Helen
Santa's elf..

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 21, 2004 04:30 PM

GREAT NEWS GIRLS...my hubby called me yesterday morning at about 7:40am my time....it was a releif....i cried...he got to talk to his daughter who is only 4months old and she hasn't seen him since she was 1 1/2months...he sounded great considering...he told me about a couple of his GOOD friends who didn't make it...he said he was one of the lucky ones...i thank god for that...my prayers are with all of your loved ones...thank you so much for the support ladies...

Posted by: Michelle Billings at November 21, 2004 08:20 PM

That is great news Michelle. I am so happy for you. It is such a burden off the shoulders hearing from them. I'll bet your busy with that baby. It's good you are busy, helps keep the mind off the troubles a little.

Ladies I am catching up with you on sending out boxes. I have been mixing and dipping and blending all over the place this weekend. I just shipped out 4 boxes of junk food. Last time I sent out 14 dozen homemade cookies and my son said they were gone in 2 days. Now I'll be sending out seasoned oyster crackers, 15 doz cookies I don't have to worry about melting, bags of candy, choc covered pretzels, almond bark blend with everything mixed in it, juice galore, gum, etc, etc. Hope they keep some for Christmas to share then. I hope they are able to get together to share Christmas and have some fun. I'm guessing it will just be considered another day though. War nevers stops. Bless them all and keep them safe.
Happy Thanksgiving to all.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at November 21, 2004 08:36 PM

my son came in sat.,sun., and mon to the camp. he had to go back out for six days than he can call again. he should be back at the camp on sunday or monday. it was nice to know he is okay. i also received a ultrasound picture of his little bambino on the way. his wife sent him one and he carries it everywhere.

Posted by: debbie at November 24, 2004 06:38 PM

Ladies, we have so much to be thankful for.....our freedoms, our family, our security, our friends, our lives overall. Take a moment tomorrow and thank everyone you love for just being with you through all of this. Take another moment and bow our heads for our military .....their long hours, their faith in our country and God, their uncomfortable conditions, their lonely moments, their determination to do their job, their pains and bravery, their unending love and justice for world peace. Happy Thanksgiving everyone! God bless you and your families.

Posted by: Sandy A at November 24, 2004 08:30 PM

Please who ever the mom is that sent me her sons and his roomates address and name please resend it to me . i need to get these pillowcases and goodies off.Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 27, 2004 01:20 AM

Dearest Ladies,
I am sorry I didn't write on Thanksgiving day. It ws a very hard ay for our family. My husband usually makes Thanksgiving dinner. The only time he hasn't is this year and the year he was in Desert Storm.Of course beng sick with Broncitas hasn't mede me feel any better. I wish to say thank you to all you beautiful women who have given me so much support during the last few months. It means more than you will ever know.Like a Mastercard commericial "PRICELESS" I hope you all are doing well. Everyone is in my daily prayers.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 27, 2004 01:39 AM

Thinking and praying for all of you and your Marines.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 27, 2004 01:44 AM

Where is everybody at? Did everyone have good Thaksgiving.Thinking of all of you.
MARY HELEN

Posted by: Mary Helen at November 30, 2004 09:08 PM

I'm still packing boxes to send over. It seems everytime I turn around I find something else to send over to my son or the troops. I was wondering the same thing Mary Helen....but then no news is good news they say. Everyone must be talking to their loved ones and all the projects seem to be completed. Now it's time to get down to serious Christmas shopping and baking and stuff at home. Found another good fund raiser if anyone is interested. www.uniquepromotions4u.com. Ribbon yard signs,....really cool. I have some in my yard mixed with the Christmas decorations.
Happy Holidays everyone. Love to you and our troops during the Holiday Season. Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at December 2, 2004 08:56 PM

Hello Ladies,
I got home form visitng Connie and Deb last night. What a great time we had. They are working so hard for the foundation. I am going to make sure they get 100% endorsements fron Marine Corp.
Hope every one is doing ok. I know personally it is hard during the holidays. I wasn't going to put a tree up. But I have deceided to put a Red,white and Blue tree up.Thinking of all of you. Wouldn't it be great to send all of us Moms and Wives over as a USO group..Oh well, there I go dreaming again.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at December 6, 2004 10:21 PM

I can't sing or dance but I'll go!

Posted by: Sandy A at December 9, 2004 09:32 PM

My Husband called just a bit ago and said 40,000 pounds of mailed has landed over there and they are in the midst of separating it and getting it out..Oh I hope everything gets there before Christmas.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at December 12, 2004 08:24 PM

i got a call from my son tonight. he was going back out for 6 to 14 days. he is going to have a boy baby and is tickled to death. his dream come true. thanks all of you for your support.

Posted by: debbie at December 12, 2004 09:45 PM

I would like to wish all Moms, Dads, and family members of our United Staes Marine Corps a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. My prayers will be with all of our troops and their famililies during this time of separation. My New Year's dream is hope for peace in the world and love to be spread abundantly for all to see that we as Americans are there through thick and thin to provide comfort and neccessities for all people of all nations to be able to live free and happy. God bless

Posted by: debbie at December 14, 2004 08:24 PM

Hello, I work at the Department of Defense and we are trying to locate a mailing list for any member of any service to send Xmas cards to. We have the names of five army personnel and are trying to locate more to send cards, care packages etc. Can you help me? Please send a list to Karren.brunell@dfas.mil

Posted by: Karren at December 15, 2004 03:49 PM

karen, you can click on any of our names and get an email address in which we can give you an address. it is nice to know people really do care.

Posted by: debbie at December 16, 2004 08:30 AM

I stumbled across your site I have been here at Camp Fallujah the past 4 months 8 more to go and just wanted to say hi these people here are great you can be very proud of them all. Sorry to intrude but wanted you all to know.

Posted by: Murphy at December 19, 2004 08:35 AM

I wish all a very merry christmas and a happy new year !! I pray for the safety and return of our loved ones serving for the continued freedom of our country and hopefully freedom of others.
I am so grateful that we are able to communicate with our loved ones.

I just keeping telling my son that hopefully he is almost over the "hump".

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at December 19, 2004 11:59 AM

I wish all a very merry christmas and a happy new year !! I pray for the safety and return of our loved ones serving for the continued freedom of our country and hopefully freedom of others.
I am so grateful that we are able to communicate with our loved ones.

I just keeping telling my son that hopefully he is almost over the "hump".

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at December 19, 2004 12:04 PM

I am the grandmother of Jonathon Davis, a marine stationed at Camp Pendelton, Calif. I don't have a address for him and don't hear from him but I know that he has been in Iraq 2 times on duty. I would like to have the a-mail address or phone number of a Chaplin there to talk to or would like for Jonathon to get in touch with me. I would appreciate any help. Wilma Nevans wmnev@kvinet.com

Posted by: Wilma Nevans at December 19, 2004 12:30 PM

I tried to email Wilma.But it was kicked back.Undeliverable Please email me privately.
Mary Helen
pnwotter@aol.com

Posted by: Mary Helen at December 19, 2004 09:19 PM

HO! HO! HO! MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL. SANTA WILL BE VISITING EVEN CAMP FALLUJAH THIS YEAR. I HAVE GIVEN HIM DIRECTIONS AS THE CROW FILES AND SENT ENOUGH FOOD TO MANY MARINES THAT THE REINDEER WILL SMELL THEIR WAY ALL THE WAY TO THE CAMP. NAUGHTY OR NICE, HE KNOWS THEY HAVE WORKED HARD AND ENDURED MUCH. HE WILL FLY DOWN, DROP OFF THE GOODIES AND FLYING AWAY YELL OUT PEACE ON EARTH TO ALL GOOD MEN. HAVE A MERRY CHRISTMAS AND JOY TO THE WORLD ONCE AGAIN (RUDOLPH MAY TURN HIS NOSE OFF THOUGH). HO! HO! HO! KEEP THE PRAYERS FLOWING AND THE MEMORIES CLOSE TO YOUR HEART. OUR MARINES WILL BE HOME IN THE NEW YEAR!

Posted by: Sandy A at December 20, 2004 07:33 PM

I heard from my son, David, finally after 3 weeks. He had been visiting downtown Fallujah. I told him he is grounded when he gets home. Then he sent me a dozen roses for Christmas. He's so sneaky, he always could find a way to my heart. I love him dearly and miss him a lot. He had 9 boxes on his bed when he got back to his room. I sent him a candle to light at a certain time and I will light mine at the same time. Then we will be connected if just for a short time. I wish they could have just one day of peace on Christ's birthday. Merry Christmas everyone! Wish for a miracle when you pray that day. Miracles do happen!!!! We need one now!

Posted by: Sandy A at December 20, 2004 07:44 PM

My cousin, Kevin Vargas is currently serving in Iraq and has been there since September. Staying in touch has been somewhat difficult, and I worry everyday when I read about the newest tragedies that are occuring over there. He is in the Marine Reserves with the 9th Communication Battalion. If there is anyone who knows someone in that unit, please let me know. We just want to know that he is ok and in good company.

Posted by: Julia at December 22, 2004 06:28 AM

I JUST FOUND THIS WEB PAGE AND I AM DELIGHTED. HAS NYONE HEARD OF THEIS WEB PAGE https://thor.aafes.com/scs/default.aspx
FOR CALLING CARDS. MERRY CHRISTMAS.

Posted by: KATHY at December 25, 2004 08:50 AM

It has been a very busy couple weeks. Hope everyone's Christmas was good and Santa could deliver most of what you wanted. I'm ready for this year to get over with. Have a safe, healthy and Happy New Year everyone.
Deal with what we have. Heal the best we can and Feel will all your hearts.
Happy 2005! Best wishes to you and your loved ones around the world.

Posted by: Sandy A at December 30, 2004 09:50 PM

My big brother is currently stationed at camp Fallujah as a civilian marine. I would like to thank all of your sons and daughters for keeping him safe. I dont know what else I can say. Our family is praying for all of them.

Posted by: jamie at January 4, 2005 04:12 AM

I know this is late in coming. But I would like to wish all our Marine families a Happy Neew Year. I know in my heart this year will be better.I would like to thank Deb and Connie for this great web site. I have met some great women on this site and cherish those freindships.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at January 5, 2005 12:10 PM

A toast to Deb and Connie......Uhrah. Or however you spell it. You rock girls. Oh Deb, by the way, how are we doing on the new program?
You've been awful quite! Happy New Year from Iowa. Would anyone like to come visit, we should have about 16 inches of snow by tomorrow afternoon. Feel free to come and enjoy our weather, don't plan on getting out of you hotel or the ditch for that matter. Plenty of hills to ski on in the city, but remember you walk back up to get to the top again.
Hope you had a great holiday everyone....keep the prayers going. Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at January 5, 2005 07:20 PM

Thanks, Mary Helen and Sandy, for the good wishes. Connie and I are still in recovery from Operation Santa and haven't had much energy for anything else. Her son, LCpl Bill Riecke, just left after visiting over the holidays and will deploy in a few months. My son will be returning home, so it is a good new year. We're still working on the discussion board and will host it at www.marinecorpsfamily.com as soon as we can get it up and running. There are some problems with the bulletin board software that comes with the site and so we're trying to figure out the best way to do it. Anyway, you'll all be the first to know about it since you are the inspiration for the board. We've just got to get you a better place to converse! I hope everyone here had a good Christmas and New Year. Mine was really different with Shane gone. I thought I'd be okay but when I came downstairs Christmas morning, the first thing my brother said was "it sure seems different with Shane gone" and my dad said "do you realize this is the first Christmas that Shane isn't here?" Well duh! I love my family, but honestly. So, I went in the bathroom and cried a bit then washed my face and regained my composure. I can usually keep my bearing. Anyway, he called me and said that he got my package on Christmas Eve (how perfect!) and was having a good Christmas. They even got turkey. He was happy about that.

Posted by: Deb at January 5, 2005 08:21 PM

To all the families of the brave Marines:

Send a personal message to your Marine by having a dogtag embossed on a small chain that they will wear or carry with them and read over and over! Nothing is more touching to a Marine than seeing a personal message from his child! I personally know a Marine who received this from his wife and cried.
Go to www.soldiertags.com and click on item T3. They are only $4.95 and free shipping!

Posted by: Sandra Teal at January 6, 2005 12:28 PM

I guess I am like the mom of all marines. Our son leaves for camp Fallujah February 2005. I am scared to death and do not know what to do and how to cope with this everyday. I try very hard to brave for him. But as it is getting closer it is getting harder. A close friend of mine has three sons in Bagdad, we sent numerous care packages etc to them. But I am really having a very very hard time dealing with this and need someone to talk to. I pray every day for him and all the others who are there. But there has to be more. Please need someone to talk to before I loose my wits and he has not even left yet. God bless you all and all our service people.

Posted by: Terry at January 7, 2005 11:56 AM

Terry,
Please email me privately pnwotter@aol.com. I think I can point you in the right direction.
Sincerely,
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at January 7, 2005 05:35 PM

Hi everyone,
Just a note to say hello and see how everyone is doing. I am finally starting to feel human again after being sick for 2 months. i am getting the house all ready for my hubby's return. Loooking back it seemed time went by so fast. So many projects to finish before he comes home. Hope everyone is doing good. It is supposed to get really cold here in Eastern Washington in the next few days. i was so proud of myself. I built my first fire and it was a sucess.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at January 13, 2005 10:09 AM

i found a wonderful website...you can make custom magnets, coffee mugs, shirts, mouse pads...etc...with your hubbys picture and you very own message on it!! The website is http://www.designsondemand.com/

Posted by: Michelle Billings at January 15, 2005 09:06 PM

Hello all;
I finally heard from my Marine Corps son at Camp Fallujah. He recieved his Christmas packages and of course there was enough for all his men. Is there anyone else out there that has a Marine in Fallujah that works with Motor T????? My son was originally from Camp LeJeune NC. I would love to hear from you. I have not been able to speak to my son as Im sure hes busy and when he has time he must call his wife. I would love to talk to other MOms or wives or grandmoms with Marines in Iraq.
Semper Fi
Sue

Posted by: Sue at January 17, 2005 03:31 PM

Hi Sue,
My son is with the Motor Transport at Camp Fallujah. In fact he just called yesterday morning about 4:30 AM our time. I was thrilled, he talked for about 5 minutes and then had to hang up but to hear his voice was good. I don't get much out of him of course, but as long as he calls or emails once in a while I'm satisfied. Nothing else that we can do anyway. I've been sending care packages over to his group. I'm sure there are probably more than one MT in the camp but I'd be happy to talk to you. My son's name is David and he is a mechanic and works on all the equipment. If there is anything I can help you with I will certainly try. My son is out of Rock Island IL. He has a friend who was home over Christmas from Camp Lejeune and Justin will be going over in February. I think he mentioned he is in communications now. My son's other friend came home the same time David went over and now his other friend will going over as David may be coming home. The circle just doesn't stop. But we have to remember they are all doing something good for mankind.
Take care and love to all our soldiers we miss so much. You can email me here or at sarensdorf@mchsi.com if you would like.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at January 17, 2005 06:19 PM

Sandy
Hi thank you so much I will send you an email I have a thousand questions. Its such a relief to have someone to talk to.
Sue

Posted by: Sue at January 17, 2005 07:37 PM

Sandy,
You are a great lady. You have brought so many smilies to my face since we started this cyber freindship. I am so blessed to have you in my life and I know that you will be able to bring those same smilies to Sue and make her feel better...
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at January 19, 2005 10:24 AM

Mary Helen are you using spell check? Ha Ha! You are to kind. Sue had emailed me and I think she is doing much better now. Our sons are not together I don't think but that's ok. A little communication goes along way.
Let's home they all come home soon and then a new group can take over Deb's website and she won't be so bored with us. Hi Deb and Connie!
How's the weather? How long did the fire last that you built? Ryan should take you along camping this weekend with his Boy Scouts. We are suppose to have another 6 inches of snow and if they go in the boonies, they may have to stay longer than Sunday. Take care all.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at January 19, 2005 09:46 PM

Hi Sue

I just found this website and am excited about using it. The love of my life as well as my best friend is in Iraq and Fallujah was where he thought he was headed. He is also out of Camp Lejeune. He is attached to an Army unit though so I look at this address that he has given me and wonder where he really is!

Posted by: Tracy at January 20, 2005 05:26 AM

Hi Tracy
We are so ALL in the same boat :( Im sure your honey is fine. I havent heard from my son since Christmas but he was doing well. Are you still at Camp LeJeune? Im in Maine and its really cold up here.
If you want to write you may use my email address
suet95@aol.com This site has been a sourse of comfort to me. It wonderful to see so many of us hold each other up.
Sue

Posted by: Sue at January 21, 2005 02:58 PM

I check this site every night and am amazed at how many eventually find it. It is really a comfort to so many, just to ask a simple question and have someone reply back to concerned parents, spouses or friends. Keep in touch everyone and thank you ladies for helping us find comfort among total strangers. Great job!

Posted by: Sandy A at January 22, 2005 06:51 PM

To all the great women I have met on this site I thank you. It brings so much comfort to me to know I am not the only one going thru this. It seems after all these years of bing a Marine wife(24+) it never gets easier. I get prouder every day of my Marine. He loves what he is doing and I support him 100% and then some. My husband is very proud of all the troops and how hard they are all working.Ladies keep up the great work of supporting your Marines, I know it helps them over there to know we are behind them. Have a great week everyone. You are all in my prayers as are your Marines...and all of our military.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at January 23, 2005 11:22 PM

I hope everyone is saying extra prayers for our marines,during the elections. I pray that all will be safe!!! By the way my son is Motor-T-from Camp Pendelton
Trish

Posted by: Patrica Hilliard at January 26, 2005 06:49 PM

My baby just called me last night. He had good news...he no longer has to go out into the city of Fallujah, he now gets to do only work at Camp Fallujah...he comes home in approx. 2 months!!!! I can't wait....does anybody know anyone from Camp Lejeune AAV's?

Posted by: Michelle Billings at January 26, 2005 08:09 PM

MY SON CALLED AND SAID HE WAS GOING TO CITY BY THE SYRIAN BORDER BY HELICOPTER IN THE NEXT FEW DAYS. HE IS 1ST MARINE FROM HAWAII. ANY INFO PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

Posted by: kathy silvestri at January 27, 2005 07:42 AM

HELLO. I DONT KNOW IF THIS SITE IS JUST FOR MARINES BUT MY FIANCE IS IN THE ARMY AND I KNOW HES STATIONED SOMEWHERE IN FALLUJAH. HIS NAME IS MACK AND HE HAD TO LEAVE WHEN I WAS PREGNANT. HE NOW HAS A BABY GIRL THAT WILL BE 3 MONTHS OLD FEBRUARY 6TH. I STARTED WRITING HIM THE DAY HE LEFT AND IVE ONLY SPOKEN TO HIM ONCE. PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN GIVE ME A MAILING ADDRESS SO I CAN SEND OFF HIS LETTERS AND PICTURES OF HIS BABY GIRL I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. I AM GOING CRAZY WITHOUT HIM. :(

Posted by: ajah at January 27, 2005 09:35 PM

Hello, I just found this site.. What a Blessing.. I thank all of you for the love and support for the troops..(sons/daughters/wives/husbands/brothers /sisters etc.) .. I am the daughter of a WW2/Korea USMC rt VET, as well as the mother of an active duty ARMY Solider (stateside) .. But I was searching for a friend USMC LCPL MCNeal, Tim L. 1/7 Charley co 3rd Platoon unit 41530 FPO AP 96426-1530. He is infantry. In Iraq 3rd tour. He is 21 yrs old. I was wondering if he came home to Camp Pendelton yesterday? How would I find that out? He is supposed to be back end Jan. begining Feb. sometime.. he is based in 29 palms ... Any help would be so appreciated.. He was last known to be in a town called 'AL QAIM' Iraq.. My E-mail GoSuperK@aol.com Thank You so much.... I will continue to pray for your loved ones.. peace to all Kathe Schnick

Posted by: Kathe Schnick at January 29, 2005 01:57 PM

Ajah,
You should check with his unit? They may be able to give you some information.
No on else would have any type of information about him. Sorry.

Posted by: Sandy A at January 29, 2005 06:38 PM

My son called yesterday and told me his unit had a very bad day. LCP Brian C Hopper, the brother of one of the Marines he works with was one of the Marines killed in the helicopter crash on Jan 26th. Please keep his family and all the familes of the other soldiers who died in your prayers. May God keep his arms around each and every one of our soldiers who are trying so hard to make the world a better place for everyone. SEMPER FI!

Posted by: Sandy A at January 29, 2005 06:54 PM

Where is everybody at?????? Can't wait for our chat room to begin. Happy Valentines Day coming up to all.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 3, 2005 08:04 PM

My son is in the 4th Civil Affairs Group which has been in Fallujah since the assault & only returns to Camp Fallujah occasionlly. This site is such a comfort to me, thanks especially to Mary Ellen. I discovered this site shortly after he arrived in Iraq back in August. Monday night Nightline did a report with the 4th CAG from inside Fallujah showing the lines of voters. They seemed proud of their inked-stained voting finger. It helps me alot to see reports like that. Keep praying for all of our service members.

Posted by: Carol at February 3, 2005 10:56 PM

My son is in the 4th Civil Affairs Group which has been in Fallujah since the assault & only returns to Camp Fallujah occasionlly. This site is such a comfort to me, thanks especially to Mary Ellen. I discovered this site shortly after he arrived in Iraq back in August. Monday night Nightline did a report with the 4th CAG from inside Fallujah showing the lines of voters. They seemed proud of their inked-stained voting finger. It helps me alot to see reports like that. Keep praying for all of our service members.

Posted by: Carol at February 3, 2005 10:57 PM

Sandy,
I am here and there..Trying to get the house back together before Rick gets home. I sill have a few months to go but it will take that long. I don't know what I am going to do when I will a man living in my house again. I will have to work on not making breakfast for dinner. Rick is getting excited about coming home. He told me not to worry about the house but he knows I do. I remember as a young Marne wife years ago, I would spend the whole night before he came home from being gone scrubbing floors etc and then I would be so tired when he got home I wasn't good for anything. I will have all of it done early this time so when he does finally arrive for his 2 weeks leave I will have some energy. I am going to fly to California for the homecoming.Then he and I will be board a plane after a couple days and come home.I can hardley believe it is coming so soon. Where did the time go? When I was going thru it it was H--- but looking back I couldn't have done it without everyone I have met on this website's support. You have all touched my life so much. Next August my Navy son heads over and then I will be a basket case again..Oh well. Have a great Friday!!!!
Hugs and prayers,
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 4, 2005 12:39 AM

A messy house is a lived in house that shows fun, warmth and liveliness. Before the kids came along my house or apartment was always clean too. So for the last 24 years, it's been a mess. Now by the time I get home from work I'm to tired and I just look at it. When the second wind strikes, I attack it. (not very often) I figure I have better things to do than to clean house all the time, like be on this website, send out care packages, meet my friends at different time, be chauffer to my kids, sit at their baseball and soccer games all spring and summer and the list goes on. The dust likes to sit around for while anyway. In my house it taught the boys how to write, don't bother with paper and pen.
Have a good weekend everyone. Bless those soldiers, hope they are home soon. I can't believe I have to start thinking of Easter packages already. Wow this year is going to fast already when you have to think 2 months in advance.
Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at February 4, 2005 04:01 PM

Just stumbled on this site. My son will be sent to Camp Fallujah soon.
I also belong to Marine Moms Online and that is a group of about 3000 moms and great for support and info. Are any of you members?

Posted by: Susie at February 6, 2005 05:45 PM

I was referred to this site by a member of the FRG for the 82nd Airborne....do you mind a few Army moms joining you? My son is a medic stationed in the International Zone in Baghdad. This is his second tour to Iraq. We are a unique bunch, we moms. I know that whenever I think of my son and his unit, I am prompted to pray. It's a whole lot better than worry!
teri 2/10/05

Posted by: Teri at February 10, 2005 07:34 AM

Could you please tell me the meaning of the blue star flag all I know is that it has something to do with out of the country. I was given one by the base here.

Posted by: Terry at February 11, 2005 04:27 AM

Teri and Terry,
I would be happy if you joined us, any mom who has a son in the sandbox is in the same situation as the rest of us. We're just guessing where they are at and how they are, but bits and pieces we hear from them is always good to pass along. We know they are well then and we are all anxious for them to come home. A couple of us have sons coming home soon, hopefully they will be home by Easter and we will have much to be thankful for. Of course there are many going over and many more still there so our prayers will still be with all of them. Happy to have you aboard. As you will see I believe on the main menu there are even some postings of the Army.

I have heard and seen the blue star flag but I am just not up on it all. I'm sure others can help you out though. I know I was reading about it somewhere but off hand I can't give you the site. I was going to buy one but never did. Everything I buy now a days seem to be red, white and blue. I'll look to see what I can find.

Have a good weekend. TGIF!!!!!! A group of National Guard just came home to Des Moines IA. What a happy group they were. We have posters made up for each Marine with their pictures on it when our group comes home. Hopefully in March. Can't wait.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 11, 2005 07:03 PM

Terry
Go to the Main section put in blue star banner as your search. A wonderful writing will come up. I forget the title but it is dated Dec 23 2004. He heading is about a faded yellow ribbon. There is a great item. This exerpt is from it.

"My house is the one with the faded yellow ribbons and the United We Stand placards. Always remembering how our lives were changed on September 11, 2001. There is an American flag on a pole attached to the front porch, and black ribbons get attached on days of rememberance. A small red and white banner with a blue star in the middle hangs in a window. We were presented with this by our local American Legion. Gold Star parents are the ones whose sons or daughters do not return home. Our hearts are in a constant ache for them and a piece of our heart and soul is with them."

Posted by: Sandy A at February 11, 2005 07:27 PM

Found a link about the blue star banner.
http://www.usmc.mil

Posted by: Sandy A at February 11, 2005 07:39 PM

It's interesting that the blue flag question came up tonight cause I was wondering the same thing. After I checked out this wonderful website, I went to the usmc.mil website & there was a very inforative article about the serice flags. I assume it's the same thing. Wish we had one. Thank you again for this wonderful site. Happy Valentines Day everyone.

Posted by: Carol at February 11, 2005 11:34 PM

Thank you so much for the information. I go to that web sight often but never thought to look there for my answers. We to are the house with the faded ribbons and placards and are trying to update and bring them true colors again and did not want to get the wrong replacement. Thank you so much for your help and god bless

Posted by: Terry at February 12, 2005 02:36 AM

I know Walmart sells them. You may be able to get one from your local VFW also. I'm getting my St Patrick's care packages ready to sent out. Happy Valentine's Day everyone.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 12, 2005 06:52 PM

See WWW.serviceflags.com to purchase a flag and other things.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 12, 2005 07:15 PM

Appreciate your suggestions for locating the blue star flag ...THANKS! Does anyone know how long delivery of packages to Camp Fallujah is taking lately? Still praying for our troops.

Posted by: Carol at February 12, 2005 09:46 PM

Carol,
The packages I have sent are taking 2-3 weeks.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 12, 2005 10:18 PM

I have justed visited a few other websites. This is the best Deb and Connie. I haven't been able to find any of the accomplishments and stories you give us to read on any of them. Your MAIN is outstanding. This is the best if you want news for Operation Iraqi Freedom and our Marines. You out do yourself with every story. Keep it up.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 12, 2005 10:49 PM

Sandy,
I agree. We are going to have to plan a reunion someday. I am getting so excited to have my Marine home. I don't know where the time went. I was going to do so much when Rick was gone and only got part of it done. I was too busy sending care packages.Priority's...I talked to Rick today and he said everyone is getting the short timers fever. I am so happy for all those families that soon will have their loved ones home. Some of Rick's guys are on the way home as we speak and I am so happy for them. They have worked so hard. God Bless you all.Please keep all those families that aren't s lucky as some of us, because they won't be able to hold their loved ones.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 13, 2005 09:48 PM

Yes! Reunion, Yes! That would be so much fun, putting some faces to the names is always such a surprise. Just got off the phone with David and he is ready to come home, he just needs the word. He's sending his packages home, tokens of Iraqi Freedom and selling the rest of his stuff like the Playstation, refrig, microwave, tv etc. Now he wants he's talking about his truck, I keep telling him to get home first. Little brother is getting excited about his big brother coming home, so he can show him off. Hmmmmm, is this considered a 6th grade chick attention getter with a big brother in a uniform. What a nice Valentine's Gift hearing his voice. Have a great night everyone! Happy Valentine's day. Sandy

Posted by: Sandy A at February 14, 2005 07:23 PM

Hi everyone,
My Valentines gift from the Marine Corp was you will have to wait an extra week to see your loved one. It sucks...Oh well.such is the life of a Marine wife...At least he will come home sometime..
Mary helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 14, 2005 08:45 PM

Yes that does suck. Your going to be so busy up to the time he comes home though. I just saw a Marine shirt for a Marine wife that says "My next husband will be Normal" I think I should buy that for you. I'm sure being the wife of a "full bird", as one Marine told me, is pretty hard and lonely at times. Well remember you have many to think the world of you and what you are doing, I give you the title, "A full bird's best thing that every happened to him". You are quite the full time Marine all the way too.
Take care and I'm thinking about you always. I'm sure it won't be until sometime in March when David heads home.

Posted by: Sandy A at February 15, 2005 06:44 PM

I have had the red and whie flag with the blue star in my store window since my son went to battle in jan. 03. It was sent to me from North Dakato after the first deployment. When my son got home, it came down and when he went back for the battle of Fallujah, it went back up. The American Legion started this during World War II. I loaned it to a friend when her son was in Iraq and it came back home to me. I feel lucky because my son's best friend's mom we sent one with the gold star. A fallen hero. God bless all the families and keep the support going.

Posted by: debbie at February 19, 2005 07:21 AM

Hi all. I stumbled upon this side and I'm amazed how many of you there are. I know this is for mostly moms of marines, but my boyfriend left for Camp Fallujah this past Wednesday, February 16th. He arrived sometime last night and this is his third trip to Iraq since the war began. He was supposed to get out of the marine corps in April of this year, but they extended his time through March of 2006, so he will be residing in Fallujah for the next 13 months. I'm praying for him and I'm terrified. You've all been through this longer than I have so I'd appreciate the support and any helpful information you have. I'm not certain what is going on in Fallujah at this time so if any of you know anything, please inform me. God bless.

Posted by: Ashley at February 19, 2005 06:56 PM

Dearest Ashley,
My husband who is in the Marine Corp is currently residing at Canp Fallujah. Things are pretty quiet there. The food isn't as good as the other bases, but they are making do. Let me know his address email me and I would be more than happy to send him a care package.Hang in there. Time will go by so fast you will will look back and go where did the time go. I am busy right now trying to do all the projects I had planned to do when Rick was gone. When I was going thru this deployment I thought it would never end. But i just took it one day at a time. Some days were longer than others.But I made it. I would suggest keeping a journal and sending one over for your guy. Rick and I have done this and it is fun to compare notes when they get home. Welcome to this group. You will find alot of support here.Sincerely,
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 19, 2005 10:03 PM

Well today is the day. My son leaves at noon fro Fallajah. I spoke with him last night and he said please mom do not cry everyone is crying around me and it is getting so tough. Once again that hardest job in the corp had to kick in. Got composed and went on. But as for this a.m. I just do not think I can do it. Our 12 year old son told his friend he could not stay on the phone because his brother was calling mom and explained it to him. Now out of the mouths of babes this other 12 year old said to tell his brother Thank You with all his heart for making it safe for him and he will pray for him. There is hope for our youth if there ever was doubt. I just pray I can get through this call this morning. That I do not let him down,but I know he will understand if I do. We have his address and the first care packages and letters are ready to go. Thank you all for your answers to my questions and listening I just needed to vent again. God Bless All.

Posted by: Terry at February 20, 2005 02:06 AM

Dearest Terry,
My prayers are with you.
Mary Helen

Posted by: Mary Helen at February 20, 2005 10:05 PM

Hi all!
I am so happy to have found this site! My brother is a Marine formerly stationed at Camp Lejeune and now just deployed to Camp Fallujah. He left early the morning of the 19th and called the family yesterday from Afganistan. He is in Camp Fallujah now. Mary Helen, it is nice to hear that it is quiet there at Camp Fallujah. It is hard to stay strong and confident with all the negative comments in the media and the press. I have started a package to send to him. I've included a journal - is there anything else you suggest? Do you know the delivery time from the states to Iraq? Please feel free to email me. Thanks again for your positive comments!
With love, Veronica

Posted by: Veronica at February 21, 2005 09:12 AM

Hi all!
I am so happy to have found this site! My brother is a Marine formerly stationed at Camp Lejeune and now just deployed to Camp Fallujah. He left early the morning of the 19th and called the family yesterday from Afganistan. He is in Camp Fallujah now. Mary Helen, it is nice to hear that it is quiet there at Camp Fallujah. It is hard to stay strong and confident with all the negative comments in the media and the press. I have started a package to send to him. I've included a journal - is there anything else you suggest? Do you know the delivery time from the states to Iraq? Please feel free to email me. Thanks again for your positive comments!
With love, Veronica

Posted by: Veronica at February 21, 2005 09:13 AM

I am happy to have found this site. My brother left for Camp Fallujah early Sat morning from Camp Lejeune. Mary Helen, I am happy to hear that it is "quiet" there. It is hard to stay positive with all the negativity on television and in the press. I am sending a package (journal included), do you have any suggestions for content? Are you familiar with the delivery time?
Thanks again for this site!
Veronica

Posted by: Veronica at February 21, 2005 10:22 AM

Hi ladies, My boyfriend left this past Sunday February 20 from Lejeune and is heading over to Fallujah. I just stumbled across this site - you guys do a great job. I also found a great site that sells customized military support ribbons, mugs, pins, t-shirts, etc that you can get with your marine's picture and name on it. I thought it was such a great service...if any of you are interested here is the website: http://www.cafepress.com/photoribbon
Anything helps, right?
Stephanie

Posted by: Stephanie at February 22, 2005 10:37 AM

My son left from Camp LeJeune on Sunday also headd for Camp Fallujah. From the earlier postings looks like he is relieving a lot of your loved ones - I wish them all a safe return. He didn't have an address or any contact information. Do they leave with that info or do we wait to hear from them. I have enjoyed reading all the postings and will visit daily until his safe return.

Posted by: Cindy Bauer at February 23, 2005 08:42 AM

Cindy,
When my husband left they handed out everyone their address before hand. we got them about a week before they deployed. it could be different for every company though

Posted by: Michelle Billings at February 23, 2005 08:31 PM

Hi everyone.
Sounds like the Camp LeJeune Marines are IRAQ bound. Yes that means that our guys are coming home. It's sad to see them go and I feel for everyone of you, however, that means my son comes home. Don't get me wrong, this is truly mixed feelings again. My son's friend is out of Camp LeJeune and so he has just left also. One comes back and one goes over, hopefully it will stop soon. The two of them plan to meet someplace, I can't name the place, but I hope they are able to get together for a day. It has been over a year since they have seen each other and the reunion will be good for both of them.

Ladies, I started out knowing absolutely nothing until I came upon this site. For the last 6 months I have visited this site EVERY NIGHT! I always hear, or see, or am able to talk to someone. I love this site and it has helped me tremendously. Before my son went over, I had little to do with the Corps....I was a mom and my son a reserve so he went away for a weekend and was back home. I was not familiar with the Corps much at all, or should say I was not involved. I am now a KV since my son went over.

Terri, I have a 12 yr old also and it was pretty tough to see one of his older brothers go off to war in his eyes. David called from the airport and said he would be leaving in a few hours. Ok what do you do? Nothing but start the worrying and imagine the worst. Well my son and I sat around the night David left and didn't know what to do, say or think about each other. After David got over there, the first thing he said was it is so hot and the water is so bad. Send me juice mix. I had his address before he left but thought I should wait until I hear from him before I send anything. If you have an address...start sending stuff. It is about 70 by day and 50 at nightnow. During the summer it is 140 degrees. Go to the main screen and you will find how to make sand scarves, cool ties and what to send.

Start sending stuff now to them. It takes between 10 to 18 days, depending on where they are over there. If your planning on Easter stuff with chocolate, etc. Don't wait, get the boxes out now. In another month or two, the temp may be getting to warm to send choc or any other type of treats that would melt or spoil. (Don't send carmel apples when it's 90...they don't arrive in the best of shape...not a good idea. Trust me!) Things that you might think about now to send is chocolate (anything), taffy, sausage, bricks of cheese, pudding cups, fruit cups, hot choc pouches (for cool nights) and anything else. I've sent several long sausage and some bricks of cheese between Nov - Jan and they are fine. The guys had them for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years.

Second go to the post office and get the FLAT RATE BOXES, they have 2 types for $7.70 shipping. Also get some flat rate envelopes that ship for $3.85. Weight does not matter, stuff the boxes full of everything. Some items to send all the time is juice mix. Send one or two large Gatorade, Powerade or Crystal Light (nothing that needs sugar added like Kool aid)to get them going. This helps the water go down. The water tastes like bleach I was told. Then after that, every package I sent over had a small container in it so they could stock up. Other items are peanuts, sun flower seeds, trail mixes, dehydraded fruit, chips in canisters (no bags they burst during flight, trust me on this one too). Little Deb stuff ships good also.
When I send homemade cookies I buy Ziploc plastic containers and pack them tight so the cookies don't get crushed (to much) or I send bunches of candy bars, granola bars, Kudo's etc and pack them in them. It helps in shipping and they will find they can always use the containers for other things they have. Send crackers (cheeze its, Wheat thins, Ck in a biskit, goldfish), micro waveable soups, popcorn, munchie cereal (oreo, reeses, corn pops, etc). Ok they are not going to starve by any means, and I think the food is pretty good most of the time. This is just for their trailers and snacks to share with other guys, when they play cards, games, watch videos ets. (By the way, they buy microwaves, TV's, playstations, and refrigs to name a few things from those leaving. They still have some comforts of home.) You would be surprised how many soldiers do not receive packages from home. Send more than your loved one can eat because he will want to share his wealth. Containers helps keep opened stuff they have fresh. I also send over individual packages of ziploc bags (10 per pack can be bought). For medicines I sent over Tylenol, sun lotion, hand and body lotion, foot lotion, bandaids, liquid bandaid gel, cough drops, Q-tips, handi wipes, athletes foot stuff, neosporim, visen eye drops, a hot/cold pack anything that they can keep in a box incase they need it. Much of the stuff they did use occasionally. It sat until they needed it. Deodorant and toothpaste occasionally, but they can buy that and razor blades there. Once in awhile I threw some in. I also sent some bars of soap, dust cloths packages (lots of dust there), more wet wipes, a little bottle of dish soap, a couple towels, wash cloths. Then you send that stuff once and it's pretty much over for that stuff. (No aerosol stuff).

Well getting back to when David left, Ryan and I were lost for a little while. But when David called for the juice mix, we got right on it. We decided to get a project going. We challenged his school to bring one container of juice mix and we would send them over. The whole school got involved and the kids were overjoyed and excited in helping the soldiers. It hits home when it is one of their's and they can put a face to the war. I sent some pictures of David and Marine posters to school. The school decorated a bulletin board and the containers piled up under his pictures. At the end of the month I had 187 container....all sizes...little to huge! The classes took holidays to make cards, letters, etc and I shipped them in the boxes I made up for the troops. I had Army Reserve, IA National Guard and Marines I was sending packages to. This started out as local men and women, and wound up to anyone in the country I had a name for. THey do accumulate after a while. My Church, cash jars I sent out and other donations helped me send these packages. Several guys wrote the kids back about their cards and thanked them. On the back of the cards, I labeled the school and it's address and the grade that made the card and notes. Both were winners and both loved them. My main object was to keep ourselves busy and keep letters and packages flowing over there so neither of us forgot about each other. Even at Christmas I sent a candle to my son. They are 9 hours ahead of us in IRAQ. I had David light his candle at one time and the same time here I lit mine. We did it again at this birthday. It was a battery operated candle. Anything you can think of to just feel a little bit it touch helps. Look at the stars and moon at night....they are seeing the same where they are at sometime. Keep yourself positive. Forget the TV news and newspaper. If there is something you need to know, someone will tell you. Til then "NO News is Good news". The media is totally negative....forget them, go to the main page of this website and read what the guys are doing, how they are helping, and how grateful the IRAQI people are. Not all of them are trying to kill our soldiers, only the insurgents who have nothing left...no money, no power, no loving family, they are useless and will hopefully figure this out before to long. They have nothing to live for, their lives are useless.......look for the good coming out of IRAQ....pray for the best results. You have to live your life because thinking about what could happen will drive you crazy and depress you. Send some love to your soldier. Don't forget to put some silly stuff in also. A goofy hat, cards, games, little race cars, magazines, books, decorations, pictures, etc. Remember they have email also. Phone cards they can buy there and have them recharged. They are cheaper there than they are here. Send some holiday decorations and lots of goofy cards.

For Christmas his girlfriend and I shipped him signs we made of cities some of the guys from his unit were from, Camp Pendleton, Camp LeJeune (he was there for 11 months in 2003), his base city. It looked like the MASH signs in the show. We had miles as the "crow flies". Other guys added to the post. We sent the signs so it was up to him to find a big enough post to put them on. Use your imagination. It was actually fun thinking up some of the stuff we did. I'm sure when David opened up the larger packages, he rolled his eyes and said "how can my mom corrupt my girlfriend like this". We had a good time. She made a scrapbook while he was gone with old pictures and ones he sent home or special write up's we found. Believe me we kept pretty busy and kept him busy too. She wrote the letters, I sent cards a couple time a week and a care package about once a week. 6 months = 26 pkgs about, but I know he received about 50 because I handed out labels to friends and relatives so they mailed letters, cards and packages to him too. The time really went much faster because everynight I thought about him but I was busy doing stuff for him so I wasn't thinking much about anything more than he was away from home. Don't dwell on the word war....it's way to scary.

Well your tired of reading but I hope I was able to help you new familes out some. I didn't know any of this when he left. I learned the hard way and from this site. Start your St Pat's boxes now and get them mailed. I'm sending hats and anything green and crazy to my guys. Stick that Easter bunny in the box....they are never to old to hunt for their basket. Birthdays? get their roommate address (probably the same as your soldier) and ship him some boxes at that time. He can put on the birthday party for your soldier. Keep it fun and keep it going.

Got to stop because Deb knows I don't stop once I start rambling. Thanks for the space Deb. Good luck everyone and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless your loved one and may he keep his arms around them always to keep them safe, healthy and happy.

SEMPER FI MARINES....and other branches!
Sandy

By the way, these guys work about 12 hour shifts so when they are done, they are tired. Also don't send anything over that may need to come home, buy the cheap stuff because it is going to stay. If your guys are over at Christmas, I hope someone gets David's tree he is leaving behind, hopefully your rotation will end by around August. The trailers have a/c and heaters (I guess when they work), but they have many more conveniences now that the first group didn't. They had nothing!!!! So your guys are tough and will be ever more grateful for you when they come back home. Some will be better off than others depending on their job, but prayers will help bring them all back home. Take care and God bless your loved ones.

Ok Deb, I'm signing off! I'm hitting the post button!

Posted by: Sandy A at February 25, 2005 10:18 PM

Hey moms, My son just called. He'll be home soon. They had today off to pack and ship stuff home.
There are also flags that your soldier can buy that have been flown over the camp. They are put up and then taken down and can be purchased to be brought home. He can have them signed by fellow soldiers. I asked David a couple months ago when I found out about them to purchase a few and bring home. He has a few in the mail for me. I intend on giving them to a few very special people and businesses how have helped me send my 130+ care packages to our troops. He also is sending me a box of cigars that say OIP in little cases to give them as a thank you also. I hope they enjoy the gifts, because it just a little thank you from us to them. Well I'm not sure how crazy the ladies will be with cigars but it's the thought that counts. I didn't get much to choose from. If your interested tell your soldier to look into it.
Have a nice morning!

Posted by: Sandy A at February 27, 2005 12:17 AM

I just wanted to tell you thank you Sandy for all the info. You know we started the look to the stars at the same time when Karl was in boot camp and the first letter I sent to him the day after he left was to remind him of the stars and he would always hear mom say I Love You Be Safe and God Bless. It does help to know you are sharing the same thing at the same time. Thank you again for the info.

Posted by: Terry at March 3, 2005 10:21 AM

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