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May 16, 2006


The Real Deal

I've watched the NBC show, Deal or No Deal, a few times under protest - game shows based solely on greed aren't my idea of a good time. Last night, I made an exception as a Marine wife from Camp Lejeune was surprised with a video visit from her deployed husband. Sgt. Sara Wood, AFP reporter, filed this report:

The wife of a Marine from Camp Lejeune, N.C., got more than she bargained for as a contestant on NBC's game show "Deal or No Deal" last night.

Renee Stokes, whose husband, Marine Staff Sgt. Justin Stokes, is currently deployed to Iraq, was the second contestant of the night on the high-pressure show that allows people to try for cash prizes up to $1,000,000 in a game of odds and chance.

Stokes was joined on stage by her best friend, her mother-in-law, and a family friend. The show allows contestants to bring family members and friends on stage to offer advice at crucial decision-making points.

Stokes and the other three women were wearing "America Supports You" lapel pins. America Supports You is the Defense Department's program to recognize citizen support for military men and women and to communicate that support to members of the armed forces at home and abroad.

At the show's beginning, Stokes said she and her husband had just celebrated their one-year anniversary, but it was a lonely celebration because he was in Iraq. She said if she won the $1,000,000 prize, she would buy herself a motorcycle to match the one she and her husband bought right after they got married.

After Stokes had played the game for three rounds and had to make a decision of whether to make a "deal" and accept a cash amount instead of continuing with the game, she was given a huge surprise by host Howie Mandel.

"This is a tough decision, a big decision, and I know you brought supporters and family. I also know that your biggest supporter is not here," Mandel said. "This is a time you have to make a serious decision. You've got to get as much help as you can possibly get."

As Mandel finished saying this, Stokes' husband, Justin, appeared on a large video screen via satellite from Fallujah, Iraq. Justin's appearance was greeted by screaming and applause from Stokes, her family and friends, and the audience.

"I already won my million," Stokes said, referring to her chance to see Justin.

Justin was able to provide advice and encouragement to Stokes throughout the rest of the show, with the help of Marines from his unit who were assembled behind him.

At one point in the show, "Tonight" talk show host Jay Leno made an appearance, presenting a motorcycle of the exact model Stokes wanted. The show's "banker" was throwing the motorcycle into the deal to try to convince Stokes to abandon her pursuit of the big money. After consulting Justin, Stokes said no to the deal, but Leno didn't leave without thanking the troops for their service.

"I want to thank you for all your service," Leno said to Justin and the other Marines. "We really appreciate what you men and women are doing."

Justin's mother, Judy, who was on stage with Stokes, then tearfully addressed her son.

"Dad and I love you, and I have your Marine necklace on and your bracelet that you gave me," she said.

Justin's father was in the audience and was also emotional as he spoke to his son. "We love you. Be good and get home safe," he said.

In the end, Stokes won $28,000 on the show, which she said was still enough to buy her motorcycle.

I'm glad she won enough to buy her motorcycle. But, she should have made a deal when Jay Leno came out on stage - $99,000 and the Harley AstroGlide that she'd dreamed of. That's the problem of understanding probability and risk assessment - and why I don't watch the show. Unless there are Marine families in the background.


Posted by Deb at May 16, 2006 12:27 PM

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That made me cry. I'm not into this type of game show, but I would have watched if I knew that that woman and her family would get to see her husband. Our service people don't get enough thanks for what they do, and their families get even less. I appreciate the sacrifice they all made. I wish this woman took the deal, but I'm sure the contact with her husband meant a lot more than the money would have.

Posted by: Wormie at May 17, 2006 07:48 AM

Great story and I wish she'd have won teh big bucks!

Posted by: Yarbz at May 17, 2006 08:33 AM

I watched too, eargerly hoping for the big win for this Marine and his beautiful wife. But, as a Marine mom I also watched teary eyed as I witnessed and felt the love and fear shared with the parents of SSgt Justine Stokes. As I have known and lived their same fear, love and pride. "Stay safe" and "I love you" are sometimes the greatest words.

Posted by: Connie at May 17, 2006 10:02 AM

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