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March 21, 2007



NBC is looking for a few good men (and women)

I received a request today from NBC - passing it along for those who may be interested:

NBC Television is looking for HEROIC STORIES FROM THE IRAQ WAR!!! If you or someone you know would like to share your story please contact us. Please include a current photo along with your contact information and a short description of the hero and any medals or awards they may have received. All submissions should be sent to heroicwarstories@yahoo.com . The deadline for submissions is Monday, March 26th.

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March 20, 2007



"You were the best that we had"

High Flight

Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;

Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of - wheeled and soared and swung

High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air.

Up, up the long delirious, burning blue
I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, or even eagle flew.

And, while with silent, lifting mind I've trod
The high untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.
- John Gillespie Magee, Jr

On March 20, 2003, a CH-46 sea knight helicopter crashed en route to the Iraqi border town of Umm Qasr. On board were twelve warriors - four United States Marines and eight British Marines. Their loss was a collective blow to two allied countries - and the loss of twelve outstanding young men has forever changed the lives of those who knew them.

One of those men was USMC Corporal Brian Kennedy. Raised in Illinois, he played football in high school and lacrosse at both Purdue and Texas Tech, where he studied mechanical engineering. His future was bright. He wanted more.

In 1999, he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps, telling his father that it was a calling. Assigned to the 3rd Marine Air Wing, at Camp Pendleton as a helicopter hydraulics mechanic, he was deployed to Iraq in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom in early 2003. In one of the opening days of the war, his helicopter crew was providing lift support and troop insertion for the British Royal Marines when the aircraft went down, just south of the Iraqi border. He was 25 years old.

A few days later, the remaining Marines from his aircraft group gathered in a maintenance hanger in Kuwait to remember Cpl. Kennedy and the other three U.S. members of the crew; Captain Jay T. Aubin, Captain Ryan Beaupre, and SSgt. Kendall Waters-Bey. A report filed by Sgt. T. L. Carter-Valrie described the battlefield memorial service and a few highlights are included here.

Cmdr. Jim Ellis, USN, who served as MAG-39 chaplain, remarked, "The purpose of this memorial is to create a memory through reflection and remembrance of these brave men. Marines and Sailors, this service is also for you. It is your time to create a memory that the Marine Corps will not forget the valiant actions of these men."

3rd MAW MajGen Amos explained why these men in particular were chosen; "It was challenging and it was tough - that's why the aircrew of this squadron were picked to lead the assault." Addressing the remaining warriors, he explained, "Your great squadron was out in front for a reason - -you were the best that we had."

Lt. Col. Jerry Driscoll, HMM-268 commanding officer, commented, "I remember these men as heroes because they made a simple decision to serve - to become Marines, to do good for others and in so doing are examples of leadership for us all," he said. "Our brothers demonstrated there is no greater love than one who would lay down his life for another."

Cpl. Brian Kennedy was a warrior. He was a Marine. He was also a beloved brother and son.. On this 4th anniversary of his sacrifice, pause to remember him. And also, remember his family - father and step-mother Mark and Valerie Kennedy, mother and step-father Melissa and John Derbyshire, and sister Gretchen Helgesen. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cpl. Kennedy is remembered, not only for the heroic way in which he died but how he lived. He accomplished more in 25 years than others do in a lifetime, and will never be forgotten by his family and friends, including his Marine brothers. For those of us who did not know him in life, we will never forget him in death.

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March 19, 2007



VAJoe

It's always fun to find a new milblog - and this one is particularly interesting. VAJoe is a new site built for the military community and it's well worth checking out. Here's what it's all about:

The VAJoe.com Blog is the gathering place for the U.S. military community to blog and comment on blogs about the war in Iraq, military news and benefits updates. We will feature interviews with popular military bloggers and guest blogs from well-known and respected bloggers.

The site includes contests and comedy, military news and info on veterans benefits. Membership is free for everyone in the military community. Check it out.

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March 18, 2007



Welcome Corvallis Gazette Times and Albany Democrat Herald readers

One of the joys of rural living is the willingness of local media to support the projects that support our troops.
The Democrat Herald and Gazette Times have been especially supportive - each year when we launch Operation Santa USMC, they have run front-page stories that share our mission - to support our deployed Marines. When Connie and I started this site, we had a connection as Marine Moms. Two years later, our sons who were stationed at the same base but had been on opposite sides of the world for two years, swapping places in the same dusty Iraqi city, met for the first time at the 4th of July picnic in Albany. The Democrat Herald was there to cover that meeting. And today, they're in the Red Horse Coffee Company where I hang out whenever I have the chance - the owner is a former Marine, gotta support the extended family - to explore local blogs. Here's what they have to say:

When Deb Conrad's son, Cpl. Shane Conrad, deployed to Iraq for the first time, the Marine mother struggled to find a way to channel her fear and her curiosity about the situation overseas.

She began searching the Web for news resources about Iraq that she wasn't finding in the local media.

"I wanted 'boots on the ground' stories," the Lebanon woman said.

She discovered military blogs were a great source of information on the kind of stories she was searching for.

"I had my favorites I read almost every day," she said.

So when Shane was deployed a second time, Conrad decided the things she'd learned, not only about Internet resources, but also about surviving the deployment of a son, would make great blog topics themselves. So she launched her own blog called "Marine Corps Moms" (www.marinecorpsmoms.com). The blog became a way to share what she'd learned with large groups of people under similar circumstances.

"Instead of answering e-mails, it was more efficient to put things on a Web site," she said.

The site gave her a feeling of being proactive while her son was serving in Iraq.

"It was a great way for me to cope," she said. "I had a lot of anxiety, a lot of negative emotions."

She worked with local company Salyris Studios to set up the site.

When Conrad began organizing a local branch of "Operation Santa" to gather donations to send holiday gifts to deployed Marines, she used the blog to promote the project.

"It allowed us to have a national presence in a hurry," she said. Because of donations flowing in from across the country, they were able to expand their donation from gifts for 35 Marines to stuffing 6,000 stockings.

At the peak of her son's second and third deployment, when she was blogging several times a day, Conrad said, she had between 5,000 and 10,000 hits a day on her site. While that number has dropped, and the frequency of her posting has also dropped now that her son is home for good, she is still maintaining the blog as a resource for military families.

Her son had limited access to the Internet during his second deployment, but he was occasionally able to read his mother's blog, and he'd call or e-mail her to let her know he was paying attention.

Conrad said she's received a lot of positive responses to her blog, with some military parents calling it a "lifesaver." She still culls the Internet for stories about Iraq, and tries to put stories with more positive content on the site.

"We have a lot of parents reading" the site, she said, and she doesn't want to focus on negative stories, although, "I don't sugar-coat stuff."

She also offers a lot of helpful hints to families facing an upcoming deployment of a son or daughter. Parents are usually prepared to send their children off to college, but few know what to do when those children go to war.

"Doctor Spock doesn't cover that," she joked.


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March 17, 2007



Fair Winds and Following Seas

First Battalion Seventh Marines formed up to say its last good bye and good luck to First Sergeant Basbas and his family a few weeks ago. First Sergeant Basbas enlisted in the Marine Corps on 30 July 1984 and attended Recruit Training at Marine Corps Recruit Depot, San Diego, CA. He served two combat tours in Iraq, and served as the Company First Sergeant for Weapons Company 1/7 during his last tour. Some of the personal awards of First Sergeant Basbas include Navy Commendation Medal, Navy and Marine Corps Achievement Medal, and Combat Action Ribbon.

1st Sgt. Basbas was a terrific liaison for Operation Santa, making sure that the holiday packages that we sent were secured and then passed out to his Marines. When the Marines of 1/7 came home, he lectured them each time they set out on post-deployment leave. "I know you're going to drink. Don't get caught. And don't get married. Every time you guys go on leave, someone gets married. Don't do it." And by the last time they came back, he was resigned. "I know you guys are gonna go get married. I'm telling you not to do it. And when you do it, I'll say I told you so."

The Marines of 1/7 will miss him. Oohrah, 1st Sgt, and many good wishes for the next phase of your life..

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March 15, 2007



Honoring past sacrifices

The gray foam and the great wheels of war go by and take all - and the years give mist and ashes - and our feet stand at these, the memory places of the known and the unknown, and our hands give a flame-won poppy - our hands touch the red bar of a flag for the sake of those who gave - and gave all.
- Carl Sandburg, 1918

When I travel, one of the must-do items on my list is to check out how various communities honor past and present members of their military. I've been to the top of the Soldiers and Sailors monument in the very center of downtown Indianapolis - and felt a bit guilty about taking the elevator to the top when I stepped off and met a 72 year old former Marine who had just climbed the 230-foot flight of stairs. Two years ago, I took a wrong turn coming home from Palm Springs and ended up in downtown San Francisco where the Lone Sailor statue at the northern end of the Golden Gate bridge stood overlooking San Francisco Bay. The plaque at his feet read, "Here the sailor feels the first long roll of the sea, the beginning of the endless horizon that leads to the far Pacific". I was reminded of my own father, now retired from the U.S. Navy, who spent most of the 20 years he served on board ship and away from his family. Last summer, I had a 6 hour layover in Savannah, so I grabbed a rental car and spent several hours driving through this beautiful Southern city - finding the Marine Monument in Forsyth Park was a perfect way to spend the afternoon.

Washington D.C. has far too many memorials to mention in one post - last spring, I spent a night and day viewing various sites. The elegant simplicity of the Vietnam Veterans Memorial was heartbreaking - walking past years of names as numbers of those killed rose higher and higher. Rising out of the night were the statues that make up the Korean War Memorial. It gave life to the stories I've heard about the frozen Chosin and I could almost hear the crunch of battleworn boots through the snow as soldiers and Marines pressed forward into the fight. And no Marine Mom could visit D.C. without a visit to the Iwo Jima Memorial just a short walk from Arlington National Cemetary. Looking up at the statues of these defiant warriors who risked death to raise the U.S. flag atop Mt. Suribachi was awe-inspiring.

These memorials have stood for years as a tribute to the men and women who have given their lives to ensure freedom and democracy for the rest of us. These reminders of our historical past - cast bronze, carved marble, welded steel, and polished granite -serve as an investment in the future of our children and grandchildren. Someday, they will look at these memorials and remember the sacrifices of our troops.

Now, another memorial is being planned by a small Montana community. More information can be found at their website. Even if you do not live near Montana, consider supporting this effort - it's an investment in future generations who will look at this bronze statue and remember the past. Buy a brick, purchase a replica statue, send a donation - it's all good.

From the Flathead Veterans Memorial website:
The Monument will be a 1.25 life size image of a combat soldier kneeling in from of a comrade's hastily dug grave mounted on a 12 ft long by 8 ft wide by 8 ft high black granite faced base. On the front side of the base will be etched in bold letters the words "We Will Never Forget!". Below that will be a listing of the 196 Flathhead County Servicemen who have been killed while defending our Great Nation, starting with Fred Weaton in the Spanish-American War and currently ending with Edward Saltz in the Iraqi War. Spaces will be provided for those who fall in future conflicts.

Read more about this at Blackfive and Grim's Hall.

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March 14, 2007



Things NOT to say to a deployed spouse or parent

Carrie sent along this link to Rebekah Sanderlin's thoughts on the ten worst things you can say to a military wife whose husband is deployed. Cassandra at Villainous Company is adding her thoughts - do check it out - but parents of deployed troops have their own take on thoughtless remarks made by people who speak before reflecting.

Obviously, there are differences between military spouses and military parents. Either life has its challenges. However, parents are drafted - there's nothing in any guide to raising children that addresses the day you send your precious son off to war. Both parents and spouses need support. Unfortunately, well meaning and otherwise intelligent people make this type of observation all too often. Here, side by side is Rebekah's list and my own markedly similar list that I've kept in my head during my son's three deployments.





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Rebekah's list of the worst things you can say to a woman whose husband is deployed
Deb's list of the worst things you can say to a parent whose son or daughter is deployed
"Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?"
This one ranks in at number one on my "duh" list. Of course we're afraid. We're terrified. The thought always lingers at the backs of our minds - but thanks, you just brought it back to the front. Maybe next you can go ask someone with cancer if they're scared of dying.)
"Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?"
Yes, thank you so much for mentioning it, asshat. It's a constant unrelenting fear for any parent with a child deployed in a war zone. My heart skipped a beat every time there was a knock at the door and I checked the driveway to make sure there wasn't a car with government plates in the spot where my son used to park . The first time I heard this question, I was sitting in a dentist chair and the dentist was making conversation. We rescheduled the procedure - it's hard to examine a patient with tears running down her face. The dentist felt terrible and he should have - it was an idiotic question.
"I don't know how you manage. I don't think I could do it."
Though this is really annoying, I feel bad about mentioning it because I know that it is intended to be a compliment. Still, it's not like all of us military wives have been dreaming since childhood of the day we'd get to be anxious single moms who carry cell phones with us to the bathroom. We're not made of some mysterious matter that makes us more capable, we just got asked/told to take on a challenging job and we rose to the challenge.)
"Why did you let him join?"
What makes you think I could stop him? Our adult children choose to be Marines. It may not be our choice for our child, but they are grown up and capable of making up their own mind about their future. All we can do is support them. And, there is a certain perverse thrill, when that same friend who just admitted that she didn't think she could cope as a military parent realizes that her son aspires to be a shift manager at Burger King, while my son is rebuilding a nation and rescuing innocents from tyranny. Plus, he gets to drive big machines and blow things up - things near and dear to every young man's heart.
"At least he's not in Iraq."
This is the number one most annoying comment for my friends whose husbands are in Afghanistan. As one friend put it, "What do they think is happening in Afghanistan? A huge game of golf? Guys are fighting and dying over there, too."
"He's in Iraq? I'm sorry."
This comment, while meant to be helpful, was infuriating. My son was doing exactly what he wanted to do. This faux sympathy, however well meant, denigrated his firm belief that he was making a difference. The first few times I heard this, I pasted on a smile and thanked them. After that, I asked them, "Sorry for what?" It gave me an opportunity to explain that my son was making a positive difference in the world, to show them pictures of him with the Iraqi Army soldiers that he was tasked with training, and playing with children who dreamed of growing up in a world free from strife.
"Do you think he'll get to come home for Christmas/anniversary/birthday/birth of a child/wedding/family reunion, etc?"
Don't you watch the news? No. They don't get to come home for any of these things. Please don't ask again.
"Do you think he'll get to come home for Christmas/anniversary/birthday/wedding/family reunion, etc?"
This isn't summer camp. He doesn't get to come home until his deployment is over. When my son was in Iraq during Christmas 2004, it was the first time he'd ever been away. Christmas was a major celebration in our family and it was very difficult. I spent that holiday with my parents and brother's family - and prayed that I'd get through it with my composure intact. The first thing my dad asked me on Christmas morning was "Do you realize this is the first time Shane hasn't been here?" Yes, I did realize that - in fact it's all what I'd been thinking about and why I hadn't slept the last night. Of course, I didn't say that - he wasn't trying to hurt me and he was dealing with his own emotions. So I went in the bathroom, cried, splashed cold water, and came back out with my game face on. I can usually keep my composure. Major holidays are different.

I did get through the day, but every time someone commented on how much they missed Shane, I went back in the bathroom, cried, splashed cold water, and came back out with my game face on. Marine Moms are like that. And that night, when he was able to get a call out to me, it was the best gift I'd ever had, apart from the day he was born.

"What are you going to do to keep yourself busy while he's gone?"
Short answer: Try to keep my sanity. Maybe there's a military wife out there who gets bored when her husband leaves, but I have yet to meet her. For the rest of us, those with and without children, we find ourselves having to be two people. That keeps us plenty busy. We do get lonely, but we don't get bored.
"What are you going to do to keep yourself busy while he's gone?"
I have a full time job, plus I keep checking CNN and FOX News for updates, read the milblogs, check my Google news alerts, check in with my online support groups, stand in line every day at the Post Office with packages and letters, and help support other parents with this web site. Oh, and find other parents who are just as worried about their kids as I am, and work with them to support our deployed troops. In the past three years, with the help of other milbloggers and some amazing folks all over the country, Connie Riecke and I have coordinated the mailing of 5 tons of school supplies to kids in Iraq, sent over 35,000 filled Christmas stockings plus several tons of holiday gifts and food to troops deployed over Christmas, and a number of other projects. Did I mention that we both work full time? We don't have a problem staying busy. Trust me on that.
"How much longer does he have until he can get out?"
This one is annoying to many of us whether our husbands are deployed or not. Many of our husbands aren't counting down the days until they "can" get out. Many of them keep signing back up again and again because (gasp!) they love what they do.
"How much longer does he have until he can get out?"
The Marine Corps is not an institution that my son was trying to escape from. In fact, he extended his enlistment so that he would not have to return early from his third deployment.
"This deployment shouldn't be so bad, now that you're used to it."
Sure, we do learn coping skills. And we figure out ways to make life go smoother while the guys are gone. But it never gets easy and the bullets and bombs don't skip over our guys just because they've been there before. The worry never goes away.
"This deployment shouldn't be so bad, now that you're used to it."
Just how do you get used to sending your son off to war? Again, it's not like summer camp. There are bombs, bullets, and some very bad people who are bent on killing. My son, and others like him, are the barrier that keeps them from coming here and trying to kill us. It's not exactly conducive to easy sleeping. We learn coping skills. We never get used to it.
"My husband had to go to Europe for business once for three weeks. I totally know what you're going through."
This one is similar to number two. Do not equate your husband's three week trip to London/Omaha/Tokyo/etc. with a one-year deployment to a war zone. Aside from the obvious trip length difference, nobody shot at your husband or tried to blow him up with an I.E.D., your husband could call home pretty much any time he wanted to, he flew comfortably on a commercial plane, slept between crisp white sheets and ate well, paying for everything with an expense account. There is no comparison. We do not feel bonded to you in the slightest because of this comment and, if anything, we probably resent you a bit for comparing a combat deployment to a business trip.
"My son/daughter left for college last week. I totally know what you're going through."
If you want to walk away with your ego intact, do not say this to a parent whose child has just deployed. Your child isn't checking for IEDs while driving to parties off campus. There are no snipers taking aim from the 4th floor of the admin building. He gets to come home for weekends and holidays. He has a dorm room instead of a poncho liner and fighting hole. He can call out for pizza. He can sleep in or skip a class. He has choices. Do not make this comparison. Ever.
"Don't you miss him?"
Like number one, this one gets a big "duh" from me. Of course we miss our husbands. If we didn't, we'd get divorced.
"Don't you miss him?"
Echoing Rebekah's "duh". We live for 2 minute phone calls and brief e-mails that read, "Hey mom, I'm alive." We sleep with our cell phones in hand. My students knew that if my son called during class that they were on break until he was done talking, whether it was 2 minutes or 20.
"Where is that?"
I don't expect non-military folks to be able to find Anbar Province on a map, but they should know by now that it's in Iraq. Likewise, know that Kabul and Kandahar are in Afghanistan. Know that Muqtada al Sadr is the insurgent leader of the Mahdi Army in Iraq and that Sadr City is his home area. Know that Iran is a major threat to our country and that it is located between Afghanistan and Iraq. Our country has been at war in Afghanistan for six and a half years and at war in Iraq for four years. These basic facts are not secrets, they're on the news every night and in the papers every day - and on maps everywhere. You've had time to learn it. Do your part by at least knowing what is going on
"Where is that?"
If you don't know by know, you seriously need a cluebat upside your head. And I'll volunteer to swing it.

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March 12, 2007



We are just Marines and that Is what we do

Lt. Col. David W. Szelowski USMCR (ret.) wrote this piece about differences between Marines and other troops.

I wonder how many times during Operation Iraqi Freedom that the phrase "Damned Marines" was uttered? Even in the best of times, Army and Air Force officers have been heard muttering some epithet about Marines, invoking either heaven or hell. Interestingly enough, we Marines find it all rather reassuring and, at times, amusing.

Most of the time, Marines do not go out of our way to be obnoxious; we are just doing what Marines have done for over 200 years. A good example is the fact that Marines always raise the American flag over mountains or cities they have conquered. From Mt. Suribachi to the City of Hue, to Kuwait City to Baghdad, U.S. Marines have raised the Stars and Stripes -- in the latter examples, much to the chagrin of higher headquarters. You don't get these kinds of problems with the army.

So what is it about the U.S. Marines that they stick U.S. flags on everything and do more with less, a less that is either old or an army hand-me-down? We call it Esprit de Corps, but it goes deeper than that. We learn and maintain myths of the past, which also means living up to those historical examples. Marine Corps boot camp is the longest of the services; it is where we mold young men and women into the mythical image called a Marine. You can be in the Army, you can join the Air Force, but you become a Marine. All of the other uniformed services have songs; the U.S. Marines have a hymn. The basic pattern of Marine Corps uniforms comes from the late nineteenth century; our emblem, the "Eagle, Globe and Anchor" has remained largely unchanged since 1868. The buttons on our dress blues, whites and greens date back to the founding of our Corps. The Marine Corps is the only service that requires its officers to carry a sword, whose pattern dates back to 1805.

I think that the path of being a Marine was established long ago. On the 10th of November 1775, the Marine Corps was first established...in a tavern. To this day, no matter where in the world, Marines celebrate the founding of our beloved Corps, much to the confusion of the other services.

A few years ago, a congresswoman from Colorado felt that the Marine Corps was radical and extreme. She contended that the Marine Corps was not politically correct, nor did we seem to be part of the Department of Defense's transition to a "kinder and gentler" military. She was correct, and the Marine Corps took it as a compliment.

But the proof is in the doing, and during Iraqi Freedom the Marines demonstrated what Marines could do. I watched with some amusement as a reporter asked a young lance corporal about being in Iraq and under rifle fire. "Love it, sir!" was his response. The reporter was taken aback and asked, "No, really." The Marine then tried to explain that this is what he was trained to do, he looked forward to doing it and was now happy to be doing it. No doubt in boot camp he was told that he was "a minister of death praying for war." Contrast that with the poor U.S. Army Apache pilots who said that if they had to take life, they would do so reluctantly. You are either a warrior or you are not.

Marines are mission oriented. Live or die, the most important thing to a Marine is accomplishing the mission. Whether taking the bridge, river or town, accomplishing the mission is the Holy Grail of being a Marine. How the mission is accomplished is not so important, as it is expected of all Marines to accomplish the mission with the tools available. This is probably why we heard that Marines in one engagement were fighting with knives and bayonets. This was hardly high tech, but it was effective. These Marines now have bragging rights, for they have proven that they talk-the-talk and walk-the-walk. I doubt there is a single Marine who is not envious.

Marines are practical, as well. I enjoyed hearing two reporters interviewing each other, one embedded with the army, the other with the Marines. The reporter with the army noted that the sandstorm had blown down many of the soldiers' cots. The other reporter countered that the Marines did not have this problem because they slept on the ground. The Marine learns to live with what he can carry on his back. He expects to be moved around on the battlefield via his two black Cadillacs (boots). If he is lucky and gets a ride on an amtrack, so much the better -- but it is not expected! . At the end of a mission, the priority for cleaning is weapon, then equipment, and finally, body. When the other services talk about "quality of life," they are referring to housing, clubs and food. Marines are talking about better weapons, equipment and training, winning the battle and coming home alive is considered "quality of life."

All of this translates into combat power. In comparison to the U.S. Army's 3 rd Infantry Division, the Marines of I Marine Expeditionary Force were lightly equipped. Yet, they battled through the heart of Iraq, fought to the center of Baghdad and then moved off to Tikrit, taking that city as well. The press was so enamored with the Marines that in the final days of the war they even credited the Marines with deeds actually accomplished by the army. Little wonder we heard "Damned Marines!" so often.

So we need to give the Marines some slack when they do something politically incorrect, such as raising the flag or appearing insensitive when killing the enemy. In the field, they look sloppy compared to the army, but are aggressive in the attack and generally unhappy in the defense. Marines take pride in their work, even if that work is war. We are just Marines and that is what we do.

I remember a survey a few years ago about the attractiveness of men enlisted in different branches of our armed forces. Marines won, hands down, in a "who would you most like to date" scenario. And, after much time spent in recruiters offices and on military bases, I have to say that I've never seen a Marine who wasn't good looking. Maybe it's the haircut, perhaps the uniform. More likely, it's the pride in bearing that gives each and every Devil Dog, whether enlisted or officer, that undefinable extra that makes people (especially female people) take a second look. And, the civilian men they are with, utter, "Damned Marines!"

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