April 18, 2006
Fran O'Brien's last stand
For the past years, the fine folks at Fran O'Brien's Stadium Steakhouse located in the Capitol Hilton have been hosting Friday night steak dinners for wounded warriors from Walter Reed Hospital. These vets who are adjusting to life after war have significant physical difficulties. Wheelchairs. Prosthetic Limbs. And at Fran O'Brien's, they have a private room where they won't have to deal with stares and whispers. It's a gift to them - no bills are presented at the end of the meal.
From the Washington Post:
They come to the subterranean restaurant, at the corner of 16th and L streets NW in the basement of the Capital Hilton, in volunteer's vans and trucks. They're carefully wheeled down the stairs or slowly negotiate the steps on crutches. It has become a tradition so beloved among veterans that Garry Trudeau featured the dinners in his Doonesbury comic strip.
Jim Mayer, a veteran who works at the Department of Veterans Affairs and who helped start the steak dinner tradition, is concerned that the hotel wants to eliminate the spectacle of hundreds of severely disabled soldiers coming in and out of its building or that the restaurant's repeated requests for a new elevator or escalator to accommodate them was too much.
But Hilton spokeswoman Lisa Cole said the hotel's position on the lease has nothing to do with the dinners. She said its decision was based strictly on business considerations.
O'Brien's owners knew their lease was coming up. But after months of negotiations, the hotel chain told them this week that it would not be renewed. The lease expires May 1.
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The negotiations included repeated promises by the Hilton that there would be no problem with renewing the least. Now, just weeks before the expiration date, they've made a business decision. And the ones that will be most affected by this are the heroes who, one night a week, can enjoy a sense of normalcy that the best hospital in the world could not match.
Retired Army Staff Sgt. Michael Cain will never forget the porterhouse he had on his first night at O'Brien's, in 2003 after five months in the hospital. "It beat the hell out of hospital food," said Cain, who lost part of a leg in an explosion in Tikrit.
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Although the Hilton has (in response to a flood of e-mails and phone calls) offered to continue the Friday night dinners, they don't get it. It's not the food. It's not the location. It's a former Vietnam vet with a big heart who was determined to make a difference for these guys. And the way the Hilton made and communicated their business decision leaves a lot to be desired, from a number of perspectives - public relations, business, and humanitarian.
Andi from Andi's World has been
following the situation and will continue to update us. Do consider adding your voice to those who have an opinion on how the Hilton handled this situation. Be polite but be heard.
Dan Boyle(212) 838-1558
Brian Kellaher (202) 393-1000
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April 08, 2006
Emily Dieruf and her Corporal Nich - honoring his memory and sacrifice
On April 8, 2004, Emily Dieruf was told that her husband of three months, Corporal Nich Dieruf, had been killed while serving with 1st LAR near Husaybah, Iraq. Out of her grief was born a steely determination to continue the legacy of her husband's work in Iraq by supporting the families of troops here at home.
Marine wife and mother, Carrie Costantini, remarked in an e-mail last night;
"I'm sitting here tonight thinking about what tomorrow means.
Tomorrow means that it's the 2nd anniversary of Cpl. Nich Dieruf's death.
His wife is an inspiration to me ... she's founded the Cpl. Nich Dieruf Foundation. Cpl. Nich foundation supports military families in crisis with quality of life grants. That's right..grants..not loans. For reservist families, for abandoned spouses, for surrogate family members and many more, this foundation provides support. She is 24 years old and does so much for our military families. She is not old enough to rent a car yet she does all of these things for us."
Emily Dieruf recently visited Quantico to speak with military spouses at the Commander's Course Spouse's Workshop.
Here's a report from the workshop:
"People need not forget about our fallen soldiers, their sacrifices and the families who are affected," Dieruf said. "When Nich was killed, I vowed that I would not let him become a mere number or statistic. I live everyday honoring his memory and sacrifice, just like all of those others who fell before and after him."
Staying true to her word, Dieruf, along with USA Cares, has helped more than 2,000 families by providing or locating over $1 million in financial support. Dieruf's speaking engagements help military wives by making a sensitive topic more real for them. Many do not like to speak about war and death, but Dieruf sets the stage for honest discussion among the women of her audiences.
"Other military wives react with great sympathy and horror. I represent a harsh reality for them," she said. "But, overall, everyone has been extremely supportive and understanding."
Although Dieruf was only able to enjoy her marriage with Nich for a brief moment, she will continue to honor her husband and his legacy.
"My husband whole heartedly believed in what the United States is accomplishing in Iraq and Afghanistan and so do I," she said. "He would write me letters about how the women and children of Iraq would thank the troops for coming to liberate their desperate country."
That is what keeps Dieruf going, and she lacks no motivation.
"Every day that I get to tell another audience about my personal hero, Nich," she said, "I am rejuvenated for the following days to come."
During Corporal Dieruf's funeral, church rector Paul Prabell eulogized;
"We can be sure that Nicholas has fought the good fight as a faithful Marine. We can be sure that this former cross country runner has run the race to the finish, that this young man of faith and dreams and spirituality has kept the faith."
Emily is continuing his race with the same faith and dreams that Nich brought to his fight. Consider donating to the
Corporal Nich fund in his memory today.
Cassandra at Villainous Company also has a tribute up today -
do stop by and read it.
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April 03, 2006
Run for the Warriors
Carrie Costantini sent this along, thinking that it would be of interest to those who read this site.
The "USO Run For The Warriors" is dedicated to the men and women wounded in Afghanistan and Iraq and their families. It is intended as a celebration of their strength and resolve and a promise that their sacrifices will not be forgotten, nor their needs unmet. By uniting the entire community, military and civilian alike, this unique event will embrace Wounded Warriors and their families in the shared belief that there is hope beyond recovery.
All proceeds from the race will benefit Wounded Warriors and their families through the organizations listed below. We intend to address both immediate needs as well as future needs. The monies raised will be earmarked specifically for "Wounded Warrior needs" to assist with funding transportation for wounded service members unable to drive, to establish scholarships for spouses who may need to take an active role in the financial support of their family, to provide assistance with specially adapted housing, and to provide respite to families as they care for their wounded loved one, in the form of restaurant cards, gas cards, and child care certificates, to name a few.
The USO of NC
The mission of the USO of North Carolina is to enhance the quality of life of U.S. Armed Forces personnel and their families within our geographic boundaries, and to create a cooperative relationship between U.S. military communities and the supporting civilian communities. The USO is actively involved in the support of Wounded Warriors and their families, providing care and assistance to the Wounded Warrior Barracks, the Wounded Warrior Spouses' Support Group, newly arrived patients at Naval Hospital Camp Lejeune and families both near and far coming to the aid of their loved one.
WOUNDED WARRIOR BARRACKS
Supported by II MEF this centralized billeting allows single wounded Marines to come together as a team to recover and transition to the next phase of their lives, whether it be back to duty or to civilian life. The camaraderie and indomitable spirit found within its walls is truly amazing.
WOUNDED WARRIOR SPOUSES' SUPPORT GROUP
Meeting the third Wednesday of each month, the Wounded Warrior Spouses' Support Group offers an open forum where spouses, significant others, and friends affected by a wounded Marine can find knowledge and strength in shared experiences with those who have walked a mile in their shoes.
Project CARE
Administered by the Jacksonville/Onslow Chamber of Commerce, Project CARE's Mission is to provide benefits for spouses of those who are currently deployed. By rallying its members, Project CARE matches community services to needs of the families left behind
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T-SHIRT DESIGN
Run for the Warriors' pre-race kick off will be a t-shirt contest, with the winning entry being selected as the official race shirt. As Wounded Warriors reintegrate back into the community we find their courage and tenacity invigorating. The theme therefore is a tribute to their strength and our commitment to stand behind them in the belief that there is "Hope Beyond Recovery". Children fourth grade through high school are invited to capture this essence and in doing so we hope that they will gain an understanding that disabilities and challenges are not roadblocks to life.
RACE DAY
We invite young and old, military and civilian, runners and walkers to help welcome home and embrace our Wounded Warriors. Three race venues are provided: a 10K run/walk, 5K run/walk and a 1 mile fun run. During the opening ceremony, Wounded Warriors will be welcomed home followed by a pre-race warm-up to kick off the Wounded Warrior Dash where they will be invited to crutch, wheel and otherwise ambulate to the victory line. The 10K, 5K and 1 mile fun run will commence shortly thereafter. A service expo at the race site will provide access to those agencies that offer support to the Wounded Warriors and their families and will raise awareness in how the community can become involved. Immediately following all races there will be an awards/closing ceremony. We will introduce and award the winner of the t-shirt contest as well as the top male and female overall and each male and female age category in the 10K and 5K races. Finally, a special tribute will be made to all wounded participants.
Download more information here.
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March 21, 2006
What NOT to send to your Marine
LtCol Dave Furness sent this cautionary note to friends and family of his 1/1 Marines:
I wanted to take the time today to sit down and ask for your assistance on an issue that I am very concerned about, alcohol and other off limits items being sent in the mail to your Marines and sailors. Today I had the unpleasant duty to forward a member of 1/1 to a General Officers level Non-Judicial Punishment. I took no joy in doing this, but the man was found with alcohol, alcohol that he had received from a family member. I am sure the family member believed they were doing him a favor. To reiterate, it is illegal for any Marine/Sailor/Civilian serving in Iraq to have alcohol. This one incident may very well have ruined his career.
I once again ask you to please not mail any items which, in the possession of your loved one in Iraq, are considered illegal and could get them into serious trouble. Specifically, do not mail alcohol, pornography, firearms, or ammunition.
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March 20, 2006
Have you been Sempertoon'ed?
That's a question that GySgt Wolf, Art Director of the Marine Corps Recruiting command, wants us to have fun with. He noted in a recent email, "Humor is the best medicine and Sempertoons is the Military CURE!!!" I agree - judicious use of humor in highly stressful situations is a terrific anxiety reducer and Sempertoons is a wonderful way to smile at the idiosyncrasies of the Corps. He's just started a 4-part series, leading up to Easter, and here's the first one:
A few years ago, Gunny Wolf was profiled in a
Defend America News article:
The United States Marine Corps thrives on the ethos of honor, courage and commitment, and Staff Sgt. Charles F. Wolf epitomizes that ethos through art.
He's a stocky 5 feet, 5 inches tall, 160 pounds-from weight he gained during his years of bodybuilding. His face, chiseled like stone, doesn't look mean.
Wolf, a graphics instructor at the Defense Information School here, is a very easy-going person who believes in thinking outside the box to which most people limit themselves. Through his perseverance he has managed to apply his artistic creativity to other aspects of his life.
Growing up, he never believed his interest in art would develop the following it has, he said. Like most kids, he enjoyed doodling on scratch sheets of paper as something to pass the time. His first formal graphic design education was at a vocational school the year before he graduated high school.
"I just believe that everyone doodles or draws in their free time," said Wolf. "Some of us try, and then there are people who have a natural talent for it and excel from an early age."
He joined the Marine Corps in 1987 and started his career as an anti-tank assault man, or dragon gunner. For nine years his artistic creativity remained dormant, except for small requests to draw things like range flags, random sketches, or cartoons during his off-duty time.
"Initially I saw it as an opportunity to boost morale," said the Ashtabula, Ohio, native. "And I never lost that fire for seeing something come to life in front of me-that's the essence of art."
While stationed aboard the USS Blue Ridge in Yokosuka, Japan, he began drawing cartoons, which would soon be referred to as Sempertoons. This assignment fueled Wolf with a plethora of ideas for cartoons. "It was endless, and I saw how my cartoons made people laugh," he said.
Wolf's love for art began to equate to his love for the Corps, but he thought he had to keep the two worlds separate.
"I knew that art was going to take me somewhere, I just had to figure out how to connect the two worlds," he said. "It all came together in one moment, and it was like a big tidal wave hitting me."
As an enlisted instructor at Marine Corps Base Quantico, Va., the instructor group tasked him with drawing a sketch of the range. His sketch was sent to the graphics department to be drawn on a larger scale, and subsequently, he was sent to graphics to ensure they were duplicating his work correctly.
"I didn't even know that graphics existed," he said. "I walked through that building completely astounded, and that's where the desire to change my (military occupational specialty) evolved."
After the seed was planted, he was sent to his new duty station in Camp Pendleton, Calif., assigned to 2nd Battalion, 1st Marines, which deployed with the 4th Marine Expeditionary Brigade. This provided another opportunity for him to gather material for his cartoons.
Even though Wolf had done several drawings during his Marine Corps career, he still did not realize the full capability of his talent.
"To be honest, the full impact of art did not hit me until I started doing Sempertoons," said Wolf. "In fact, the first few drawings weren't even that great."
When he returned from deployment, he met with MOS monitors and requested a lateral move to the 4611 MOS, or graphic illustrator.
His request was eventually approved and he reported for duty at the Quantico graphics center for three years, to include six months of on-the-job-training. He then served as the chief of graphics on Marine Corps Base Kaneohe Bay, Hawaii, and two-and-a-half years later he was selected to be an instructor at DINFOS.
He now has the opportunity to pass on to younger Marines his talent and knowledge as a graphics illustrator.
He's been promoted since then, and in a recent e-mail, Gunny Wolf commented on the motivation behind his work:
"I live in Virginia with my lovely wife Amelia (My 1st Sergeant) and we are expecting our first child in July. ( I refuse to name the Baby "Sempertoon"...hahha.
Sempertoons is a family friendly way to relax and laugh at situations that sometimes leave everyone in the dark when it come to the Marines. I am most proud that Sempertoons is a window, vehicle and place for all of us to laugh together. Laughing is the universal language that keeps us bonded during tough and hard times. I can promise to everyone reading this that, Sempertoons will always be there for them when they need it.
My vision is to let everyone know this and let them find their own way through the humor. Regardless of the path, when you look around you are still bonded to your fellow brothers and sisters. "Now That's Semper Fi"
I would ask everyone to have fun with the following statement.... "Have you been Sempertoon'ed?"
And, here's an earlier one that you'll enjoy too:

There's more at his
Sempertoons website. And his books and new challenge coin would make a marvelous gift for Marines or their parents. With Mother's Day and Father's Day coming up, it's well worth a visit.
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March 07, 2006
Supporting our Injured Troops
USMC Major Steve Danyluk spent a few months in Iraq back in 2004, working to make Iraq a better place for the people who live there. During his stay, he took some wonderful photographs that were debuted at an
exhibition hosted by The Wounded Bookshop last June.
Now, he's put his photographs on a website and is offering them for sale with all proceeds generated to the
Semper Fi Fund, a 501c3 that benefits wounded Marines and their families. If you're looking for a special gift for a special someone, consider purchasing one of his photographs. It will be unique and you'll know that your purchase will be helping a Marine who has put his or her life on the line for your freedom.
Here's the link:
Steve Danyluk's Photos
More pictures can be found
here.
These would make lovely gifts for parents of Marines . . . and Mother's Day and Father's Day are coming up. Hint.
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January 30, 2006
Worthy efforts
Connie Riecke is working hard on the next MCFF project - sending Girl Scout Cookies to our deployed Marines. Here's Connie's message to those of you who are interested in supporting our troops in this tangible (and delicious!) way:
Support your local Girl Scout Troop by purchasing boxes of those yummy cookies.
Then donate them to send to our Marines deployed.
I know from experience that it’s hard to turn down those yummy cookies and the cute smiling faces of Girls Scouts when they knock on your door or meet you at your local supermarket. Every Girl Scout tries to meet a goal to sell enough to earn a merit badge. This fundraiser is enormous to the success of the Girl Scout program, and very much like the Boy Scout program that many of our US Marines completed. In fact many of our Marines have earned the highest rank of the Boy Scout program, they are Eagle Scouts.
But, better yet, last year the Marine Corps Family Foundation was contacted by a local Girl Scout troop who had several cases of cookies purchased and donated to send to our troops. The foundation was able to label the boxes and put them in the mail to our Marines in Iraq.
You can do the same. Just go to www.marinecorpsfamilyfoundation.org and make a donation via paypal and designate to “cookies.” We will purchase the cookies and put them in the mail. You can even email us if you have someone special to send the cookies to, just provide a name and address and we will make sure they get there. Or you can send a check to the Marine Corps Family Foundation, 4000 Lancaster Drive NE, Suite 57, Salem, OR 97309 and we will purchase and send the cookies.
Another wonderful outreach is Operation Warmer, coordinated by Marine parents Sharron and Ralph Cook
This is Sharron L. Cook and my husband is Ralph E. Cook. As some of you may know by now, we have a son in the 1st LAR, Weapons CO. On the 7th of January 06, we got a phone call from him saying that where they are located, they have a lot of frost on their sleeping bags. And to keep the hand, body and foot warmers coming. That they really DO HELP. That Sunday we got an e-mail form a dad who has a son with 1st LAR, Delta Co. He asked his dad to get in touch with us to find out where we got the warmers at and he would like more because his hands get so cold when riding on his LAV. I had sent some hand, body and foot warmers to his son. I contacted the company by e-mail and asked them if they could help and told of what these two Marines said. AND THEY DID! By the end of the week, I had five (5) cases sitting outside of my gate. I thought I had a lot here. They sent 1,200 hand warmers and that may sound like a lot. But with the request that I have received so far THEY DIDN’T LAST VERY LONG. And it sounds like ALMOST ALL of our Marines need them VERY BAD.
So we have another Project to work on and we need to get this done as fast as we can. It is called “Project Warmer”. If we can come up with the money to buy the cases and the postage for the Flat Rate Boxes (FRB), I can get these warmers at $ .40 each pair. There is 240 pair in a case that equals to $96.00 a case, (NO MATTER HOW MANY CASES) each case lasting about 2 to 3 nights per Company and these warmers will last about 10 hr. a pair. I have been able to get almost half of a case in one FRB, just can’t seem to get the last 6 pairs in the box yet. This company said that they will pay for the shipping to my house so we can repack the warmers and send over in the FRB’s at $8.10 a box now. (Have to say here that there is a lot of cardboard in each case and a case weight is 29 lb.) I have been able to get around 12 lb. in a FRB. I will mail the boxes only to 1st LAR’s Sgt. Maj. Ward and Weapons Company’s Gy Sgt. Leikwold and they will pass them out. Any money left over will be sent to the 1st LAR homecoming funds at Camp Pendleton in CA for our Marines.
So please, we can get our Marine warmer by giving them the Hand Warmers to keep warmer and not be "so COLD" any more. I know it is on short notice, but I have done every thing that I can to help those out that I can. I just can’t afford to send to the whole 1st LAR by myself.
E-mail: sharronlcook@earthlink.net
Her deadline is tomorrow - let's get those handwarmers in the mail. Thanks for supporting our troops.
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January 15, 2006
The Scent of Home
Photo by LCpl Peter R. Miller
LCpl Ryan S. Donovan, deployed with 1/2 Marines, reads a letter from his wife earlier this month.
Mail from home is a major motivator for depoyed Marines.
Motomail is efficient, messages are delivered the next day, but there is something special about being handed a sealed envelope. My son mentioned one time that each time mail was passed out, he was up on his tippytoes until he heard his name. Letters are read and reread, pictures are tucked inside a helmet and worn out on patrol as a reminder of loved ones safe at home. And when the envelope is ripped open, sometimes there is an intangible, yet very real, reminder of home.
Captain B wrote this last week. Read it, then write a letter to someone you love who is far from home.
But what I will tell you about is the smell inside an envelope from home. Where you can actually smell some of the things that where there when the letter was written. You can close your eyes and recognize the smell of the familiar little one who wrote you the letter. You can pick up on familiar surroundings like the pledge cleaner that was used on the table where the letter was written on or remember where the flowers are in your home that are neatly placed and accompany your letter. The smell of the room where the letter was written in cuts through the familiar burning tire trash smell you're currently surrounded in. It's a nice treat to get mail regardless who it is from. You get the letter here in a country that doesn't even have a mail system. It might have been a week old which is better than past wars where it could have been months before you received a piece of mail, it's a special piece of home.
I can tell you about the sacrifices your service members have made in this war alike the ones in the past. The birthdays you miss, the graduations that are complete minus dad, the dad that has to be both a mom and dad. The feeling a young Marine father has who stands guard on a post during a national holiday while his kids open presents back home. Having to deal with monsters in closets and taking off training wheels at home while their warrior is away helping a country take their training wheels off as well. The simple words from a youngster saying "I just want my daddy home" can carry a ton of weight just as much as a warrior says, we will prevail and we are here to help. Both know the meaning of sacrifice, both smell the envelopes from their loved ones.
Your service members and families know sacrifice because they not only feel it, they live it. Not just from Iraq, Afghanistan, Korea, Vietnam, Beirut, but as long as this country has had to make war, we have made sacrifice. Sacrifice as a country at home and a far. Its not easy, its not always fun but when we make a sacrifice it is for the good and a good cause. We help others who have no hope, we dedicate our loved ones to complete the mission. We don't take it lightly and we play to win. We know the sacrifice and we are proud of what we do. The next time you write your service member a letter, know what is going into it and what they will get out of it. While in the country of America, I have seen a lot of great things transpire, people stand up and a country become proud and strong.
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Marine Corps Moms are getting Valentine's Day packages of candy, cookies, and cards ready to send. If you'd like to be part of this effort, let us know.
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December 31, 2005
"Operation Santa" Christmas at Korean Village
Here's another report about Christmas for 1st LAR, passed along by Col. John Folsom with the
Wounded Warrior Project:
Christmas Day passed uneventfully for most of us at Forward Operating Base Camp Korean Village. It was a day like most days; had it not been for the Santa hats and everyone greeting each other with "Merry Christmas!" it would have been like any other day here.
Operation "Santa's Helper" was a great success with hundreds of you sending thousands of Christmas presents to us. Of course, Chief David Peterson was the "go to" guy as he sorted through the packages, clipped addresses, entered the addresses into a spreadsheet and organized the distribution of all the presents to the several units that call Korean Village home.
No "White Christmas," but a brown one as another dust storm came through with a cold front to drop visibility to a half mile before the front passed. As the afternoon sun set, the winds subsided and the skies cleared to reveal a a dark canopy of stars and planets.
Camp Korean Village sits next to the major highway from Jordan and is heavily traveled with trucks, busses and autos. The highway is, no doubt, an ancient trade route that has existed since, well, pre- history. So, as I sat one evening watching the traffic, I wondered if the Magi passed this way on their journey from Persia to Bethlehem bearing their gifts. Perhaps so, but no one can know. But, as I watched Venus over the western horizon, I imagined that the Magi passed Ar Rutbah as they followed the star that led them to the manger and the baby Jesus so many years ago.
From all of us here at Camp Korean Village, thank you for making our Christmas one to remember.
You've seen
this snow globe before - Carrie Costantini sent along pictures earlier. However, there's another story worth sharing.
Col. Folsom shared this anecdote involving KV chaplain, Lieutenant Wayne Tomasek, USN:
As I reported, the Chaplain was having difficulty in getting the fan motor to work. He could be seen tinkering with the motor to no avail. Despite his best efforts, he could not get it to work, and an electrician was called in to fix the problem.
It wasn't easy to fix. The fan motor was finally turned into the battalion's maintenance shop for repair.
The problem? It was reported to me that the Chaplain was seen writing in his notebook while muttering, "Note to self: do not plug 110 volt appliances into 220 volt outlets".
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December 28, 2005
The Liberty Limited
Jarhead Dad passed along this wonderful story from the
Philadelphia Daily News by Ronnie Polaneczky about a very special tribute to our wounded troops.
It started last Christmas, when Bennett and Vivian Levin were overwhelmed by sadness while listening to radio reports of injured American troops.
"We have to let them know we care," Vivian told Bennett.
So they organized a trip to bring soldiers from Walter Reed Army Medical Center and Bethesda Naval Hospital to the annual Army-Navy football game in Philly, on Dec. 3.
The cool part is, they created their own train line to do it.
Mr. Levin owns his own rail car, so that was a start . . . and he convinced 15 other rail car owners into lending their cars for the day. Amtrak donated transport of the cars to D.C. where the wounded troops were taken in grand style to the game, then returned them to their owners. Someone else donated seats on the 50-yard line - 100 of them - plus lunch.
Each of the troops were allowed to bring a guest. However, Polaneczky noted:
The Marines, though, declined the offer. "They voted not to take guests with them, so they could take more Marines," says Levin, choking up at the memory.
No media. No publicity. Just a wonderful outpouring of support in a tangible way.
The most poignant moment for the Levins was when 11 Marines hugged them goodbye, then sang them the Marine Hymn on the platform at Union Station.
"One of the guys was blind, but he said, 'I can't see you, but man, you must be f---ing beautiful!' " says Bennett. "I got a lump so big in my throat, I couldn't even answer him."
It's been three weeks, but the Levins and their guests are still feeling the day's love.
"My Christmas came early," says Levin, who is Jewish and who loves the Christmas season. "I can't describe the feeling in the air."
Thank God for people like the Levins who make things happen. The 88 troops who made this trip will have a wonderful memory to hold on to when life gets hard. And a killer story to tell their grandchildren.
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December 25, 2005
1107th AVCRAD Update
For those of you who met a
last minute request to send packages to a group of deployed Soldiers in Iraq and Afghanistan, you made a difference. Emails started coming in this morning.
Here's one:
I wanted to thank you from the heart. I'm now in Iraq and received one of the packages you put together. I am now in Iraq. Knowing that people like you care and support us here is a great comfort. I Pray you and your family have a Merry Christmas and a safe new year. Again thank you.
And another:
I am a national guardsman from Missouri. I am currently deployed in Kuwait. This is my first deployment in twenty-six years of National Guard Service. This is also the first time I have been away from home for more than three weeks since my children were born. While I thank you very much for your gift, because it did make the day that much better. I salute you maam. You and people like you are the ones who make it worth the sacrifice of being away from home and doing what we do. I also salute your son. Because of young soldiers like him, like I said, this is my first deployment. They are the true hero's It gave me great pride to receive your gift, and I thank you very much. Happy Holidays to you and your family
And, here are two of the guys that made it happen. Eric Whitesell is one of my students who assured me that the packages, priority mailed in late December, would get to the soldiers in time.
Eric said:
It's a picture of me (the delivery boy) and my cousin (Naval Intelligence) on the cargo ramp at Baghdad International airport. We brought in care packages (and anything else our boys and girls asked for) the U.S. military. Since Deborah's son is a United States Marine, I thought she might be interested in the picture. (By the way, the guy with the M-16 is a Marine and the airplane was what I flew). . . My friends are working the priority mail into Iraq. It'll get there by X-Mas.
Thanks, Eric, and thanks to everyone else who helped with this effort.
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December 24, 2005
Operation Santa boosts holiday cheer in Iraq
From the 1st LAR, here are pictures of the inflatable snowglobe sent by the KVNs, wives, and other troop supporters.
The snow globe and other holiday decor was shipped via Operation Santa elves at Camp Pendleton to Iraq, where it was set up in the chow hall.
GySgt Todd Byrd, Delta Co., 1st LAR with the snow globe.
Pictures of spouses enjoying the Christmas party back home.
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December 22, 2005
Operation Santa Highlights from 1st LAR Elves
Carrie Costantini, Operation Santa coordinator for 1st LAR sent in this report of how her part of this effort went together - sounds like a wonderful success!!
Dear supporter of Operation Santa/1st LAR,
With the stockings stuffed, the boxes packed and shipped, it is time to thank you for making Christmas a reality for the Marines of 1st Light Armored Reconnaissance Battalion.
First, let me tell you about my week in California. On Monday, Nov. 14th, Pat Malloy, Louise Nohl, Tina Byrd, Meagan Bergeron, Norma Bango, the famous Sophia Bango, and I met at Costco in Dana Point, California. We had a mission: to purchase items that would go into the Marines' stockings.
We bought the following:
600+ Apple cider packets
600+ Trail mix packets
2400 AA batteries
600+ White tube socks
1200 packs of Gum
600+ Chocolate chip cookies
600+ Crackers in packets
20 Large boxes of Ritz crackers (to put in the Christmas party boxes for platoons)
600+ candy bars
Believe it or not, it only took us an hour to purchase all of the items. We even had money left over on the gift cards and Costco graciously cashed them out for us. We still had big concerns about the cost of postage.
We convoyed back to the battalion area and unloaded the goodies with the kind help of Gunny Sgt. Hooker. We opened the boxes that had been sent to Louise for Operation Santa and were so amazed at the beautiful stockings, the great DVDs, CDs and books, the candies and candy canes, the hot chocolate packets, the tabletop trees, tree skirts, and decorations. It was really humbling for all of us to see just how much the 1st LAR Marines are loved.
After all of that excitement, we sent Pat Malloy (don't tell his wife but he really is very handy) off to Walmart to purchase extra dartboards and Christmas DVD's while Meagan and Tina went to get the Christmas CDs that Meagan had put together for the Marines' Christmas parties. Louise and I stayed behind at the battalion area to get the breakdown of Marines per platoon, etc.
We rendezvoused at Baja Fresh for chow (hey...this shopping thing is hard work!!). After a great lunch with lots of laughing and sharing of stories (believe it or not, Pat held his own against 4 very chatty Marine wives), we said bye to Pat until the next day and marched to Walmart to purchase summer sausages and extra Christmas trees, lights, skirts and decorations. 40 beef sticks later, we were on our way to find boxes. The Shipping Outlet in San Clemente helped us out with that and with one last trip through the 99 cent store, where we purchased 20 vehicle flags that said "Official vehicle of Santa's helpers" for LAVs, we were done for the day.
The next morning was packing day. We had a great turnout for that with Marie and Pat Malloy, Greg and Maryellen Dament, Michelle Kosid, Tina Byrd, Meredith Peterson, Laura Leikwold, Connie Phillips, Meagan Bergeron, Norma Bango, Tim Riis and Karen Dolosa. We had stocking boxes and party boxes to pack.
Speaking of those party boxes, this is what we put in them:
Summer Sausages
Crackers
Dart boards
6 in 1 board games
Christmas CD
Tabletop tree with all the trimmings
DVDs
CDs
Disposable cameras so that we can see the Christmas fun
We packed the stockings with what we had purchased at Costco the day before and added the hot chocolate packets, candies, candy canes and one Christmas card from an adult and one from a child per stocking. Just reading the cards made us laugh and sometimes, it made our eyes tear up. It was all so wonderful. After each stocking had been assembled, we tucked it into a Ziploc bag so that nothing would spill out and then put it into a box.
It took until 4:00 pm on Tuesday to get it all packed up. We agreed that our shipping day would be Thursday and all went home to rest. Packing is harder than shopping but just as much fun when you’re doing it with the right people and for such a great cause.

Shipping day was equally busy and fun. With the help of Cpl McKnight, LCpl Mastry,
PFC Bennett and LCpl Washington from 1st LAR, CWO Jason Scroggs(the Family Readiness Officer), Michelle Kosid, Tina Byrd, Laura Leikwold and I managed to get 60 boxes into three cars and convoyed off to a post office in Oceanside. We invaded the post office and occupied it for an hour and a half. 60 customs forms later, the two post office employees were finally done and our packages were on their way to Iraq priority mail.
As of December 3rd, all of the boxes have arrived in Iraq. The 8 foot snowglobe lawn ornament (surprise!!) arrived a week or so later and sits in front of the chowhall at Korean Village.
I want to take this opportunity to thank you for supporting this project. Without your help, we could not have sent 1500 lbs. of Christmas cheer to the Marines of 1st LAR. Thanks to you, they will know that they are not forgotten and thanks to you, even though they won't be home for Christmas, they're going to get a little piece of home. Thank you for supporting the troops!!
Merry Christmas to all of you!!
Carrie Costantini
Carrie's husband commanded 1st LAR during their last deployment to Iraq and she continues to support them now. Thanks Carrie, you made a difference!
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December 14, 2005
Update on Operation Santa Last Minute Request
When I have more time, I'll do a complete update but you all made it happen!! In just one weekend, you donated enough to purchase, wrap, and send over 400 pounds of gifts and treats for the 1107th AVCRAD. I still don't know what that is, but I know the men assigned to it are giving up their holiday at home so that they can protect us . . . and that is enough. Thank you all so much. The need has been met and your generosity is appreciated.
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December 07, 2005
Marine Parents United Conference 2006
Save the last weekend in July!
I attended the 2004 and 2005 MPU conferences and highly recommend them to Marine parents. It's a wonderful place to give and receive support . . . and to know that the Marine Corps family is strong and solid.
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November 21, 2005
Operation Santa USMC 2005 update
One month into Operation Santa USMC 2005, things are looking good! We are working on the following battalions - if you'd like to help, let us know:
| Battalion | Coordinator | Status |
| 1st LAR | Carrie Costantini | Done! |
| 1/2 Marines | Connie Riecke & Katie Maio | Still working! |
| 2/2 Marines | Jayme Alexander | Done! |
| 2/7 Marines | Terri Dillon | Done! |
| 3/7 Marines | Connie Riecke | Done! |
| 2/6 Marines | Deb Conrad | Done! |
| 3/6 Marines | Jennifer Alford | Done! |
| 3/1 Marines | Mary Vetor | Still working! |
| 1st Recon Battalion | Connie Riecke | Still working! |
If you can help, e-mail us at operationsanta@marinecorpsmoms.com.
Tax deductible donations can be mailed to:
Marine Corps Family Foundation
4000 Lancaster Drive- Suite 57
Salem, OR 97309
If you'd rather send a donation via Paypal, send it to: donations@marinecorpsfamilyfoundation.org
Make sure you let us know if you want to earmark your contribution for a specific battalion. 100% of all donations will be used for Operation Santa USMC - nothing is withheld.
Deb Conrad - Operation Santa Coordinator - 541-974-6948 deb@marinecorpsmoms.com
Connie Riecke - Operation Santa Coordinator - 503-838-4111 riecke@marinecorpsmoms.com
Right now, we have 9 battalions with coordinators. If you'd like to help with one of these battalions, or would like to make sure another battalion is included, contact Deb or Connie and we'll put you in touch with the coordinator.
We've heard that some of the packages are already in Iraq and waiting to be distributed to our Marines. I will take another load of boxes to the post office on Monday - helped by LCpl Shane Conrad who was on the receiving end last year. Our sons are home for the holidays this year - but there are thousands of Marines who are deployed. Operation Santa will cover at least 10,000 of them.
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November 08, 2005
Send a birthday greeting to Landstuhl
Diana Hartman, Marine wife and new blogger (finally!), offers you an opportunity to help wounded Marines at Landstuhl celebrate on November 10, the 230th birthday of the Corps:
The 230th Marine Corps Birthday will be celebrated by Marines around the world including our wounded Marines at Landstuhl Regional Medical Center in Germany. Marines and spouses of Marine Forces Europe will be providing cake and ceremony for our wounded Marines before the end of this week. If you'd like to send birthday or general greetings, please feel free to leave your greeting in the comments section of this post. Your greeting will be printed out, copied, and presented to the wounded Marines.
The greetings will include a cover sheet with the Eagle, Globe & Anchor. Please do not include graphics in your message.
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Visit Diana's blog to leave your comment or send via e-mail at vladdi@pjsnet.de - the Marines at Landstuhl won't be able to celebrate this birthday with their unit. They need to know that they aren't forgotten.
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October 02, 2005
Operation Santa USMC 2005
In late summer 2005, thousands of United States Marines left for seven month deployments in Iraq and Afghanistan. For many of these Marines, this will be the first Thanksgiving and Christmas they will be away from home and family. For others, it will be the second or third in a row. And it is an unfortunate fact that some of these young men and women will not receive mail and packages from friends and family members. Although they have made a choice to serve their country, it's going to be a lonely holiday. And not just for the Marines but for family members back home as well.
With the help of amazing volunteers all over the country, for the second year the Marine Corps Moms hope to make a difference for our Marines.
Last year, we started out with an idea that we'd send Christmas stockings to the 42 Marines in my son's platoon. The project grew from there, and six exhausting weeks later, over 6,000 Christmas stockings had been mailed from individuals and groups all over the United States. Classrooms, businesses, scout troops, churches, and clubs adopted platoons or companies of deployed Marines. We sent stockings, they filled and mailed them. And it made a difference. The Marines in the picture above were deployed along the Syrian border. It was a dusty primitive place to spend seven months, but they did it for us. And troop supporters all over the country made Christmas merrier for them . . . and 5,800 other Marines. You can help us make that same difference this year.
Here's our plan:
Operation Santa USMC 2005 will provide as many battalions as possible with Christmas-in-a-Box. Each platoon in the battalions will receive a box containing the following:
- A filled Christmas stocking for each Marine in the platoon.
- A small fold-up Christmas tree with decorations.
- A Christmas CD
- Christmas Cards for each Marine
- Treats (cookies, candy, snacks)
- Gifts that the platoon can share (board games, decks of cards, DVDs)
Battalions are made up of 4 or more companies, and each company has a number of platoons. Each platoon has 30 or more Marines. We need church groups, organizations, clubs, employer groups, etc. to sponsor platoons and fill their boxes. We also need volunteers to sew the Christmas stockings and donations to help with postage and filling boxes. All boxes need to be mailed by Thanksgiving, so please sign up now.
If you can help make the Christmas season merrier for our Marines in Iraq, please contact one of us:
Deb Conrad - Operation Santa Coordinator - 541-974-6948
deb@marinecorpsmoms.com
Connie Riecke - Operation Santa Coordinator - 503-838-4111
riecke@marinecorpsmoms.com
And if you can help sew stockings (this is a great time to clean out your stash of Christmas fabrics), contact:
Terry Kallmbah, Stocking Coordinator -
terry@marinecorpsmoms.com
Right now, we have 2 battalions with coordinators. If you'd like to help with one of these battalions, contact the coordinator. If you'd like to make sure another battalion is included, contact Deb or Connie.
Connie Riecke - 3/7 Marines -
Riecke@marinecorpsmoms.com
Carrie Costantini - 1st LAR -
Carrie@marinecorpsmoms.com
This project is sponsored by The Marine Corps Family Foundation, a 501(c3 organization. All donations made through the Foundation are tax deductible. We will have the Foundation website up very soon. Until then, please contact Connie Riecke at 503-838-4111 if you'd like to make a donation to the project.
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September 19, 2005
Tips for sending letters and packages to your deployed Marine
The 22nd MEU has a great list of tips for sending letters and packages to deployed troops. The list is below, with a few comments in italics from this Marine Mom:
While e-mail is a wonderful innovation in keeping connected to deployed family member, there is nothing better than holding a tangible reminder of home in your hand. Here are some basic tips for writing your deployed Marine or Sailor:
Letter Mail
- Mail is slow. First class mail will average 10 days to the ship and may take up to 20 days. Plan ahead for special dates and mail early for birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays. For some of the outlying posts, mail might only arrive every 10 days or so. If your letter arrives the day after a shipment, it will sit until the next time someone makes the trip. Mail early, mail often.
- Write often. Letters do not have to be long, but writing often is important. If that is difficult supplement with greeting cards. Getting short letters often is better than getting long letters occasionally. I tried to send a letter or at least a note every day. It's amazing how quickly you can dash off a short note in the nooks and crannies of your day - waiting for a meeting to get started or sitting at a traffic light. I kept stamped envelopes in my glove compartment and stationery in my purse, desk, and car - no matter where I was, I had writing materials.
- Number letters. The roundabout means by which mail reaches the MEU means and the fact that it arrives in bulk means that several letters may be received at once or out of sequence. Numbering envelopes and dating letters is very important.
- Keep things upbeat. By all means, let your loved one know about problems at home, but don't send a letter full of complaints and gripes. Explain any problems clearly and concisely, and include how you intend to resolve the situation. Interject all letters with amusing stories of your family's daily activities. Your Marine misses the day to day routine of home and family life - so tell him or her what you're doing. Baking cookies, raking autumn leaves from the yard, walking the dog - just a brief description will provide a touch of home through your words.
- Include pictures. I used to compose my letters on my computer and include pictures on the printed page. My son loved it - he had very limited space to keep personal belongings and since he knew I had copies of the document on my hard drive at home, he didn't feel bad about burning mail at the end of the deployment. Also, print small versions of favorite pictures. I shrank images of his family members and printed 1X2 inch prints, and he'd tuck them inside the lining of his helmet when he'd go out on patrol.
- Write self-contained letters. Don't close letters without resolving issues. Never promise to finish a story or provide resolution 'with the next letter' because you don't know how long it will take that letter to find your loved one.
- Vary your routine. Try not to send just letters, nor just greeting cards. Mix things up a bit. Send a few letters, then a card or two, and so on. While it may seem a minor point, to a deployed Marine or Sailor, it makes a world of difference for them to know you're putting thought into your correspondence. If you only have time for a short note, just write a few thoughts on the back of a photograph and drop it in the mail. It will bring a smile.
- Never write in anger. There may be times when frustration and tension build up and the best way to release it is in a letter. However, before you send out that 'flamer,' let it sit for a day or so. Give yourself time to cool down and think things over, and after a while, things might not be so bad after all. If you do feel the need to vent, do so calmly, telling your loved one how you feel and why. And then, consider burning the letter instead of mailing it. Consider why you wrote it in the first place. Because your Marine hasn't written? He or she is extremely busy - 20 hour work days aren't uncommon - and sleep might take precedence over communication. Yes, we live for those phone calls and letters home. They have so many tasks and so little time - continue being upbeat and supportive and don't add to their stress by sending negative messages.
Say what they want to hear. I love you! I miss you! Also, give them something to look forward to when they come home. I always included a glimpse of the future . . . "I can't wait until you come home and we can go camping . . . I'll bake you all the chocolate chip cookies you can eat . . . We've been invited to a tailgater at the OSU homecoming game while you're home on post-deployment leave. . . " and on and on.
Packages
- Remember, packages will be handled by a lot of people and may get crushed, so pack carefully. Use a thick, sturdy box. A shoebox just won't do. The Post Office will supply Priority Main flat rate boxes free of charge. It's just the right size for packing with a variety of items and, no matter what it weighs, it's just $7.70 to send to any deployed with a FPO/APO mailing address. Pick up a supply and fill them. I mailed care packages at least once a week and always included a few extras for Marines who didn't have family support.
- Make sure the box isn't too big for the item(s) included. Stuff the box with crumpled newspaper so things inside won't rattle around and will have a little more cushion. Extra pairs of socks also make good cushions. Especially during hot weather, your Marine will change his socks multiple times a day and there is no such thing as too many pairs of socks.
- Tape all corners and open creases securely. The Post Office won't accept scotch or masking tape because they don't hold well. Instead, use duct, nylon reinforced or paper tape. I also tape the inside seams of the boxes - it adds to the stability of the box and helps keep the dust out.
- Don't send fragile items. If you must, make sure that it is packed with extreme care. I sent my son a camera and packed it in a Pelican watertight case. It went astray and was finally returned to me six months after I sent it - and the camera was the only item in the box that survived. Everything else was permeated with dust.
- Make sure food items won't spoil or melt. There's nothing worse than getting a big lump of inedible chocolate. Fruit-based snacks, hard candies, and trail mixes are great ideas. If your Marine or Sailor has to have chocolate, send Tootsie Rolls. Also, do NOT send soap, shampoo, or any other personal care item in the same box with food. Your brownies will arrive tasting like soap, no matter how much plastic you put around them. Also, baked goods get stale quickly, unless they are vacuum packed. I invested in a vacuum packer when my son deployed last year and he reported that the cookies I sent arrived tasting as if they were freshly baked. It was good for a number of hugs at homecoming from the Marines who shared his care packages.
- Although they may be a bit out of date, send magazines and local newspapers so your loved will have an idea of what's going on back at home. I sent a box of magazines each month - the guys will read anything but especially enjoy bodybuilding, hunting & fishing, truck & car, motorcycle, and other testosterone-heavy topics. I included entrepreneur and small business magazines since they're all dreaming of the day when they'll start their own small business (no kidding, they sit around and discuss business plans) and this provides a focus and a bit of education. They'll read Maxim first, but still. And, the newspapers will be read from front to back page, especially the sports page when the home team is playing.

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September 14, 2005
Looking for a few good men . . . and their parents
If you know anyone that fits one or more of these descriptors (and yes, there are thousands that fit the first and last ones), please e-mail me at deb at marine corpsmoms.com.
- Marine that enlisted after Sept 11, 2001 with strong desire to serve his country.
- Marine gave up an athletic scholarship to college to join the Corps.
- Marine overcame some injury/illness to play sports and/or join the Corps.
- Parents who overcame their fears about their son joining/going to combat, etc., and willing to talk about it on camera.
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September 10, 2005
Helping Marine Families relocated due to Hurricane Katrina
The need for all victims of Hurricane Katrina is immense and there are many worthy charities that will put your donation to good use. I've made my initial contribution through the Red Cross and will send another one soon. Here's another opportunity that targets the Marine Reserve units based in the path of Hurricane Katrina. These include (probably not a complete listing):
Marine Forces Reserve HQ - NOLA
4th Marine Division HQ - NOLA
4th Marine Aircraft Wing - NOLA
4th Marine Logistics Group HQ - NOLA
3/23 Marines HQ - Belle Chasse, LA
MAG 42, Detachment C - Belle Chasse, LA
3rd Force Recon Co. 4th SCAMP - Mobile, AL
3rd PLT (REIN), 4th AAV BN, Co. A - Gulfport, MS
In addition, the entire 8th Marine District has relocated to Dallas/Fort Worth.
Marine families assigned to the NOLA base have been relocated (not permanently, but no ending date has been announced)to bases in Kansas City and Fort Worth. The families are arriving with little more than they could carry with them and their children are starting school without the school supplies and new clothes that were most likely left behind in New Orleans.
If you wish to make a donation that will benefit those families, the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society has established special accounts to track charitable contributions and disbursements to ensure that funds donated for this purpose are used to provide financial support to the families impacted by the hurricane.
The Society helped families with funds for evacuation prior to the storm and now will help to meet ongoing needs. Individuals, organizations and corporations wishing to make a donation to help these families can send a check payable to NMCRS (or Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society) to:
875 North Randolph Street, Suite 225,
Arlington VA 22203.
In the lower left corner of the check, please annotate Hurricane Katrina Relief. All donations will be acknowledged by the society. The NMCRS is also accepting online donations at this link. I just tested it by making a donation and it works just fine.
I'm working on contacts for sending contributions for families temporarily (long term) to Fort Worth and Kansas City. I'll update this post as I receive information.
UPDATE - 9/13/05
Donations to assist Marine families relocated to Dallas/Fort Worth are sought.
Make checks payable to: Metroplex Marine Charitable Trust Fund
Mailing Address
Metroplex Marine Charitable Trust Fund
900 Jackson St. Suite 150
Dallas, TX 75202
On the memo line please state "for New Orleans Marine Families".
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June 18, 2005
Make a difference in the life of a wounded hero
Col. John Folsom with the Wounded Warrior Project sent this wish list from Senior Master Sergeant Elizabeth Christiansen who is assigned to the the currently deployed 332 Air Expeditionary Wing, Expeditionary Medical Group.
Dear Colonel Folsom,
Thank you for taking the time to speak with me. As you probably are aware, we are an extremely busy, advanced, state of the art, trauma hospital and see upwards to over a thousand patients a month. Some patients are returned to duty directly from the hospital while others are sent over to the CASF for air transportation to higher levels of health care at places such as Landstuhl, Germany.
The reason I am writing is to request your help in finding certain items that we are in need of here. Due to our high patient load, we are in constant need of hygiene and clothing items. Because of the urgency of our patient's condition, they usually arrive here without these necessities. When our rotation arrived here at the beginning of May the supplies seemed adequate, however they have rapidly dwindled, are almost gone, and we are not sure where to find replenishment. Any assistance you can provide us will be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for your kindness and all the work you do for the American forces.
Respectfully submitted,
ELIZABETH M. CHRISTIANSEN, SMSgt, USAF
Health and comfort items for the patients:
Air freshener (spray)
Baby wipes
T Chap Stick
Deodorant
Female items
Kleenex
Lotion
Magazines, CDs
Mirrors
Q-tips
Shaving cream & Razors Shampoo & conditioner
Stationary & Pens
Sunscreen
Soap & body wash
Toothpaste, toothbrushes, mouthwash, floss
Sweat pants & matching shirts/T-shirts (Male & Female)
Socks (Male & Female)
Sports bra's (small, medium, & large)
Woman's underwear
Boxers
Towels
Washcloths
Pillowcases
Twin bed sheets
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When Marines are medevaced after suffering a combat or other injury, often they arrive with only the clothes they are wearing. If you can supply any of these items, please e-mail me at deb@marinecorpsmoms.com for a mailing address. Please send only these items and make certain that you list all items sent on the customs forms. Please do not send aerosol cans of shaving cream or air freshener. Spray bottles of Febreze (well wrapped in ziploc bags to contain possible leakage) and gel cans of shaving cream should be fine. Your generosity will be greatly appreciated by our wounded troops.
And, check out the Wounded Warrior Project for an update on the Backpack project:
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Helmets to Hardhats
Here's an excellent transitional support site for Marines returning to civilian life. A new federally-funded program called Helmets to Hardhats will help those with military experience find work in civilian construction trades that are experiencing labor shortages.
Retired USMC Major General Matthew Caulfield and his son Dan Caulfield who served as a Marine Corps officer during the Persian Gulf War are the program's principal organizers. They believe that military people are uniquely qualified to reinforce the construction industry.
Major General Caulfield remarked; "We need people to maintain our infrastructure, our roads and bridges and dams. The way we're going, in 10 years we won't have enough iron workers. What better source of people to bring into the construction industry than those who have already been trained in the military?"
The discipline and leadership skills attained during military service transfer well to the civilian world. Please pass this message along to Marines and other troops who are reentering civilian life. See a video about the program here.
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June 06, 2005
Special requests
We've posted lists of care package items before, but there's no better source for suggestions than our Marines. Here's a wish list from Capt John A. Kasparian for 3/25 Marines in the wild wild west of Iraq.
We have a few things that we would really like to get.
A few special requests for care packages that we value at Camp Hadithah and our other Camps between combat operations... Some of it is pure fun stuff.
Handy Wipes, Lunch Food, Computer Data Sticks, DVD's, CD's, and
headsets. The Marines come out of the field and like to listen to music or play DVD's. Many of the Marines have portable DVD players and IPods. In my day it used to be a book and an old newspaper!!
A group gift that we value higher then most items: If a group of people want to send something special, Projectors (One Eyes we call them) are GOLD! When we conduct combat operations out of our camps, we sometimes come back and everyone crowds into someone's room/tent and we project movies on the wall. It's a great moral booster.
Also, we donate a lot of our items to Iraqi families. Some things that are outside the normal military Civil Affairs are:
a. School supplies (markers, crayons, notebooks, calculators, etc.)
b. Children's wristwatches
c. Toys (stuffed animals, soccer balls, frisbees, etc.)
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Capt Kasparian and his Marines are halfway through their deployment. If you'd like to send a care package to this group, e-mail me for an address.
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June 01, 2005
Support our Severely Injured Troops
Major Steve Danyluk who is back from Iraq and now serving as a liaison with the Military Severely Injured Joint Support Operations Center in Arlington, VA, sends this update:
On June 3rd I will have an opening consisting of appx. 35 photographs that I took in Iraq at a Gallery in Fredericksburg, VA called "The Wounded Bookshop," (event poster attached). The portraits will be on display for the month of June and will be sold on "bidding" basis. 100% of the proceeds will be donated to the "Fisher House" and the "Semper Fi Fund," two non-profits that are currently providing support to the wounded service-members from OIF/OEF and their families.
Locally, the Fisher House is providing accommodations to the families of wounded service members at their three houses on Walter Reed Army Medical Center, two homes on the Bethesda National Naval Medical Center and single home on Andrews AFB.
This is a private venture and is not being conducted in affiliation with any government/non-government agency. If you are able to stop by your support will be greatly appreciated, (even if you do not purchase anything).
S/F,
Maj Steve Danyluk
USMC LNO
Military Severely Injured Joint
Support Operations Center (MSIJSOC)
2107 Wilson Blvd
Arlington VA 22201
(703) 908-6276 |

Major Danyluk is a tireless supporter of services to Marines and other troops who are recovering from injuries incurred while defending our right to live freely. Please join him if you are able . . . and bring your checkbook.
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May 30, 2005
Honoring their sacrifice
Families all over the country are celebrating Memorial Day with cookouts, picnics, and by relaxing at home, secure in the knowledge that they need not fear IEDs, suicide bombers, or other terrorist attacks in their peaceful neighborhoods. Marine families with deployed sons, daughters, husbands, and wives have a new way of looking at this year old day of remembrance.
Last week, Diana Rowe-Pauls sent a picture of her brother, Captain Alan Rowe who was killed by an IED in the Al Anbar province of Iraq last year, reminding us that her brother was more than just another number. He was born on October 3, 1968 and as a young boy spent long days playing with Diana in the Idaho countryside. He played dress up in his dad's Air Force uniform and grew up to wear his own uniform - that of a Captain in the U.S. Marine Corps.
Diana said in a Twin Falls Times-News story today that:
"Our losses in Iraq are human beings who are fathers and brothers and children and friends who are loved by many. They're not just statistics." |
And Captain Rowe's widow Dawn who is raising his two children as a single parent reminds us that:
They joined of their own free will. They would never want their deaths to be thought of in vain. They would want their lives to be remembered as dying willingly for their country. They were proud to serve their country. |
Marine Mom Tammie Green, whose son is currently deployed in the same place where Captain Rowe was killed last September, observed:
In a few days I'll be 45 years old ... and for 44 of those years Memorial Day was the chance for a long weekend and a cookout with a short glimpse at a flag and a bare acknowledgement of the meaning for that holiday. This year I don't think we will even have a cookout because somehow celebrating a well-cooked burger just doesn't seem appropriate.
For 200+ years young men (and women) have died in service to our country. Some served with pride and honor, some went kicking and screaming, some volunteered, some were drafted. Regardless of their motivation for service, in the end their service has always been at the mercy and judgement of the leadership of our country ... some good and some bad. These service people did not make policy, they simply did their jobs. William Westmoreland (general from Vietnam) once said "The military don't start wars. Politicians start wars."
So regardless of your views on this war, this weekend I ask that you take just 5 minutes and honor in some small way the sacrifice of those who have lost their lives in service. Bow your head and remember those from the past and remember those still in harms way.
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Here are thousands of reasons for that moment of remembrance:
War casualties:
Iraq (March 19, 2003-present) 1,647
Afghanistan (Oct. 7, 2001-present) 187
Persian Gulf War (1990-1991) 382
Vietnam War (1964-1975) 58,200
Korean War (1950-1953) 36,574
WW II (1941-1945) 405,399
WW I (1917-1918) 116,516
Spanish-American War (1898) 2,446
Civil War (1861-1865) estimated 364,511 Union; 133,821 Confederate
Mexican War (1846-1848) 13,283
War of 1812 (1812-1815) 2,260
Revolutionary War (1775-1783) 4,435
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May 17, 2005
Marine Corps Band comes to Oregon
If you can make one of these concerts, you're in for a treat. The Marine Band San Diego will be in Oregon from May 22-28, playing in various locations around the state, sharing the Corps' musical heritage and history. All concerts are free and open to the public.
Concert schedule:
- Monday, May 23 - 1:00 p.m. World Forestry Center, Portland, OR
- Tuesday, May 24 - 6:00 p.m. Newberg High School, Newberg, OR
- Wednesday, May 25 - 7:00 p.m. West Albany High School, Albany, OR
- Friday, May 27 - 5:30 p.m. Evergreen Aviation Museum, McMinnville, OR
Each base has their own band - here's a picture of the 29 Palms band that played when Shane's company came home in March. They arrived just after dusk to entertain the waiting families. And, they stuck around until the guys came home just before midnight.
The band members are first rate musicians - the qualifications are stringent. However, unlike civilian bands, all band members are capable of picking up a rifle and fighting alongside any other Marine. Even the bases in Iraq have bands (the 1st MARDIV band deployed along other Camp Pendleton units), although the musicians are also pulling guard duty and fighting along side other Marines. The asst. drum major for the band assigned to the President was a heavy machine gun operator when he was deployed to Iraq.
The band music is wonderful - I've downloaded it before and transferred it to my cell phone and now when Shane calls, he has his own special ring tone - The Marine Corps Hymn. When my Marine mom friends call, it plays Semper Fidelis, and when anyone else calls, it plays The Washington Post.
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May 13, 2005
I hope we make you proud
The Marine Corps Family Foundation was established last year as a means for Americans to support Marines deployed at war. After Operation Santa USMC was completed in December and over 6,000 Marines received Christmas-in-a-box we were overwhelmed with the many responses from the many Marines who were so happy that they were rememebered and supported by our efforts. At that time I was humbled by their gracious thanks. Today was no different. Read on for the whole story.
In March a very energetic Girl Scout called me to ask if I knew how she could deliver Girl Scout cookies to our troops. The girls in her troop had sold cookies and as they did they encouraged their customers to make donations of cookies to our troops, resulting in over 12 cases of cookies donated.
It was easy to help these young American Girl Scouts to complete their mission. Deb and I had names of Marines who had just been deployed to Iraq, and we were more than happy to send those yummy boxes to the most deserving, our Marines.
But, that is just the beginning of this story. Here we are safe and sound living our lives in a country of freedom and wealth, sending cookies to Marines halfway around the world in a country that is just learning trust and freedom. It is a place of known danger everyday. We are all thankful for our military, its strength, its the courage and unselfish dedication. And, in some way small way Girl Scout cookies seem like a way to say thank you and we support you.
Several Marines sent to us their thanks. The following is a letter I recieved from a Marine that enjoyed this small token of appreciation. I do not know him. I will probably never have the opportunity to meet him. But, once again his words were just too much for this mother of a Marine.
Dear Friends,
Your unwavering support gives us all renewed strength. Words cannot express the joy I have to serve you and to bring freedom to others. With wonderful people like yourselves, it is an honor and a privilege being a Marine. I must say your cookies are a fantastical banquet in which we partake daily :) I hope we make you proud. Thanks again for your support, may God bless you in all that you do. Semper Fi.
Your Friend,
Cpl. Nighswonger/USMC |
So, the next time you wonder what you could do to help, or if it would really make a difference. Know that anything and everything is appreciated. A simple letter or card, cookies, or a magazine, you decide. Our Marines deserve your love, support and gratitude, and showing it through a donation to a supportive foundation like The Marine Corps Family Foundation or simply sending your own box of goodies will be a blessing.
You too will be humbled by the gratitude of these great Marines, who make us proud everyday.
Donations can be made to the Marine Corps Family Foundation, 4500 Ruby Ct NE, Salem, OR 97305 or email Deb@marinecorpsmoms.com or cjr@marinecorpsmoms.com .
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May 10, 2005
Kevin Francois is back in school after suspension reduced
As reported by The Moderate Voice, Kevin Francois is back in school after his ten-day suspension was cut to three days. He's back in school now, according to today's Ledger-Enquirer:
Kevin, 17, a junior at Spencer, was suspended Wednesday for 10 days for cursing and being defiant after he was told to give up his cell phone during his lunch period while talking to his mother, Sgt. 1st Class Monique Bates, who serves in Iraq with Fort Benning's 203rd Forward Support Battalion, 3rd Brigade, 3rd Infantry Division.
According to the Muscogee County School District's policy, students are allowed to have cell phones in school but cannot use them during school hours.
Kevin's suspension was reduced Friday after his story caught national attention. He served only two full days.
At Monday's meeting, Spencer principal Olivia Rutledge and assistant principal Alfred Parham discussed behavior expectations and methods of supporting Kevin, according to a media release from the school district. It also stated that Kevin will not be penalized for his suspension, and Hartwell will meet with his counselors and teachers today.
"They were calm about it and very professional about it," Hartwell said. "I was really happy with them."
In a press release, Muscogee County School District Superintendent John Phillips said Kevin would be asked to sign a "behavior contract" to return to school.
"We didn't have to sign the contract as long as we worked out a deal with him and how he behaves in school and don't mess up in grades," said Hartwell. She said she knew only through the Ledger-Enquirer that a meeting was set for Monday. Kevin and Hartwell, instead, arrived at the school as the second bell rang at 7:30 a.m. for class to begin. Earlier, Hartwell said she and Kevin turned down a morning interview with Fox News in Atlanta to get him back in school.
During the meeting, the school's switchboard remained busy with callers upset about Kevin's suspension. But it wasn't as bad as Friday, said secretary Lillian Humber, who remained calm and pleasant as she answered each call.
"It looked like Christmas lights," said Humber, referring to hundreds of calls and e-mails from Friday.
Here's what continues to bother me about this story. Kevin has maintained that he told the teacher who first approached him, Felicita Pescia, "This is my mom in Iraq. I'm not about to hang up on my mom." The story continues:
Kevin said Pescia tried to take the phone, causing it to hang up. Pescia hasn't been reached for comment. He then went with Pescia to the school's office, where a secretary took the phone out of his hand, Kevin said. The phone rang again. Kevin said his mother left a message since he could not answer it. He said he told the officials it was his mother. The Ledger-Enquirer verified the 12:37 p.m. message during an interview Thursday with Kevin. In the message, played for a reporter, his mother scolded him for hanging up and told him to answer the phone when she calls.
The principal, Alfred Parham, (who evidently has some family issues himself-see comment from Jackie Kane Parham) has disputed Kevin's story. The superintendent has all but called him a liar. And one of his teachers, in a comment left on the original MCM entry, is evidently questioning whether the call really was from his mother, despite the verification from the Ledger-Enquirer. Does this sound like a supportive atmosphere? Not to me.
Here's what Kevin's science teacher has to say:
Hi, I am one of Kevin's teachers. I sympathize with Kevin, if that was his mother that called. Unfortunately, nearly every student has a cell phone in class and half of our students here at Spencer have parents in the military. Many of those parents are in Iraq and Afghanistan. I have a hard enough time preparing them for life as an adult without my students answering cell phones in class, lunch or on campus, regardless of who it might be. I would think a reasonable adult could understand this. I support my administration and their decisions. If his mother wants to talk to Kevin during school hours she can call the office so we know it's a legitimate call. Kevin can be called into the office very quickly and efficiently.
To the best of my knowledge (which is better than the general public's in this situation), Kevin was disciplined because of his uncontrolled behavior afterwards, not because of his phone call. Kevin was suspended 3 days instead of 10. And, he was back in class today where I agree he is supposed to be. We all have situations from time to time that require special attention. Kevin, along with the rest of us, needs to make sure to keep a calm attitude and be constructive. That's what we're hoping to teach our students.
Sincerely, Kevin's Science Teacher
I agree that everyone involved needs to maintain a calm and constructive focus. However, I think this teacher is missing the point. There is a huge difference between a student chatting with a friend during class and a student standing outside the school on his lunch break talking with a deployed parent. If the faculty and administration in this school district cannot or will not differentiate between these two scenarios, there are some serious problems.
This teacher's suggestion that parents be required to call the school office is problematic. Deployed troops might stand in line for hours for a 10-20 minute phone call. Requiring that phone calls go through a central switchboard and be approved (the process for approval has not been explained) and the student be called to the office is unwieldy at best. I have often been placed on hold when calling my son's high school. Who would determine the legitimacy of the call? The person that answers the phone? Someone else? And then, the student must be located and called to the phone. In Kevin's case, he was at lunch and could presumably be anywhere in the building. How would he be "quickly and efficiently" located?
I understand the teacher's complaint that educators at this high school have "a hard enough time preparing them for life as an adult" without allowing children of deployed troops the opportunity to talk to their parents via cell phone. However, this isn't all about the teachers. If teachers are unwilling to make a small accomodation to support the parent-child bond, it's a problem. In another year, Kevin will graduate and will never have to interact with this teacher again. His bond with his mother will last his entire life. Which relationship is more important? And which should take priority?
I'm a teacher too. As I said before, my cell phone is my lifeline to my son while he is deployed and when he calls I take his calls, no matter what else I'm doing. I would not hesitate to extend that same consideration to any of my students in similar circumstances. That is not only basic courtesy, it is common sense; something demanded of students but not always extended to them by the teachers who are busy "preparing them for life".
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May 06, 2005
Principal makes an unprincipled decision.
When my son deployed to Iraq, first in early 2003, and then again in August 2004 - my cell phone was never out of my sight - or hearing. I slept with it on my pillow. My students knew that if my son called, we took a class break until he was done talking. He often stood in line for hours for a ten minute phone call and I took no chances on missing that precious chance to connect with my son.
How much more important must it be for a son whose mother is deployed?
Read this and be outraged:
Kevin Francois gave up his lunch break to talk to his mother, but it ended up costing him the rest of the school year.
Francois, a junior at Spencer High School in Columbus, was suspended for disorderly conduct Wednesday after he was told to give up his cell phone at lunch while talking to his mother who is deployed in Iraq, he said.
His mother, Sgt. 1st Class Monique Bates, left in January for a one-year tour and serves with the 203rd Forward Support Battalion, 3rd Brigade, 3rd Infantry Division.
"This is our first time separated like this," said Francois, 17, on Thursday.
Bates came to Fort Benning with her son from Hunter Army Airfield in Savannah, Ga. She enrolled him at Spencer in August. Since her deployment overseas, Francois, whose father was killed when he was 5 years old, lives with a guardian who has five children in Columbus.
The incident happened when Francois received a call from his mother at 12:30 p.m., which he said was his lunch break. Francois said he went outside the school building to get a better reception when his mother called. A teacher who saw Francois on his phone told him to get off the phone. But he didn't.
According to the Muscogee County School District Board of Education's policy, students are allowed to have cell phones in school, but cannot use them during school hours.
"They are really allowed to have those cell phones so that after band or after chorus or after the debate and practices are over they have to coordinate with the parents," said Alfred Parham, assistant principal at Spencer. "They're not supposed to use them for conversating back and forth during school because if they were allowed to do that, they could be text messaging each other for test questions."
Francois said he told the teacher, "This is my mom in Iraq. I'm not about to hang up on my mom."
Francois said the teacher tried to take the phone, causing it to hang up.
The student said he then went with the teacher to the school's office where he surrendered his phone. His mother called again at 12:37 p.m. and left a message scolding her son about hanging up and telling him to answer the phone when she calls.
Control issue
Parham said the teen's suspension was based on his reaction when he was asked to give up the cell phone and told about the school's cell phone policy.
"Kevin got defiant and disorderly with Mr. Turner and another assistant principal," Parham said Thursday. "He got defiant with me. He refused to leave Mr. Turner's office. When a kid becomes out of control like that they can either be arrested or suspended for 10 days. Now being that his mother is in Iraq, we're not trying to cause her any undue hardship; he was suspended for 10 days."
Wendall Turner is another assistant principal at Spencer.
Parham said the student used profanity when he was taken into the office. He said he tried to work out something with the student. But Francois said he was too frustrated he couldn't answer the phone when his mother called him the second time.
"I even asked Kevin, 'You know we can try to work something out to where if your mother wants to call you she can call you at the school,'" Parham said. "So we've tried to work with Kevin and we're going to continue to try to work with Kevin and his mother and his relatives. In the course of good order and discipline, we have to abide by our policy."
Francois admitted he was partially at fault for his behavior but said he should have been allowed to talk to his mother.
"I was mad at the time, but I feel now maybe I should've went about it differently," he said. "Maybe I should've just waited outside to pick up the phone. But I don't I feel I should've changed any of my actions. I feel I was right by not hanging up the phone."
For Francois, he said he gets to hear from his mother once a month, and phone calls vary depending on when she can use the phone in Iraq. Francois said his mother calls as late as 1 a.m. to 3 a.m. and tries to catch him during hours he's awake. He said the phone ca |