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February 19, 2005



Family Ties

I started grading assignments at 8:00 this morning and finished at 9:00 tonight. My only break was a 2 hour phone conference this afternoon with two students who needed me to walk them - again - through the intricacies of how to set up and test research hypotheses. I love teaching but the neverending pile of ungraded papers caught up with me today and I'm tired. Usually, I'd perk right up with a bag of M&Ms but not tonight - first day of induction on Atkins and I'm going through sugar withdrawal. I've been working on a 60th anniversary of Iwo Jima post and didn't get it done for today. Reading about what the Marines on that beach went through is awe-inspiring. And it hits close to home, bringing a realization of just how petty my minor gripes are.

One of the highlights of our family life was twin uncles (by marriage but once I met them, I claimed them as blood relatives), Mack and Mike Hensley. They were inseparable - never married, lived all their lives as Oregon bachelor uncles. They graduated from high school together, joined the Marines on the same day, graduated from boot camp (the first graduating class at MCRD-SD), and went off to war together. They fought together during WWII, sharing a fighting hole at Guam. Mike was injured and sent home to recuperate, Mack stayed.

After WWII, the brothers went to work for an Oregon lumber company on the same day and retired on the same day many years later. When I had my son on January 14, 1984, they were his first visitors when he was just a few hours old, bringing a box of Whitman's Chocolates and charming the nurses. Every few months, they'd take us out to dinner, flirting with me and bantering with Shane. They loved him and were so proud when he left for boot camp.

When Mack died a couple of years ago, I learned at his funeral that he went on from Guam to Iwo Jima where he took part in that epic battle. One of my deep regrets is that I didn't ask more questions while he was still living. Mike lived a few more months but his twin was gone and part of his spirit died that day. I knew them for 20 years but it wasn't enough. They were good men, but that is common to the Corps. I've been thinking of them both today and hoping their memory will never be forgotten. I know that Mack and Mike went to war to protect their loved ones at home. 60 years later, a new generation of young Marines is doing the same thing.

Semper Fidelis. It's a way of life. Thank you, to all our former and present Marines who have sacrificed their own comfort and security so that we can enjoy life without putting overmuch thought into those sacrifices. It's not a small thing. I've worked 13 hours today; they fought from the same hole in the ground for weeks, knowing that the slightest mistake could mean death. I miss my carbs, they ate K rations for months. No comparison. Absolutely no comparison.

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February 18, 2005



LCpl Wichlacz: Fair Winds and Following Seas

LtCol Mark Smith sends this beautiful tribute to fallen Marine LCpl Wichlacz who paid the ultimate price for our freedom.

Thank your for your graces and patience in allowing me to be a couple of days late with this week's update. The delay was predicated on the fact that the Mad Ghosts conducted two massive Battalion level operations in the Mayhem AO this week, in order to ensure the continued dismantling and destruction of the insurgent/terrorist networks that once thrived in the Mayhem AO, and now seek their survival. As well, we have been hosting and touring with the unit assigned to replace the Mad Ghosts in the Mayhem AO, and I know for all of you that is very good news. I shall address homecoming in a follow-on update to be published today, but right now there are issues of grave importance that I must communicate to you in keeping with my promise of informing the families of all the Mad Ghosts activity, fairly and honestly.

With that said, it is again my unfortunate duty and with gut wrenching sadness that I report to you the death of Lance Corporal Travis M. Wichlacz, Fox Company, 2nd Battalion, 24th Marines, USMC. LCpl Wichlacz was killed on 05 Feb 05 when an improvised explosive device was detonated immediately adjacent to the up-armor HMMWV he was riding in. LCpl Wichlacz was part of a force conducting a raid against a suspected terrorist location when the IED was initiated. He sustained fatal injuries as a result of the explosion. He was killed instantly and felt no pain. He was secured by his brother Marines in the patrol, air med-evaced back to FOB St. Michael, and then with the utmost of dignity was prepared for his final journey home, which began approximately 12 hours after his death.


Now, when LCpl Wichlacz arrived at FOB St. Michael, I went to our Shock Trauma Building to greet him. The Medical Section, our fabulous Navy Surgeons and Corpsman from the US Navy, conducted their unfortunate task of documentation and identification. This is not enjoyable duty, but the professionalism and reverence with which these amazing Sailors conduct this task touches your heart and your soul. They may be Sailors, but my US Navy Staff are Mad Ghosts, part and parcel of this Mad Ghost Team, and will forever have both my undying respect and my gratitude, for they give everything they have (and then some) to tend to the wounds of my Marines, both living and dead. Following the medical responsibilities, the Navy Chaplain Lt. Manilla gathered us all around the peaceful body of LCpl Wichlacz and said both a blessing and a prayer. I then held his hand and wished him Fair Winds and Following Seas for his final journey home. And, I told him JOB WELL DONE! For he had given all that others would live, and live abundantly, in freedom and with the ability to seek their own journey. For this, I know he will be rewarded in Heaven.

Then, you leave the building. This is the moment that the Devil has his day. For at this point, I was filled with anger, hate and rage! The mind races with thoughts of vengeance. The body wants to lash out in violence in pay back for what has been done. And, you then look around at all the tools of violence and destruction at your immediate disposal and realize it would not be a hard thing to do!!! But, as it should be with the Devil, he gets but that fleeting moment of control, because the rage is replaced with respect. The respect of a fallen hero who calls to you to remember who and what you are: A UNITED STATES MARINE. The hero himself seems to speak to you from beyond the land of the living and reminds you that we are the ones that do good, and destroy only evil. He tells you that we came to free the oppressed and set the conditions for long-term stability in a region that has never known it, and by doing so will ensure the freedom and safety of our beloved back home. No, it is but a very fleeting moment that the Devil gets, it is a LIFETIME of remembrance, respect and honor that the hero earns. That we will never dishonor our fallen, that we will stay our course no matter how difficult, that WE WILL ACHIEVE VICTORY is the only outcome there can be! And, with YOUR Marines, YOUR Mad Ghosts, that is what it shall be. VICTORY with honor. VICTORY that delivers violence ONLY to the cowardly enemy, and compassion, respect and admiration for the people of Iraq, who we free and protect, and who have suffered unspeakably for far too long.

When this moment of illumination comes, from which all follow on actions are guided, I will tell you, it comes with intense grief. But that is O.K. That grief only speaks to the righteousness of the cause and the realization of the heavy price freedom requires. LCpl Wichlacz paid it, we now have a lifetime to earn it.

I am not a fan of Hollywood for its politics. I have never really been able to grasp, in my simple Hoosier mind, why people who make a grotesque amount of money by pretending to be something, honestly and earnestly believe that we care what they have to say about politics. No, that one has always escaped me. I mean, playing pretend is what my angelic daughters do, and although I love them more than I love my next breath, and would lay down my life for them, I have come to the conclusion I do not want Brittani and Nichole establishing National Policy and the use of force to achieve it...at least not while they are 8 and 6! So, I kind of feel the same way about Actors. But, as an art form, as a medium designed to stimulate the mind and touch the soul, well, on that count, sometimes Hollywood hits it out of the park. One such instance was the movie Saving Private Ryan. For if you would, my wonderful families of 2/24, I would like to ask you in light of LCpl Wichlacz passing, and in honor of all 11 of our fallen heroes, to reflect with me. Reflect on the final scene in Saving Private Ryan. The scene where Ryan is old, gray, round and soft in the middle, and he is with his wife and fully-grown children. They are visiting Arlington National Cemetery. Ryan is at the grave of his Company Commander and reflecting on the events of a battlefield over 50 years past.

He is reflecting on the shared violence, the shared hardship and the death of his comrades. As he is reflecting, he is sobbing. Sobbing the tears of a pain that knows no relief, knows no easing in its passage of time. And then, he says to his wife, words to the effect of, "tell me I am a good man. Tell me I have been a good man." Many is the time, 11 to be exact, that all I wanted in this whole world was to feel the soft hand of my beautiful and loving wife on the back of my sobbing head and telling me I am a good man, that I have done right by my Marines and my country. Because, you see, that is what we owe LCpl Wichlacz, our 11 and all who have given their lives in this and all previous Wars. We owe them to live good lives. Good lives in the sense that we always think first and foremost of the cost of freedom! That we remember a life lived free, is a life lived without hardship, and most of the time in frivolity and miniscule tasks. But the majesty of it, is that we have the time and space to be engaged in the frivolous and miniscule. That we grocery shop, go to movies, go to ball games, eat out, eat in, barbeque, drink beer or not drink beer, attend the soccer games, watch our kids flip monkily through gymnastics, go to Disneyworld...we do all these without nary a thought, because a lineage of Warriors since 1775 have given us that freedom. That we never forget that, that we always pay honor to that is OUR CHARGE. Please ladies, understand, no preaching of morality here. I am not defining living a good life by any means other than NEVER forgetting what the price of our American lives really is. Our freedom, our ability to do the things we do as Americans, which we Mad Ghosts miss so dearly and will never take for granted, has been paid for with the blood of YOUNG Americans in battle. That the National Anthem ALWAYS be sung with that in mind, that the pledge of allegiance always be said with pride, conviction and a commitment to defend it, that you respect the flag when you see it, these are the requirements of a "good life" for an American. Never forget these MEN! Never forget these Warriors! And, in our case in particular, as the families and Marines that are 2/24, NEVER FORGET THESE MAD GHOSTS! For the reasons for which I would rightfully earn eternal damnation are many and varied, but that I ever dishonor these wonderful heroes, well, I am confident that will not be one of them!

So in your reflection, please join me in a final farewell to LCpl Travis M. Wichlacz: good night sweet and gentle Warrior. You have touched us all. We have been deeply and profoundly saddened by your death, but we have been even more enlightened and touched by YOUR LIFE. Rest in the embrace of angels, Travis, rest in the embrace of angels! WE LOVE YOU.

God Bless the Magnificent Marines and Families of 2/24.

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February 17, 2005



A MasterCard commercial gone wrong

$ 300.00- digital camera sent at time of deployment
$ 400.00 - printer and additional digital camera sent during deployment
$1300.00 - laptop computer, software, card reader, and blank CDs sent during deployment

Receiving the first picture e-mailed from the sandbox after six months of waiting . . . and realizing that your son is standing in an Iraqi jail cell in his underwear, holding a weapon, and smoking a cigarette. Priceless.

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MSSG-31 reports from Iraq

LtCol James A. Vohr sends this note to the families of MSSG 31 - another group looking forward to returning home.

Wanted to bring you up to date on what we have been doing lately here at the MSSG. I don’t know if you might have seen the article on the Marine Corps Official Website highlighting the end of operations in Iraq for the 31st Marine Expeditionary Unit (31st MEU). MSSG 31 is a member of this organization, so this message applies to us and we have completed operations as well. Our focus now has shifted to the multitude of tasks it takes to get a unit ready for redeployment.

I’ve said it before and I will repeat it now. You would not believe how these Marines and Sailors have matured. We held a crew-served weapons shoot the other day to check weapons functioning and to re-familiarize all Marines with the skills required to operate the .50 caliber machine gun and the M240G. The non-commissioned officers manned each weapon and we cycled the junior Marines through to fire. To the man (and woman), they knew what they were doing and handled the weapons with proficiency. These are all Marines whose primary military occupational specialty is something other than infantry, and yet they know how to handle weapons. Even our Corpsmen were involved and they are as competent as the Marines.

Speaking of the Corpsmen, I am extremely proud of the entire Health Services Platoon. Throughout the deployment, their motto has appeared to be, “how can I help.” They have been involved in everything from convoy support to providing medical care to insurgent detainees. Our medical officer led a trauma team at BRAVO Surgical Company during the fight for Fallujah, and I am sure made a life or death difference for many wounded Marines. Since the 31st MEU and the MSSG were at different locations, our dental officer served as the 31st MEU surgeon, and employed her Arab language skills to support the civil affairs efforts in the 31st MEU’s operating area. To top it all off all of the Corpsmen have all qualified for their FMF pins, a difficult challenge requiring them to master many skills normally associated with Marines and pass a proficiency exam. It is unheard of to have a 100% qualification rate.

I’ll keep you posted on our progress. There is still a lot of work to be done, but I am confident the Marines and Sailors of MSSG 31 will do it well. We are all looking forward to seeing the green Island of Okinawa, Japan!

Until next time and as always, I’m proud and you should be proud of the Marines and Sailors of MSSG 31. It is an honor to serve with them

Thanks for all your support

Sincerely,

J. Alex Vohr

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February 16, 2005



Valentine kisses

Photo by: Cpl. K. T. Tran
1MARDIV Marines with Civil Affairs Detachment 4-4, RCT 1 passed out Valentine's card and candy to kids in Fallujah last Monday while checking progress on several local projects. Here, Cpl. David Pavon, a civil affairs NCO gets a thank you kiss from 8 year old Rajah.

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February 15, 2005



Seeing Stars and Earning Stripes

On Saturday, a few NR folks visited Walter Reed. Here's Jim Robbin's most memorable observation:

One of the wounded Marines was in ICU, and was still feeling the effects of the anesthesia, having just come from surgery. A Lieutenant General stopped by to see how he was.

"How are you doing, Lance Corporal?" he said.

"Lance Corporal my a**," the semi-conscious Marine said, "I have enough time in to be a Corporal by now." The 3-star nodded, went off and made a phone call. Within the hour the young Marine had his corporal's stripes.


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Know them, thank them, never forget them

Kathryn Lopez met a few good men in a Georgetown eatery last week - Marines recuperating at Walter Reed. She shares this encounter with the rest of us:

Every American should have the privilege of knowing the caliber of Americans who go off to war to protect us. He's a Marine who nonchalantly gets up and walks around the table to cut his one-armed brother's steak for him. He's a Marine who with one arm closes and lifts his brother's wheelchair into a car. He's still strong — still stronger than I am, for sure — and no enemy's going to take that away from him if he has anything to say about it. He's a boy whose youth shocks you, who is minus a leg, who spent months in a coma, and who has three brothers who have signed up for the war effort in some way. He's Casey Owens, who so many of us saw salute the president on Inauguration Day, from his wheelchair, and who's probably the best spokesman for the war out there. On Saturday night, when a few Marines took the night off from Walter Reed for dinner and drinks at a happening Georgetown restaurant and bar, everyone wanted to know him — and thank him — and never forget him.

There are so many stories from this war that will never be told, individuals most Americans will never know about. He who had the top of his skull blown off — but he'll take his headaches because he is grateful to be alive.

These guys consider themselves the lucky ones, you see. They weren't killed.

Of course, we are the lucky ones — to have them.

There's more. Visit the National Review site to read it all.

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February 14, 2005



A Valentine for Military Spouses

A Valentines Message from the 3/8 Commanding Officer to the families at home:

I?d like to take this opportunity this Valentines Day to say thank you for all that you do.

Being a military spouse is not easy,
Especially on the most challenging deployment
But the mission we have to accomplish is important
And critical to the success and future of Iraq.

The sacrifices you make on behalf of your Marine or Sailor are great and put a strain on the strongest of relationships.

So on this Valentine?s Day, I would like to say thank you for keeping the fire in the home lit, bread on the table and for the loving support you give each day.

Thank you again for your patience, understanding and devotion.

Best Wishes and Happy Valentines Day!
S.M. Neary

For Cassandra and Carrie, Mrs. Blackfive and Mrs. Greyhawk, for Diana and Amy, Mary Helen, Sarah, and all the other Marine (and other military) wives out there - Happy Valentines Day!



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February 13, 2005



Flat Stanley at Landstuhl

Marine wife and tireless troop supporter Diana Hartman updates us on her latest visit to Landstuhl:

heyas, we're running to landstuhl today with a full load in the durango...i've concentrated on getting clothes and backpacks up there...if you know how big a durango is, all the seats are down and i've packed it from just behind the driver's seat to the ceiling and to the sides and all the way back, and i still have more clothes left here...they're long on toiletries so those will go up in a couple of weeks...that'll give me more time to get bagged up what i still have...

so yous know, the toiletry supplies and funds sent to me have provided over 400 21-item bags and i still have stuff to make more...

we're taking stuff today because they have just enough room for what i'm taking...

it's a little rainy today but the temperature will be over 40 (finally )...

i took a wee bit of time off to take my family to salzburg austria (sound of music country, mozart's birthplace) and we'll be heading to lucerne switzerland before our next landstuhl trip...

we're also taking a little girl with us to landstuhl...well, we're taking a picture of her...she's a 2nd grader from colwich kansas who is participating in the "flat stanley" project...if you're not familiar with it, the book "flat stanley" is about a little boy who gets flattened by a bulletin board and is sent traveling around the world by his parents via the mail system (cos it's cheaper than flying!)...
kids who participate in the "flat stanley" project trace their bodies onto paper and attach a picture of their face to the top of the paper and cut the whole thing out and put it in an envelope to travel the world...the "flat child" comes with a log of where she's been, and those who receive it pass it on...
thus, we received our little 2nd grader a few days ago...
she's been photographed in front of the headquarters for marine forces europe with a marine (hubby!) and will get her picture taken today with the marine liaisons at landstuhl...she will also travel with us to switzerland...
today, my teenagers and my 11 yr old put together a package for our flat child and her classmates...they sent loads of german chocolate for her classmates and her teacher, a t-shirt and magnet for her, and we mailed stuttgart postcards so she (the real child) can attach it to the map of the places she's been...

my "flat stanley", a ms. mackenzie from colwich KS, visited with the marine liaisons today...she was a big hit! from left to right is sargeant becker (originally from lawrence KS) holding mackenzie's right hand, gunnery sargeant velasquez (originally from chicago IL) holding mackenzie's head, sargeant garthaus (i didn't get his hometown) holding mackenzie's left hand, and of course ms. mackenzie herself!

Photo by Diana

behind these fine outstanding marines is the shipment we took up there today...they were running a tad low on backpacks and duffle bags so we brought what they needed...between mmos and the efforts of spouses at marforeur, i think the storage units will be replenished adequately for some time...woo hoo!


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